Indlela yokuziphatha ngexesha lokukhulelwa

Ubomi yinto esiyibonayo. Ngoko ke, iziganeko ezifanayo ngabasetyhini abahlukeneyo zingabonwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ungaphathi imeko yakho njengesifo okanye into engathandekiyo. Ekuqaleni, zama ukunandipha yonke iminithi yokukhulelwa, musa ukukhawuleza izinto. Cinga ngezinto ezilungileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi baxhatshazwa yiloyiko ngempilo yomntwana, ngakumbi ukuba ukukhulelwa kuyinkimbinkimbi.

Kule meko, kukho umsebenzi osebenza kakuhle kakhulu: vala amehlo uze ucinge umntwana wakho ngokuchanekileyo ngokunokwenzeka. Phinda ubhale ngomunwe ngezandla nangeenyawo, jonga amehlo akhe amhle. Khawucinge ukuba uyamemeza njani, indlela afika ngayo kuwe. Memeze, lungisa lo mfanekiso kwimemori yakho. Ukuba akusebenzi ukusebenza okokuqala, phinda de kube umfanekiso ucacile. Kwaye xa nithe na kuhanjelwa zizinto ezimbi, "zibandakanya" umfanekiso oqulunqweyo. "Ndikholelwe, oku kukukhusela kakhulu kunengcamango engathandekiyo nemvakalelo.
Musa ukuzivala kunye nemeko yakho. Khumbula ukuba ngoku unako ixesha elininzi lokukhulula, eliza emva kokuzalwa kwe-crumb liza kubonakala kungekudala. Kakade, umntu akafanele azame ukuqonda yonke into ephuphayo iminyaka emininzi, kodwa akufanelekanga ukuthatha imizuzu ukuphulaphula iimvakalelo zomzimba wakho. Hlangana nabangani, uye kwi-cafe, kwiindwendwe, kwaye akukho namathuba anele okwenza umdla othakazelisayo! Ukuphazamisa kwimeko yakho, thetha nabahlobo bakho ngezihloko ezimnandi, kwaye ixesha liya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.
Yithemba, kodwa khangela. Ukuba unamathele ekuzalweni kwemvelo, uzive kakuhle, kwaye ugqirha ugxininisa kwinqanaba lezityalo, zama ukudibana nezinye iingcali. Ukukhulelwa kokukhulelwa akusisixilongo. Usana luyakwazi ukuzalwa ngaphandle kwempawu zokugqithisa kunye neeveki ezingama-42. Isidingo sokuvuselela kunye necesarean section kufuneka siqinisekiswe ngokuhlalutya kunye ne-ultrasound.
Musa ukulibala ukuba ngoku ungoxanduva lakho kuphela, kodwa kulomntwana. Ngoko ke, akufanele udibanise ixesha elide. Xoxa nge-pussy, xelela ukuba ulindela njani ibanjwa lakhe, njani ongeke ulinde ukulibona kwaye ulithathe. Ekugqibeleni, thembisa intsana into ethile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, sebenzisa zonke iindlela ukukhwela inxaxheba yakho ekukhanyeni kukaThixo.
Ukuba umntwana akayena owokuqala, banike ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka kumdala. Emva koko, yena kwaye kungekudala kungekuphela. Ukuba ulindele umntwana wokuqala, indima yomntwana omdala ingazaliseka yindoda. Ngaba uyayifuna okanye cha, kodwa ngokuzalwa komntwana, ingqalelo yakho iya kutshintshela kuye ngokungahambi, umfazi we-caress kunye namagama anomnene uya kunikwa ngokuthe ngqo. Nika umyeni wakho iholidi, makhe avuyelele uthando lwakho. Khumbula ngokuzonwabisa. Mhlawumbi ude ufune ukubona ibhayisikobho okanye ufunde incwadi enomdla? Ngoku unethuba lokuphumeza izicwangciso ezininzi (ewe, ukuba akunjalo malunga ne-skydiving okanye i-rafting kumlambo weentaba). Kha wuleza ukuba ungazalanga, kodwa wenze oko kuhleliwe kucwangciswe, kodwa akazange ube nexesha lokuqalisa. Ukukhulelwa ngenye yezona zihlandlo ezimnandi zobomi bakho. Umntwana usoloko enani, ngaphandle kokucinga malunga nento yokumondla okanye okokugqoka. Yaye nesimo sengqondo sabanye ngokubhekiselele kumfazi olindele umntwana, kunye nomama omtsha, nangona kunjalo uhlambalaza, akade efana. Ngoku yonke ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekelwa kwabathandekayo kuqondiswa kuwe, isabelo seengonyama sokubaluleka kwabasekhaya ziya kuba ngumntwana. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokubulala ixesha, kodwa ngaba lifanelekile? Emva koko, sele sekuninzi kakhulu. Hlala namhlanje, nwabele ngomzuzu, umzuzu ngamnye, ngakumbi kuba kungekho mnye umntwana ohlala ngaphakathi kumama kwaye umzuzu wokutya uza kuza ngokuqinisekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ixesha lakho liza. Ekugqibeleni ndifuna ukuphawula ukuba ukukhulelwa ngenye yezona zihlandlo ezimnandi ebomini kubaninzi bafazi, nokuba ngaba ngelo xesha kubonakala kubo. Jabulela, kwaye uvumele lonke ihlabathi likukhwele.