Ulwalamano olupheleleyo lwezesondo alinakwenzeka ngaphandle kwenkxalabo yamabini amaqabane, kwaye ukuba umntu udla ngokwaneleyo amantombazana esecaleni kwakhe okanye omnye wothando lwakhe, ngoko kunzima kubafazi ukuba balungelelanise nomoya okhulayo. Ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuvakalisa intombazana, amadoda athotyelwa ukuba akwazi ukunyamezela ukungabikho kobudlelwane bezesondo. Phantse i-30% yabasetyhini kuba abanako ukuvuyela, abayikuvuyela kwisini, kwaye banokukhetha ukuyeka ukuthandana ngokwesondo.
Indlela yokufunda ukuvuya?
Ukuxolisa kuqala ukusuka entloko - xa ubuchopho buvuthela ingqungquthela yomzimba, lunikeza uphawu kumzimba, ngenxa yoko ukuphuma kwegazi lomzimba wonke kusebenze kwaye ukunikezelwa kwegazi kwimizimba ye-pelvic kuqinisa, imfihlelo yesini igxininiswe. Ngaloo ndlela, umzimba wonke ujongene nenkqubo yobudlelwane bezesondo. Ngoko ke, okokuqala, ukuqala inkqubo yokuxolisa, umntu kufuneka acinge ngezinto ezinxulumene nezinto ezinokuzonwabisa, abone ngeso lengqondo, bazilungiselele kwi-wave wave. Kucacile ukuba imisebenzi ejikeleze indlu, usuku olusebenza nzima kunye nezinye iingxaki zasekhaya zikunqanda ukuba ufumane uvuyo kwaye ujolise kumava ocansi. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa umgangatho wekhaya, umsebenzi kunye nokuzilibazisa, ukwazi ukutshintsha ukusuka kwelinye ukuya kwelinye, ukuphosa ngaphandle kwentloko yonke ingcinga malunga neengxaki eziphuthumayo.
Ngantoni na ukukhawulela intombazana?
Kwinqanaba lokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhokela iingcamango zentombazana ngendlela elungileyo-ukuthetha ukuba uyamncoma, ukuba uqaphele ubuhle kunye nokukhangeka komzimba wakhe, ukulungelelanisa ubungqina bomzwelo kunye nomzimba. Ukongezelela, phambi kohlobo olufanelekileyo, umntu angaya kwi-caresses yokuqala. Akufanele ulondoloze ixesha kunye nemizamo ukudala isimo sengqondo - umntu ovusa intombi yakhe ekugqibeleni uya kufumana ukuzonwabisa. Ukusila okulula kunye ne-overtones ekhuselekileyo kukunceda intombazana ibe nemihlali ngokukhawuleza, ngenxa yoko, indoda ifanele ibe yinyameko, kodwa iphikelele, nayo yonke into ethintela umnqweno wokwenza kakuhle. Ukuqala ukusilalisa okunjalo kunokwenzeka kwiindawo ezingathathi hlangothi zomzimba (amanxeba, imilenze, umva) ngokuthe ngcembe ehamba entanyeni, esifubeni, ezinqeni nasezintanyeni, echukumisa into eyenza kucaciswe ngomnqweno weqabane kunye nokubeka intombazana kwisini.
Indlela yokufunda ukuvuyisa nokuphuhlisa isimo sengqondo?
Ukukwazi ukukhawuleza kufumaneka ukwazi ukufunda ngokuqeqesha. Ngokungafaniyo neendlela ezinjalo zokulawulwa kwimeko yomzimba, njengendlela yokuzilolonga ngokomzimba, indlela kufuneka iphelele. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuhlakulela isimo sengqondo ngokubanzi-ukuzama ukunambitheka okutsha, ukuzama ukuziva zonke iimpawu zazo, ukutya iziqhamo ezingapheliyo kunye nokutya okucokisekileyo, ukucebisa ukubonwa kwezinto ezibonakalayo. Oku kuncedwa ngokudalwa kwintando yothando. Ngoko, iintyatyambo, ii-linki ze-bed linen, amafutha anamakha kunye namakhandlela zinceda "ukuguqula" ukuziphatha kunye nokubonakalisa ukukhanya kwizandla zomlingane.
Ukuhlakulela ubunono bunceda iilerie ze-silly - silk, i-lace kunye nezinto ezinomdla ezinxulumene nomzimba onqamle ukuvuselela ukuvakalelwa kwayo kwaye zenze izinto ezintsha ezithandekayo. Isambatho esinobuchopho obuvusa ukuziphatha kwakho ngendlela efanayo kuya kuphazamisa iqabane, liza kuzisa into enxulumene nolwalamano. Ibhanji kwamehlo kunokukwenza ukuba iimvakalelo zibe nzima kakhulu, kuba ekungabikho kwesigxina kwizitho ezibonwayo, umzimba ugxininise kwezinye iimvakalelo - ukuvumba, izandi, ukuthintela.
Ungonwabile njani?
Ukufunda amabali amakhwenkwezi, ukujonga iziganeko zesini, imidlalo yokudlala indima enye yeendlela ezininzi zokubandakanya ukuzoliswa kwengqondo, eya kufakelwa kuwo wonke umzimba. Kwinkqubo yokulungiselela ukuhlwa kobomi, unokucinga izinto ezinomdla ezivela kwiifilimu ezithandayo, uzama ukuziva iimvakalelo zomntu oyintloko. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kulo mzekelo kukuba ulahle yonke imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, njengeentloni neentloni. Ziyabonakalisa umdlalo kwaye ziphazamise ukuqonda ngesondo njengenxalenye engokwemvelo kunye nenandipha yobudlelwane obuvumelanayo. I-oromatic oil-aphrodisiacs, njenge-sandalwood, i-muscat, i-ylang-ylang, i-patchouli, i-rose, i-musk, inokunceda ukudala umoya wesithandane kunye nefuthe emzimbeni, ukukulungiselela umdlalo wesondo.