Ukuba konke kulungile ebomini bakho obusondeleyo, kwaye iqabane liyakwazi ukuhambisa uncedo olungaphantsi kunexesha lokuqala, ungacingi ukuba kuya kuba ngonaphakade. Ukwabelana ngesondo kukukhangela rhoqo kunye nokuzama. Ukuzinza kobudlelwane obusondeleyo kubandakanya "uhambo oluya kwicala" (kwaye lo bubungendawo obuncinane), okanye ukuhlukana kobudlelwane.
Ulwabelana ngesondo, okanye i-Just karetsa
I-sexologists ehlabathini lonke ilumkisa ngeengozi "zemikhwa" ebhedeni. Bacebisa ukuba balawule iimpembelelo zobuqhetseba, ukuthozama kwaye bahlale bejonge kwiindawo zokudala ezinjenge-RussianSexShop.com. Kodwa ukuba iqabane (okanye elinye iqabane) lingakakulungeli "ukudlala" kwisikhefu ngamathoyizi, iya kuba yinkosikazi kunye nekhoboka okanye uzame yonke i-afrozodiacs ekhoyo, bese usebenzisa ubuchule obutsha besini, i-karetsa, ngokubanzi "ukubingelela" ukusuka kuma-60, x yekhulu lokugqibela.
Ngaloo nto i-Italyistologist, uDkt. Alice Stockham, wanikela ... inqubo yokuzilahla kwi-orgasm. Hayi, hayi, ungakhathazeki, akukho bani unikezela ukuba uzibandakanye kwi-self-masochism ukusweleka kwe-orgasm. Kodwa ukutshabalalisa umnqweno, ukulibala ngokunyaniseka, ukulala kunye nokunyuka ngcamango yalo mlingane kwaye emva kweminyaka emininzi yokuhlala kunye kwakhona ukuba ungene kwi-honeymoon ye karetsa kuya kunceda ukunceda. Ngoko luhlobo luni lommangaliso oqhelekileyo, malunga neRussia, i-alas, phantse awazi nto na? AmaTaliyane ngabantu abanomdla. Yingakho isicatshulwa esicetywayo siyakuboniswa ukuba sibuyele kubantu abadala xa beselula, xa isondo sasingabonakalisi, kwaye umnqweno-unganqandeki. Kodwa nangona la maantombazana amaninzi-abafana abazange bathathe inxalenye yobuntombi (igama elingaqhelekanga kumfana, akunjalo?). Nangona kunjalo, isibini esitshatileyo singakwazi "ukulala kwisondo," ekhumbula ukuchukumisa okuthintekayo, ukubanga ehlathini, okanye ukungaziboni (okukhangayo) ukukhangela kwi-"indawo ehlukeneyo" yeqabane. Ukungabikho kwe-orgasm, njengentsikelelo yolonwabo kunye nokulindela okwethutyana kwe-culmination-ubundlobongela bezesondo zobutsha abaselula, abaxhaswa ngabalandeli be-karetsa.
I-3 ilawula i-karetsa, okanye ibuyisela ubulili obukhulu
Masithi ngokukhawuleza, ukuba sibuyele kwi-honeymoon kwisiqabane esiphila ndawonye iminyaka emininzi, kodwa "sinqabile" ubudlelwane bezesondo, kuthatha iiveki ezingama-3-4. Ngeli xesha, ngokungathi ndingafuni, kodwa awukwazi ukuphelisa ubulili! Kule meko, kubalulekile ukugcina izimo ezi-3:
- ukulala ngesondo emva kokomoya;
- kwiintsuku "zobuntwana" ukuyeka ulwalamano;
- ukugcina ukulawulwa ngamandla okunqwenelekayo kwi-orgasm (umgaqo we "pool of desires").
Ngoko, ingongoma yokuqala ingaqwalaselwa ngokulula - isenzo socansi akusiyo isandulela sokulala, kodwa ukuphela kobusuku obusondelene. Ngenxa yoko, unokuzulazula ngeendlela zangokuhlwa (imini). Okwekudliwa ekhaya, ngokukhanyisa ikhandlela. Okanye bhala nje nibhalele incwadi yothando (vumela kwifomu yekhompyutha). Okanye thumela i-SMS yomxholo ongahambelaniyo: "Ndiyamthanda, ndilindele, ndifuna!". Ngendlela, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba "iintyatyambo zentando", abantwana, bahlala kunye nogogo kulolu suku okanye balala ngokukodwa ngeyure.
Ngomhlathi wesibili, yonke into ibonakala icacile. Kodwa ukuba ukholelwa kwi-contraceptive, njengabantu baseMpuma kwiBuddha, vala amehlo akho ukuba akhombe inombolo yesi-2 kwaye uzibandakanye ngokukrakra kwisini esithandabuzayo. Ucela, ukuba isigxina asikho, kutheni ufuna iikhondom? Ewe, uyazi, ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngokukhawuleza awukwazi ukumbamba: inkolelo, ngokuqinisekileyo, intle, kodwa ubomi buninzi kakhulu ... Ubunzima kakhulu, inkohlakalo ingokugqibela, inqaku lesithathu. Umlobi wezobugcisa uchaza umxholo we "pool of desires" njengengqondo yomzimba xa kungekho mandla okunyamezela. Wena. xa i-caresses (kunye ne-podnadoevshih kunye namanye amaqabane) ayinakuphelisa i-orgasm. Xa ukuzinqanda ngokuzithandela ukusuka ekupheleni kwezinto ezithandekayo akunakwenzeka. Xa ubuncinci beqhekeza, kodwa kusekho i-orgasm! I-Laski kunye nokuziyeka isenzo sokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo esilula ixesha lomtshato, siphumelele ukunyanzelisa kwaye sinikela ngokwenene. A ndi kholelwa? Kwaye uzama! Ukutshatyalaliswa ngolunye usuku ukusuka kwi-gray gourm habit and uhlala unesibini esithintekayo ngokwesini: isilingo esinokubhenela amathoyizi kubantu abadala kunye nokuzonwabisa ngokugqithiseleyo, ngesondo!