Kubonakala ngathi lo mfazi kunye neengxaki zazalwa ngexesha elifanayo. Okanye ngaba sithandekile ukuba sibabone kuyo yonke into esisijikelezile? Okanye ngaba sinesipho esingenakuphikwa ukuba sizenze baze baze bafike nabo xa bengekho? Okanye mhlawumbi bafuna abesetyhini ukuba bagcine abantu kwizwane zabo ezinzwane?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, akufanele udale ingxaki ngaphandle kwento. Nangona le "nto" ayibaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akufanele ube nebango lakho kunye nombonakalo. Okokuqala, kufuneka uzithande ngokuba ungubani, kuba indlela oziphatha ngayo ixhomekeke kwindlela abanye abaphatha ngayo. Okwesibini, ihlabathi lanamhlanje linendlela ezininzi kunye neendlela zokulungisa yonke into nento ongayithandiyo: ukusuka kwimoko yempumlo ukuya kumiswa kwamatye. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, okwesithathu, ezinye zezimangalo zabasetyhini ekubukeni kwazo akunakunikwa ngokupheleleyo.
Enye yale ngxaki ixinzelelekile ixubusha isifuba esincinci. Kwaye banqwenela ngokwenene imibuzo engabonakaliyo yamantombazana amantombazana afana nale: indlela yokudibana nomfana, ukuba isifuba esincinane? Kwindoda ekhulileyo, encinci, ukukhala komphefumlo kuya kubangcazela. Iyintoni intlanganiso kunye nomfana kunye nosayizi webele? Okanye uyayithanda kuphela umkhonto omkhulu ka Pamela Anderson? Okanye ngaba lo luphawu olubaluleke kakhulu kumbono ogqithisileyo wesilisa? Ngaba bayakuthanda ukugubha? Ingaba lulo thando, ukuba luthando lwakhe kuphela?
Ewe, kukulungile ukuthetha nalabo sele benamava okuphila emva kwamagxa abo kunye nabathandekayo kwisitokisini. Kodwa kwezinye izilwanyana ezincinci, isifuba esincinci siba yingxaki enkulu, ngenxa yokuba loo nto intombazana iyanzima kwaye iyeke ukudibana nabantu abancinci, ihlazo lobuhlobo. Kwaye, ngokuqhelekileyo, abayikusola ukuvela nokuphuhliswa kwezi ngxaki - inkohlakalo yesondo kunye nolonwabo lobukhulu besine benza umsebenzi wabo. Enyanisweni, ingaba i-intanethi ayiyiyo indawo eyona nto, yayiza kubakho ixesha elide liphuma ekugqibeleni kwezithombe kunye neevidiyo zobumnandi kunye neebhasi ezingenakulungelelanisa kwi-lens. Musa ukulahla emva kweWebhu yeWebhu yehlabathi kunye namaphephancwadi acwecwe, ii-movie kunye ne-anime. Eyona nto, kwaye yintoni isigqibo esincinci sengqondo esinokuyenza ngokuhlaselwa okukhulu kwezinto zokunethezeka ezintle? Kakade ke, amabele amancinci anesiphene.
Kwaye kwenzeka njani izinto? Ingaba sisiphoso okanye isipho esivela kwendalo?
Njengoko sele sele iphawulwe ixesha elide, yonke into ehlabathini ixabisa kwaye ifundwa ngokuthelekiswa. Njengoko akukho zinto zithandwa ngabasetyhini, ngoko akukho nto kunye namadoda. Omnye ukhetha amantombazana abelethekileyo, kodwa umntu uthanda uphawu olulinganiselayo, olulinganayo olwenza intombazana ibonakale njengentombazana eselula. Kodwa yile nto ekuchanekileyo ukuchonga imibono yamadoda ahlukeneyo - kakhulu, ambalwa kakhulu kubo afana nesifuba esandisiweyo. Ngoko, njengoko besithi, kunotyebi, kwaye bayavuya.
Ewe, kwaye uzicinge ngokwakho, ngaba ngokwenene ukuba uluvo lomntu osemncinci onokuqhawulwa komzimba kwintombi yowesifazane unokuthathwa ngokungathí sina? Ngaba kulungele ukudibana na? Ulwalamano lwentsapho luya kuhlala luzinzile njani ukuba uthando lomntu lusekelwe kubukhulu besifuba sakho? Akuyinto ehlekisayo? Kwaye kutheni uthanda umfana? Ngaba nje ngenxa yombhede? Ngaba akunjalo ngenxa yokudala intsapho kunye nokuba nabantwana? Ndikholelwe, okulungileyo okanye okubi uya kuba ngumfazi nonina, kuxhomekeka kuwe, kungekhona ngobukhulu bomsebenzi wakho.
Ukongezelela, ihlabathi lethu liyingqayizivele, kwaye ngoko yonke into ekuyo inezinzuzo kunye nezilungelo. Ngokomzekelo, iimfanelo ezingenakuthelekiswa zesifuba esincinci sinokucingelwa ukuba ihlala ixesha elide nangaphezulu kwaye ingagqithanga emva kokuzalwa, kungekhona yodwa kuphela. Nangona isifuba esincinci sibhekisa kwakhona umfazi, ulala nayo kwisisu sakho, kulula ukugijima, ukukhwela nokukhwela ibhasikidi. Ngaphezu koko, ngamaxesha onke ahloniphekileyo kwakufuneka abe nomsebenzi omncinci, ongakhange ube negalelo elincinci kwi-corsets. O, kunzima kangakanani ukuba babe ngamantombazana abakhayo!
Ngoko into ephambili ayikho ubungakanani besifuba, kodwa inyaniso yokuba amaxesha amaninzi abafazi abayiboni ukufaneleka kwabo, kodwa bakhangelelwa ngokungazenzisiyo iimpazamo. Enyanisweni, akukho nkathazo ngesifuba esincinci, kukho inkathazo kuphela. Yaye ivela kwingqondo yentombazana ngenxa yomnqweno wokudibana nenkohlakalo ethandekayo kunye nesicatshulwayo ngokwesini kunye nokukhangela ngokuzikhethela ngokwesini. Abo bawenzayo, kucacile, kuyimfuneko - bahamba ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa kutheni ufanele uhlasele le zombie kwaye ube neentloni ngezinto ezinikezelwe ngendalo? Yonke into intombazana idinga ngesifuba esincinci ukuze udibane nomfana kukunqoba ubunzima kunye nokuqonda: ukuba amadoda ayamthanda kuphela abameli beebhasi ezinkulu, abantu babeza kufa ezininzi kwiminyaka edlulileyo.