"Akukho nto efanelekileyo emhlabeni," uNatasha wagula ngokukhawuleza. "Ndineentsapho ezifanelekileyo kunye neqabane lam ... ke, ukuba wayetyelela ukutyelela indlu kaninzi kwaye wandinika ixesha - ndiyintokazi!".
Bonke aba bafazi, bexhalabele ngengxaki enye - indlela yokuba ngumfazi oyinyani, melana nomntu othandekayo kwaye uthembele ngenkxaso yakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo phakathi kwamalingani kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ebomini kwimpilo esebenzayo kunye nepheleleyo yebhinqa, kwaye ukuyeka kunokunciphisa kakhulu ukuzithemba, impilo kunye nomgangatho wobomi.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba nomthandi kufuneka ukwazi imithetho ethile:
1. Khangela umntu ofanelekileyo olo dlelwane - akulula. Ewe, unokusebenzisa iifestile, iivenkile zokutyela, izingosi zokuthandana - ziya kukunceda ekukhangekeni kubalulekile. Qaphela, xa ukhetha kuyimfuneko kwaye kwiinqanaba zokuqala zobudlelwane obufunekayo ukuba uqhube isheke (awufuni ngokwenene ukuba ube yintlanzi yomthubi okanye i-maniac).
2. Ukuba ukhethe iqabane - kufuneka uchaze yonke imiba yeentlobongelo ngexesha elinye, kwiintlanganiso zokuqala. Qinisekisa ukuba wena kunye nomthandi wakho ufuna ubuhlobo obunjalo, kuba ngenxa yale nto unokuziphepha ezininzi iingxaki kwixesha elizayo. Kwakhona, thetha kunye nomlingani wakho, indawo, kaninzi kangakanani (inyanga, iiveki), iindlela zokunxibelelana.
3. Khangela ukuba yiziphi iingozi ezingabakho kwinxalenye yakho nangenxa yakho. Awukwazi ukuyiphatha imiphumo emihle kakhulu, njengezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo, ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo okanye umona wamadoda nabasetyhini.
4. Ukuba uqala ukutshata, uze uhlole yonke into, ungathembeli kumlingane wakho. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlangana ngokufihlakelekileyo, ke ungakhangeli umthandi kubahlobo-emsebenzini, kwintsapho, kubahlobo (apho-apho ubuhlobo buyakunciphisa khona okanye naye).
5. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu - ulwalamano nomthandi kufuneka luvuyise wena kunye naye. Ngoko ke, ukuba ulwalamano lwakho luqala, uye kwinqanaba lomona, isongelo kwinhlalakahle yakho, ubundlobongela obungokwenyama kunye nengqondo, ngoko ulwalamano kufuneka lubekwe ngokukhawuleza.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza