Ngokuqinisekileyo, simele sivume ukuba ukuziphatha okungaqhelekanga kunye nezenzo zesahlulo sesibini akunakuze kuqondwe, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuchazwa. Kwaye, ngendlela, kungekuphela kwabesetyhini, kodwa kunye namadoda. Yisiphi isizathu sokuziphatha okungaqhelekanga kwamadoda? Ewe, yonke into ikwahluke ngokufanayo kwezesini, malunga neengcali ezithi zidla ngoku. Thatha ubuncinane i-computer ye-tomography yesini esahlukileyo. Ukwahlukahlukana kuyabonakala, nangona kunjalo, akubona wonke umntu onokuzichaza.
Kwangexesha elide, ifilosofi yaseMelika kunye nomncedisi weentsapho uMichael Gurian (uMichael Gurian), umbhali othi "Ucinga ntoni? "Ingqondo yomntu isebenza njani ngempela?", Wafunda iindawo ezahlukeneyo zobuchopho, ngokukodwa, uxanduva lwengqondo yomntu, kwaye izigqibo ziyamangalisa. Kuvela ukuba ubuchopho bomntu buvelisa i-neurohormones engaphantsi kuneengqondo zesini. Intetho malunga ne-oxytocin kunye ne-serotonin, onoxanduva lokuncedisa, enye inomphumo wokuthoba. Kuya kuvela, ngubani omele uxanduva lokuba emva komsebenzi, abanamandla beli hlabathi banqwenela ukulala embhedeni kunye nolawulo lwe-TV ekude, kwaye bangathathi inxaxheba kwingxoxo malunga nendlela yokuhamba ngayo imini kunye nokokupheka isidlo sakusihlwa.
Ukuba abafazi abakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokunxibelelana ngomlomo, ngoko amadoda ahlala e-laconic kwaye athetha ukuvakalelwa. Yiyo le mfanelo enetyala lelokuba amaxesha athile nje "axhoma", ngelixa ubelana nabo into enokubaluleka kwaye ibalulekile. Uya kumangaliswa, kodwa ngeli xesha umhlobo wakho akacingi ebomini, malunga nebhiya okanye umqeshwa omtsha. Akacingi nantoni na. Kunzima ukukholelwa, kodwa kuyinyaniso. Ukuhamba ngobuqhetseba nokubetha izitya akufanelekanga, akusaziwa nokuba kuyinto embi - oku kuziphatha kwakhe okungaqhelekanga. Ukwazi "ukucima" ngokupheleleyo kwaye uphumule ekhaya, njengomthetho, kubangela umkhiqizo ophezulu kwindawo yokusebenzela. IiHormones, i-testosterone kunye ne-vasopressin zinoxanduva lokuba indoda isesha uphando rhoqo kwaye ifuna ukubonakalisa ukuphakama kwayo. Ngokwenzululwazi, kwiimeko ezininzi oku kubonakala ngokucacileyo emva kokuzalwa komntwana.
Isakhiwo esikhethekileyo sobuchopho sinesizathu sokuba isiqingatha sesibini sabemi singaboni iinkcukacha ezininzi ezithakazelisayo kwi-yethu, ibhinqa, jonga. Kuloluhlu, njengomthetho, kubandakanya i-hairstyle entsha, umququzeleli kunye nekhaya lebhizinisi. Kubonakala ngathi ayiyi kuhamba ngokubanzi. Ukulungelelanisa i-scandal yinto engenamsebenzi, ingqondo yomntu ayiyi kuyithatha, kodwa isetyenziswe kwiinqhinga ezincinci kwaye, xa kwenzeka, ukubhekisela kwinto yakhe ekhethekileyo, ebonakaliswe zizibane zesayensi, kuya kwenzeka. Enyanisweni, kungcono ukuba ungadluli, kodwa ukuba uzame ukufumana indlela efanelekileyo komnye kunye nokulungelelanisa, emva kokubonke, ukuvisisana ubudlelwane kubaluleke ngaphezu kwesibhambathiso sangasese esivulekileyo okanye i-tube evulekile yokuzinyo, kwaye ukungafani phakathi kwendoda nomfazi kukukhulu kunokuba kubonwe kwi-x-ray ngokucacileyo.
Yaye ukuba uyayigatya iibango eziqokelelwayo kwaye ujonge izinto ngokufanelekileyo, akubona wonke umntu onelungelo lokufumana ixesha kunye nesithuba sakhe somntu siqu? Emva koko, njengoko izazi zengqondo zithi, ukuhlala kunye kukudibanisa kwehlabathi ezimbini ezenzelwe ukudala inkcubeko eqhelekileyo, kwaye kungekudala.