Kulo lonke ubomi bakhe umntu udibana nemvakalelo enjengokuvelana, uthando, uthando. Iimvakalelo ezinkulu kunye eziqaqambileyo zizalwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubantu abatsha kude kube malunga neminyaka engamashumi amathathu. Kwiminyaka emva, ukufumana uvelwano, ukungabi nantoni uthando-kunzima kakhulu. Izibalo zibonisa ukuba ukuba unethamsanqa, "ukuthanda ngengozi kuza" kathathu. Izihlandlo ezintathu umntu angakwazi ukudibana naye ofuna ukuthetha naye, ukumisela usuku, qalisa ukwakha ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunokuba bephakathi kwabo baqhelana nabo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo iimvakalelo ezinjalo ziphela ngokukhawuleza - zityhafaza nje, zifana ne-mirage entlango. Bashiya emva kokuzisola kuphela. Ngamanye amaxesha inqubo ayibuhlungu kangangokuthi iinkumbulo zicinywa ngokukhawuleza. Ngabo, bathetha i-goodbyes, njengento engafaniyo. Kodwa kunokubakhoxeka kakhulu, ukukhathazeka nokulangazelela ithemba elingenakuzaliseka. Abo baxhamla ngakumbi kunabo bonke, abaye baxhaswa yiFate, baphile ekupheleni kobomi babo kunye, behlangane kanye ngengozi.
Abantu bayazi ukuba bayingxenye yesonke. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uchithe ubomi bakho bonke ukufuna wena ngokwakho. Abantu abaninzi abahlukeneyo badlula kuthi nsuku zonke, esingaziqapheliyo size sikhohlwe ngabo. Kodwa ngoku kukhangela okukhawuleza kumntu kunye nayo yonke into ... ehamba ngogonyamelo kagesi, wangena kwi-subconscious. Yisenzo esisodwa - kwaye uyayiqonda loo nto-lo uthando oluya kutshintsha ubomi bakho. Uyaqonda ukuba ngenxa yalowo mntu ulungele, ukuba akunjalo, ngoko ke, ubuncinane - kakhulu. Ngenxa yakhe unokutshintsha imigaqo yakho emiselweyo, vala amehlo akho kwiingxaki ezibalulekileyo zomntu othandekayo. Uyamkela njengoko kunjalo ngokwenene.
Ibhinqa elithandweni likulungele ukubeka ingxaki kumntu wayo. Ukuba kuphela ukuba sisondele kuye, ukuzinikela kuye yedwa kuye, yena ngokwakhe engenaye umkhondo. Ngamanye amaxesha ngenxa yolu bhinqa unokwazi ukungena kwimpikiswano kunye nosapho lwakhe.
Umntu omnye uvakalelwa njani omnye? Bathi ukuchaswa kuyatsalwa. Okungaphezulu kokuncinci, kwaye ngokuchaseneyo. Mhlawumbi, abameli besini esahlukileyo baheha ezithile iimpawu ezithile? Inzululwazi kule ngcebiso ibonisa ukufana kobalinganiswa. Mhlawumbi yinto efanayo, iimpawu ezifanayo. Umfazi ukhetha njani indoda yakhe?
Iimfucumfle ezimnandi kunye namagxa avulekileyo - zikhangeleka ngokukrakra kwindodakazi, iqinisekisa ukukhuselwa kwayo ngokubanzi. Emva koko, emva koko, umfazi unokuziva ekhuselekileyo. Na madoda? Bayiqwalasela iifom ezithandekayo zeqabane lesini, uzonwabo oluthembisayo, kwaye nakwixesha elizayo-inzala enempilo.
Indoda-uyise kwintsapho iyayikhathalela intombi yakhe ngesisa kunye nothando. Ngoko ke, xa ukhetha iqabane lobomi, intombazana ekhulile ikhetha umntu ojonga into efana noyise. Uyaqaphela ukuba umntu okhethiweyo uya kumphatha ngokuthatha inxaxheba efanayo njengoyise ebuntwaneni bakhe.
Bonke abantu bahlelwe ngendlela yokuba bafuna ukunxibelelana nabameli bobulili obuhlukile, nokuba bakuphi na. Emsebenzini, kwizothutho, eholidini ... Basebenzisa onke amathuba okuthandana. Abantu abatsha abanolwazi bamenza umntu aqiniseke ngakumbi ngamandla akhe. Yaye ke lona wesifazane, nakakhulu, akanakunyaniseki.
Zonke iingcinga zowesifazane odibene naye "indoda" yam, kuphela ngaye. Uxolo lulahleka ngonaphakade, akukho ukulala okanye ukutya okufunekayo. Kulo mmandla womlingo, kwimeko yothando lomkhuhlane, inzululwazi ichaza ngamagciwane athile. Ezi ziquka i-pheromones - izinto zesini eziphilayo ezisebenzayo. Ezi zi-aphrodisiacs, ezichonga isibheno sesondo. Bamphoqa loo ntokazi ukuba isebenze ngokusondeleyo kukhethiweyo.
• I-adrenaline iphuma kwi-touch yangasese yomdlali.
• I-hormone yolonwabo - i-endorphins-igxininisa indlela yokulamba.
• Iyanciphisa isidingo sokulala phenylethylamine ngefuthe layo.
• Iminqweno yesondo yabalingani iphakanyiswa yintsebenzo ye-oxytocin emzimbeni.
Ezi zifo zengqondo zothando ziholele umntu kummandla wovuyo, zijika iintloko. Kwaye ukuze ungaphumeleli intloko yakho, ubudlelwane kufuneka bakhiwe njengomdlalo omele uphumelele kuwo.
Ngesidima, zincoma, ungafihla imvakalelo yakho, ngokujonga kakuhle. Ngobunzima bobudlelwane bakho, umthandi akufanele aqiniseke. Kodwa kwizicwangciso zakho zokugqibela kunye nethembiso yesihlobo sakhe, kunjalo, akufanelekile ukuzinikezela kude kube lixesha elithile, kude kube yilapho wena ekugqibeleni uqiniseke ngokuchanekileyo kokukhetha kwakho. Isigqibo esilungileyo siya kuxhomekeka kwisimo sakho sengqondo, ngokwezinga lokuhambelana kwayo. Ukunyamezela kunokubangela ukwesaba nokwehlukanisa iqabane. Uthobekile kwaye unamahloni uya kudanisa kakhulu.
Ukuba konke okufanayo uyekile ukukhetha ukungakhathali kwendoda, qhubeka uqiniseka ukuba wakhe nokwenza ulwalamano lwakho. Ukuthanda ubudlelwane kumenza umntu abe mnandi kakhulu, okwenza avele ekhanya ngaphakathi. Ubomi bomntu obunzulu bunciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye luqinisa amandla omzimba. Ukumamatheka kukhanya ebusweni ukuze umntu onothando abonakale ekude.
Yehla ngothando! Yaye mthande!
Sergey Vasilenko
goroskopi.ru