Ukuphuhlisa abantwana imidlalo yokusukela kunyaka ekunceda ukuba nefuthe elikhulu ekuphuhliseni kunye nezakhono zomntwana wakho kufuneka, njengokuba umthetho, kungabi nzima. Injongo ephambili yale midlalo kukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana unokuzifunda ngokuzenzekelayo ihlabathi elikujikelezile nawe. Namhlanje sikunika uluhlu lweemidlalo ezinjalo kubantwana, ngenxa yokuba umntwana ufunda ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ngokufanelekileyo ukuba acinge.
"Ku-Ku"
Umdlalo wezemfundo wabantwana wabantwana ukususela kumntwana ulula kwaye uyaqondakala umntwana. Ingundoqo yomdlalo kukuba ufuna ukuvala ubuso bakho ngeentende zezandla zakho kwaye uvule, ngelixa uthi "ku-ku". Ukususela kumnyaka, umntwana uqala ukuqonda ukuba emva kwezandla zakhe ezivaliweyo unina. Lo mdlalo uza kunceda umntwana ukuba azive ekhululekile ehlabathini, xa eqala ukuqaphela ukuba unina uya kuhlala ebuyela, nangona "eshiye".
Emva kokuba umntwana aqonde ukuba unina ufihlakele, unokuqala ukubonisa izifiso zakhe zobuntwana kwaye azame "ukufumana" unina izandla zakhe zivulekile ekukhangela ubuso.
"Ukuphindaphinda"
Umzekelo, umntwana wakho uthetha izandi ezahlukeneyo, "la", "ba" njalo njalo. Injongo yakho kukuzama ukuxelisa le izandi. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba athathe isiseko sobunxibelelwano.
"Ukudansa"
Qala ukudansa malunga nosana. Ungathatha izandla uze uqale ukudansa naye. Iingcali zeengqondo zengane ziyaqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukudansa nomculo kunokukhawuleza ukuphuhliswa komntwana. Kwakhona, loo midlalo yabantwana ayibangeleli nje injabulo eninzi, kodwa inokunceda ekuphuculeni ngokomzimba, nokuvuselela iimvakalelo zabo.
"Ukufumana umdlalo olahlekileyo"
Uphawu oluhle lwabantwana ukusuka kunyaka kukuba umntwana unengcamango ekhethekileyo ngento: inkunzi iqala ukukhumbula into ofihlileyo kuyo. Kuze kube ngolu hlobo, into ekhutshweyo ayiyekanga ukuba ikhona kuye. Ukwazi ukwenza njani oku?
Ukuba ubeka itekisi phantsi kwefilimu, umntwana akayi kujonga. Kufuneka uzame oku kulandelayo.
Nika umntwana ukuba abuke indlela obeka ngayo enye into phantsi kwefilimu ephambi kwayo. Umntwana uya kuqalisa ukufundisisa, ezama ukuqonda phantsi kweyiphi into yokudlala.
Ekugqibeleni umntwana uya kufumana oko akufunayo. Phinda le nkqubo ngezihlandlo eziliqela, ubeke itekisi phantsi kwefilimu enye, uze uyifihle ngaphantsi komnye, kuphela ukuyenza imele phambi kwamehlo omntwana. Ukudlala ngexesha lentsana kunye nomntwana, uya kumnceda ahlakulele ukucinga okufanelekileyo, kuba imidlalo enjalo yemfundo inegalelo kule nto.
"Fihla Ufune"
Ukuphuhlisa ikhono lokukhumbula indawo apho umntwana wakho akubonayo wenza imidlalo yelo hlobo ithandwa kakhulu.
Fihla emva kwefa, kwaye emva kwexesha uza kujonga ukusuka apho uze ubize umntwana. Umntwana unokuqala ukukuxelisa, ukufihla kunye nokujonga ngexesha.
Unokubangela umdlalo ngokuzifihla nokubiza umntwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqala ukukukhangela, ngokusekelwe apho ivela khona ilizwi lakho. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, zikhumbuze, uzame ukugcina umdla kumkhangeli.
Umdlalo okunceda ukuhlukanisa imibala
Faka iikhabhi ezinemibala kunye nemakhonkco kumdlalo womntwana, ukwakha izindlu kunye nayo, ngokukhawuleza ucele umntwana ukuba akunike i-cube yombala othile.
Ekuqaleni, faka kwimbala eyahlukileyo yemidlalo, uze ufike kumgca.
Apha ndifuna ukongeza ukuba yonke imidlalo yokuphucula umntwana, ukususela kunyaka, ukufumana uphawu lomboniso.
Ekupheleni konyaka wesibini, unokuvumela umntwana ukuba adlale ngesanti, alungiselele "ukutya" kwisanti kunye namanzi, njl.
Imidlalo yomntwana eneemidlalo kufuneka ibe ngaphezulu. Ngokomzekelo, ngoku idoli umntwana akanakulala kuphela ukulala, ukondla kwaye utshintshe iimpahla, kodwa uphinde uhambe uhambe. Kodwa izilwanyana zezilwanyana ziqala ukuba "miaow", "khula" kwaye ukhulume nabantu.
Ekuhambeni nomntwana, ungasebenzisa imidlalo egalela ekuphuhlisweni kwayo. Umzekelo, mnike umntwana umjikelo uze umcele ukuba athathe amanani amaninzi emhlabathini, njengoko ebonisa. Umdlalo ofanayo unokwenziwa ekhaya, unike ithole iphepha lepenciliti yamaphepha. Ngendlela, lo mdlalo unceda ekuphuhliseni inkalo yobugcisa kunye nobuchule!