Zesondo zomlomo.
Ngoku kunzima ukucinga ukuba omnye umntu unokuhlazeka ngolo hlobo. Ubulili be-oral bube ngumbandela obaluleke kakhulu we-lask esondeleyo. Kodwa, kuya kuvela, nangethuba lethu kukho abantu abathatha isondo ngomlomo ukuba bangamkelekanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubangelwa ukukhuliswa ngokungqongqo kwintsapho. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bacebisa abantwana ukuba isondo kunye nayo yonke into enxulumene nayo kukuba, ukuba ayingcolileyo, ngoko yinto engcolileyo. Akuyinto yesiko ukuthetha ngale nto, ukuxoxa ngeengxaki nazo. Ngoko ke, izitampu zenziwe ziphazamise ukuzonwabisa ngabantu abadala.
Ukuba udidekile ngokungabikho kwamava, unokuyicombulula le ngxaki kuphela ngendlela enye - ukuzama nokuzama. Abanye abantu baqeqesha amabhanana ngaphambi kokubonisa izakhono zabo kumntu ophilayo. Ukuba ukwesaba kwakho kubangelwa ngumqobo, qalisa ngokubamba okuqhelekileyo, wehla ezantsi uze uhla. Musa ukukhawuleza kwaye ungazichukumisi ukuzixhaphaza. Ukuba unamahloni, cima ukukhanya. Ebumnyameni ininzi ayiyi kubonakala ingavumelekanga.
Ukuba iqabane liphikelela kakhulu, ngoko unokulawula ubunzulu bokungena kwakho, ubeka isandla sakho kwisiseko sepenisi.
Ulwabelana ngesondo.
Le ndawo isavumelekile kwiibini ezininzi. Omnye ubona isondo esinjalo ngcolile, umntu uqinisekile ukuba oku akuyikukholisa kwaye ngokubanzi, kuyingozi.
Kufuneka uyazi ukuba isondo sangasese akusiyo yonke into ethanda, kwaye akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo ukuba awuyithandi. Zama kwaye ufumane ukuba ufuna. Ukuze leli phulo liphumelele, kufuneka uthembele ngokupheleleyo lakho iqabane. Ubulili obunjalo abuyiyo ubudlelwane obungasondelanga, ngakumbi ukuba unamava.
Yenza okokuqala qhe lekile kwi-anus, kwaye uqaphelisise indlela ovakalelwa ngayo. Ukuba usenza isigqibo malunga ngesondo, musa ukuxolisa kwi-lubricant kwaye ulawule ubunzulu bokungena. Ngokukhawuleza xa ufumana ukulimala, yonke into imele imise okanye ishiye.
Amathoyizi avela kwivenkile yesondo.
Ukuba uthanda kakhulu, ke isibonelelo sokusebenzisa amathoyizi osondeleyo, unokusongela. Ewe, akukho ntando kubo, basuke bengenangqondo. Kodwa ngaba ufanelekile ukuba uhlaziswe yiminqweno yakho?
Ukuze unolwazi olutsha oluthandayo, cela indoda yakho ethandekayo ukuba iququzelele i-foreplay yothando. Vumela ubusuku buqale ngendlela oyithandayo - iilwimi ezintle, ikhandlela, i-champagne, ukuhlalisa. Xa ufikelela kwindawo ephakamileyo yokuzonwabisa, uya kuba ulungele ukusebenzisa izikhuthazo ezongezelelweyo. Xa unomdla, ngakumbi uya kufumana eli liva.
Qala kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezinto ezingekho kakhulu, kwaye uzalise isitoreji kancane kancane. Ungaqali ngokusetyenziswa kweengqungquthela eziyikrakra, ezingenakucaca injongo yakho.
Ukulala ngaphandle kwekhaya.
Ukuba ubuncinane xa ubukele ifilimu ekhulayo, mhlawumbi, khumbula ukuba iziqendu apho abalinganiswa benza uthando kwi-movie yemidlalo okanye imoto ithandwa kakhulu. Kwiskrini konke kukhangeleka kuhle. Ebomini, kunzima kakhulu ukugqiba isigqibo, ngaphandle koko, kunkwantya kakhulu ukubanjwa ngokungazi.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba oku akusiyo yonke into yokuphambuka okanye urhwaphilizo, kungumzamo wokufumana iimvakalelo ezintsha ezinamandla. Lo ngumqondiso wokukhathalela ubudlelwane bakho. Fumana indawo ngaphandle kwendlu apho uya kuba khona kumgama omde ukusuka kweso. Akukho mfuneko yokwenza oku gumbini elifanelekileyo okanye epakini phakathi kwesi sixeko, kuba kukho indawo ephantsi kakhulu.
Ukuba omnye wenu ukhetha ngesondo ngaphandle kwekhaya ukuya kulwalamano oluqhelekileyo, mhlawumbi kufuneka uhlolisise ubuhlobo bakho, kuba umntu uya kuhlala ehlalise.
Ngokwezesondo, enyanisweni, akukho nto inobungozi kwaye ingcolile ukuba ithandwa yizo zombini. Iingcamango zingasebenza njengokuthintela utshintsho, zisebenza ngokunyanisekileyo ukuqinisa ubudlelwane. Ngaba kuyafaneleka ukuba ukwesabiseke kwezigidi zabantu eziye zafumana ukuzonwabisa?