1) Phambili
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuzithuthuka kukuzibhokoxa, nto ibaluleke kuphela kulabo sele sele basombulule iingxaki ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo. Impilo embi, ukungabikho kwemali, iingxaki emsebenzini okanye ebomini bomntu - oku kukuthathela ingqalelo abantu kwindawo yokuqala. Kodwa bambalwa abantu bacinga malunga neengcambu zezi ngxaki zikhula. Emva koko, sinokukwazi ukujamelana nabo baninzi. Ukuze wenze imali, ukuba uphumelele, ujabule ebomini bakho kunye nokuba ungalimazi, imizamo yakho ibalulekile.
2) Nquma kwiminqweno
Kunzima kakhulu ukuzibekela iinjongo zobomi, ukuba awukwazi into oyifunayo. Cinga ngeenjongo zakho eziyinyaniso. Ukuba unokungabaza malunga noko kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kwaye yintoni eyona nto yesibini, ungaziphoqeleli ukuba wenze izigqibo zokuzenza. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba intsingiselo yobomi babo kwindawo ethile ekhethekileyo. Omnye umfumana kwintsapho kunye nabantwana, umntu ekufumaneni okwenzululwazi, umntu ekuphumeleleni kwezinye iindawo. Akunakutsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umsebenzi ubaluleke kakhulu kunomnye - ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba ufuna into esuka entliziyweni yakho, yile ke yinto ekufuneka uyizalise ngayo. Makube nje ukulungiswa kwindlu okanye ukukhulelwa, kubalulekile ukuba ebomini bakho kukho ezinye iinkqubo, ukunyakaza.
3) Qinisekisa
Ukuze ukwazi ngokucacileyo kwicala lobuntu bakho ukuba liphuhlise, kubalulekile nje ukuba ukwazi oko ufunayo, kodwa kwakhona oko sele usufezile. Kubalulekile ukudweba umgca, hlalutya oko unakho kulo mzuzu wobomi. Yenza uluhlu lwempumelelo yakho, iimpawu zakho zobunzima - zombini ezo zilandela ngokupheleleyo, kunye nabo bafuna ukulungiswa kunye nokucocwa. Oku kuya kuba yindawo yokuqala yomsebenzi wakho.
4) Cwangcisa ubomi bakho
Kuninzi kuthiwa ngokubaluleka kwezicwangciso. Akukufanelekanga ukwenza uluhlu malunga nobomi bakho, kodwa akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukunika iinjongo zakho eziphambili. Kutheni oku kuyimfuneko? Ubuhle bezintlu ezinjalo akukuphela nje ukuba uya kuphinda uthethe iinjongo kunye neminqweno yakho, kodwa kwakhona ukuba ukhetha iindlela zokuphumeza okufunwayo. Unokwenza ikhonkco elungileyo elula kwisiganeko esinye kwesinye. Masithi unenkathazo yokuthetha kwaye unqwenela ukufunda indlela yokuziva ungcono kwinkampani. Kodwa indlela yokusombulula loo ngxaki? Kukhulu kakhulu, ukusuka kulophi icala akushicilelwe, ezininzi iingxaki ezintsha zivela. Ukuba uqala ukwenza icebo, mhlawumbi uza kuza engqondweni ukuba ube khona kwiisemina okanye uqeqesho oluya kukunceda ufunde ukuthetha. Mhlawumbi kuya kubakho ukubonisana kunye nengcali yengqondo kunye nemisebenzi ethile. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, uya kubona ukuba imigaqo-nyiweyo yesisombululo yokusombulula le ngxaki ibangela umphumo oyifunayo.
5) Ukuphelisa ukwesaba
Xa siqala into entsha, sihlala sinoyika. Oku kuyinto engokwemvelo, kuba kwanona mpu melelo ngethuba ngamanye amaxesha siyaxhatshazwa nguloyiko lokungaphumeleli. Ukukhula kobuqu kunokuzifundela esikolweni okanye kwiikholeji. Umntu ngamnye unemifanekiso eninzi kangangokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba angene kuyo nayiphi na isakhelo kwaye ayifake inkqubo. Ngoko ke, kweli nqanaba kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukwesaba ngamnye. Ngaba ukwesaba utshintsho? Kodwa awunakwenzeka ukuba utshintshe ngakumbi, ukuba ulungisa iingxaki ezithile okanye, umzekelo, fundisa ulwimi olutsha okanye ufunde ukudanisa. Ngaba ukwesaba ukuphumelela kulo msebenzi? Kodwa umsebenzi wakho awukude nomgomo wokuba ngumphathi wezemidlalo okanye usosayensi, ufuna nje ukuba ube ngumntu ohambelana ngokuvisisanayo, ngoko ke, uzimisele kuphela xa ufanelekile ukuqhubeka nomsebenzi ngokwakho, kunye nexesha lokuyeka. Mhlawumbi uloyiko lomsebenzi? Ukufunda into emitsha ayisoloko ilula, kodwa ihlala iyathakazelisa, ingakumbi ukuba ufumanisa into entsha kumntu osondelene nawe.
6) Bhala ingxelo
Ukukhula komntu siqu kunokuthetha nantoni na. Ungakwazi ukuphuhlisa izakhono zomzimba okanye ufunde ubugcisa bokutsala abantu abanxulumene nesini esahlukileyo, unokukwazi ukubamba iingoma okanye izandi, ukudweba okanye iintlobo eziphumayo. Akubalulekile oko. Okubaluleke ngakumbi kukuba uthathe inyathelo kwiinjongo zakho kunye naso sonke ixesha ufumana isiphumo esiphakathi. Umsebenzi ngamnye ozimeleyo okanye umsebenzi kunye nomqeqeshi okanye umqeqeshi uyahlawula. Ungalibali ukulungisa umphumo - makabe ngamazwi ambalwa nje kumagama angaqhelekanga okanye ukunyakaza komdaniso omtsha, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbuze ngokwakho umsebenzi owenzileyo. Emva kwayo yonke into, kude kube sekude ixesha eliqinileyo, sele uqale nje kwaye awuyi kuphinda akwazi ukuthetha: Ndiyichithe ukuxinezeleka, ndafunda isiTaliyane, ndafunda ukudansa i-tango, ndaziqonda i-oratory. Ngoxa uthabatha amanyathelo okuqala, kodwa kubalulekile. Ukongeza, uya kuba nokuhlalutya ukusebenza kweeklasi zakho kwaye wenze utshintsho.
Njengoko uyakubona, ukukhula komntu kukusebenza nzima kunaloo nto. Akukho ndawo yobuvila kunye nezizathu, kuba umphathi oqinileyo-wena ngokwakho-uya kuhlala ebona inyaniso, ngaba uyenzame okanye wenza okungaphantsi kunako. Abantu abaphumelele kakhulu kwixesha lethu baqinisekile ukuba uphuhliso alufanele luphele kunye neminyaka esetyenziswe kwiindonga zeziko. Umntu kufuneka afunde bonke ubomi bakhe, funda into entsha. Kule ndlela kuphela unokuziva ekhululekile, ukufezekisa impumelelo ethile. Ngoko ke, ukukhula komntu kubaluleke kakhulu kwintuthuko yomntu, okungafanelekanga.