Unokumisa xa usebenzisa iimeko zokuqala ezichazweyo, nje ungaziqwalasela ezi "ziinqwenela ezilungileyo", abazithandi ngokwenene, kodwa ekuboneni emsebenzini kwaye abananto yokwenza, indlela yokuxoxa ngayo ngobomi bakho. Ukugqithisa ngokupheleleyo iingxoxo ongazithandiyo zobugcisa bobugcisa, ngoko kuzama ukuvala iindlebe zakho ezicothayo ngokukhawuleza kule ngxowa-mali engcolileyo, ekuthi, ngokusemthethweni, ayinanto enxulumene nemeko yinyani. Ngoko ke kufuneka ube ngaphezu kwezi zibizo kwaye wenze umsebenzi wakho, kunye nobomi bakho bodwa ngaphandle kwendawo yokusebenzela. Emva koko abayi kuba nako ukuthetha. Kwaye ukuba ayisebenzanga ngaloo ndlela, vumelani kakuhle kubacebisi uze uhambe nabo, ngokubhekiselele kwingqesho. Iqela labasetyhini, ukuba ababonanga ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane, ukuzola, bafana ne-volcano, ukuba abachaswanga ngaphantsi, kwaye i-lava ayiyi kuphuma. Yaye ukuba bayayikhupha kancinci nje, baya kuhleba ngeenxa yexesha elikujikelezayo. Akunjalo na unako ukuthatha isimo sokuzikhusela, siqalekise kunye nabo, thintela konke ukunxibelelana, akusiyo indlela yokuphuma, baya kufumana ngakumbi kwaye baza kuqala ukuxoxa ngendlela oye waba neentloni.
Yeka inhlebo malunga nebali lakho lomthando emsebenzini, ngokuqinisekileyo, kunye nomfana wakho. ukuma ulwalamano lwakho. Kungenxa yokuba naye wayegula ngenxa yexesha elivela kuwe, ukukhathaza njani umntu wakho osebenza nabo. Oku kwakhona akukhethi, abo bantu abangendawo baphetha nje, kodwa banokuthetha nabo ngawe owaziyo. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ungamxeleli umfana wakho nantoni na malunga nale nto, kufuneka ujongane nale meko, ngakumbi unowesifazane kwaye unokuqonda kakuhle indlela yokumisa abacebisi bakho.
Okukhethwa kukho konke kubo kukuguqula umdla wabo kunye nomnqweno "onyanisekileyo" wokunceda umntu. Bafuna nje ukuzuza bonke abathandi. Banoba namava amaninzi, kwaye abazi ukuba bangayinikela, banikezela bani. Ngoko ke kufuneka nje ufumane elinye ixhoba ngenxa yokuhleba, ukusuka kwelinye iqela elisandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa kungekudala. Uthi, akusiyo imigaqo, mhlawumbi, kodwa akukho ndlela yokuphuma. Makuvumeleke omnye wabo ukuba uhlaziyo oluqhelekileyo, xa ufika uze usebenze. kwaye bajonge kuwe njengengxube ye-x-ray. Yintoni ovakalelwa ngayo? ukhangeleka njani? UThixo akayi kubona, iingxowa phantsi kwamehlo, ziya kubakhoka, kwaye kusemini uza kuhlanjululwa ngamahemuhemu, malunga nobusuku bakho obuthathaka. Ngoko cinga malunga nendawo yokuguqulela umgcini wabo okhuselekileyo phezu kwakho, khetha ixhoba uze wenze. Yaye uya kuqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo ibali lakhe lomthandana, sele sele lide kunye neengxowa kunye nabafazi.