Unyaka omtsha kunye nosuku lokuzalwa lwabahlobo, zonke iintlobo zeeholide, ukubonwa kweentlanganiso-konke oku kuyisizathu ... ukujonga kwisitoreji. Ngenye imini yomvuzo (njani, ukuba inyanga, uye wahlwaywa - kwaye ungayikuzikholisa?) Neemfuno ezikhethiweyo, ezikhunjulwayo kwikhalenda yezithandwa ezimbini. Ukwabelwa ukuqeshwa kunye nodliwano-ndlebe. Badibene yinto enye-bonke bangabangela ukuba baqhube, kodwa bahamba ngokuthenga.
Xa amakhadi ekweretyala ayinanto, kwaye iibhonkco ezimbalwa kuphela zikwingxowa-mali, umntu uzibuza umbuzo wakho entloko: uthengisa ukuxhomekeka okanye indlela yokucinezeleka? Yintoni esenza okungakumbi - ukuthobisa iingxaki okanye ukunyusa ukuxhomekeka "kule nto encinci, andiyi kudlula ebomini"?
Abantu abaninzi abaqapheli ukuba kuthengwa njani izinto eziyimfuneko kakhulu ekhaya ukuba ziqokelele izinto ezincinci. Ehle (kunye nexabiso elincinci!) I-Statuettes inepropati engekho into edibeneyo yokuhlangana kwiiqoqo ezinkulu. I-krimu, ethengiweyo kwithengiso-ayiyi kuzisa i-benefits, kodwa ingozi emva komhla wokuphela. Indlela yokuchonga ukuba i-shopping itholakala kukuxhomekeke kwinto esele yenziwe ngokuxhomekeka okanye yayisona ndlela eyaneleyo yoxinzelelo?
Ukufumana okufanelekileyo kunye okungekho nto
Ukungaxhomeki ngokucacileyo, ukuxhomekeke kwizinto ziphinda ziphindwe okanye zenzeke nabanye kwimisebenzi.
Ngokomzekelo, ayithathwa njengento yokunethezeka ukuze athenge ikhefu yesibini (kunye nekhilimu ebusika) xa utshintsha amaxesha. Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba imeko yesikhumba ngokuzithe ngqo kuxhomekeke kwindlela esilumkileyo ngayo kwiimfuno zayo. Ebusika, ukunyusa nokunyusa, kwaye ehlobo - ukumisa isikhumba esinamafutha - oku kuqhelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba iimali zimbini okanye ezintathu okanye zibe zintlanu, kwaye akukho nzisetyenziso kubo, ngokuqinisekileyo ukuchitha imali kunye nokuzama ukunciphisa uxinzelelo ngokuthenga, kwaye ngoko kuxhomekeka.
Ukuthenga abathengi kwaye kungekhona nje kuphela - amathuba okuthenga, nokungabakhathaleli abanye abantu.
Ukutsho ngokungagqibekanga ukuba akuyimfuneko ukuthenga abanye abantu kuthetha ukuchaza umntu ongenasiphelo. Sonke kuthi rhoqo kufuneka sithenge okuthile kwabanye - ukusuka kwisitulo kumntu othandekayo kwisipho esingumfuziselo kumntu osebenza naye.
Kodwa inani lokuthenga "kwabanye", ngokucacileyo kwiminqweno yabo kufuneka linciphise ubuncinci. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, unokuvumela "nceda" omnye umntu okanye umnyamekele, ukuba ungumntwana. Kwaye nakule nto ukususela emncinci, zama ukujwayelana nomntwana kwisinqumo esizimeleyo. Ngexesha elifanayo - ngokwakho ukuba inkcitho yakho ayixhunye nabanye abantu, ukuze bangalingeki ukuba batyekele uxanduva lokuthenga.
Ukuthengela indlu yentsapho-isitya esingenasiphelo se-shopaholic
"Ngokuqhelekileyo" kuthengwa - indlela enkulu yokungathobeli ukuyothenga kuphela, kodwa ukubonisa ukunyusa. Indlu zenyanga zithenga ii-powders zokuhlamba kunye ne-detergents, iingubo zeetafile kunye ne-coasters phantsi kweshushu-into eninzi.
Hayi, kungeyona into eqhelekileyo kunye nokuxhamla kokuxhomekeka kwintengiso okanye iindlela zokuxinezeleka. Ngaphezu koko, ukuthengisa kusenza siqiniseke: apha, i-old grater ayilungile, sidinga entsha!
Akunzima ukujamelana nale nto. Khawucinge nje into oyifunayo ngokunyanisekileyo "kwikhaya, kwintsapho." Cinga malunga nokuba uza kuyisebenzisa kaninzi kangakanani. Indlela yokujongana nayo? Ngaba iya kuhlamba rhoqo emva kokusetyenziswa?
Ewe, ukuthengwa kukuxhomekeka xa kusetshenziselwa ukulungelelaniswa okuqhelekileyo njengendlela yokulungisa ingxaki kuphela. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo izinto zifuneka ngokwenene. Ngoko kechitha iimali kwi "zobuchwepheshe" ezitsha ezintsha emva kokuba uzibonakalise ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kunye nexabiso elingenakuthenjwa kwaloo nto. Yithenge ngentliziyo ecocekileyo kwaye uyisebenzise iminyaka emininzi.
Ngoko uya kumisa yonke into ukungaqiniseki ukuba unokwenza ukuthengwa kakubi ngokubhekiselele kwi-shopaholic yangaphakathi. Ngendlela, enye iresiphi ibandakanya ukuhlaziywa kwekhabethe labesifazane.
Indlela yokujongana noxinzelelo?
Ngoko, sele usuqonda ukuba ukuthengwa njengento yokuxhomekeka okanye indlela yokuxinwa yindlela yokufa. Ekubeni oku akungathandabuzekiyo ithuluzi elingcono kakhulu linemingcipheko yalo. Eyona nto eyona nto kukuba akukho nto yokuthenga inokukunceda.
Ngesihloko sonyango oluvela kwi-mania yokuthenga, kuye kwabhalwa ngamakhulu amanqaku. Kodwa into ephambili isoloko ihlala enye. Ukuba ikhadi lakho lekhredithi alinakuyinyamezela ingcinezelo eqatha yomnqweno "wokuthenga ngaphezulu kwaye yiloo nto," kwaye ukuthoba ukuthengwa kuhamba ixesha elifutshane - lixesha lokufumana ezinye iindlela, ezibuhlungu kunye nezindlela eziphumelelayo zokucinezeleka.
Ukuba i-mania yezitolo iye yafudukela kwisigaba esilandelayo kwaye isizimeleyo, ayiveli kuxinzelelo, kodwa ngokwayo (kwaye ngoko uxinzelelo lucingelwa ukuba luziphendulele) luyaqhubeka lukhulu. Kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuqalisa kunye nenyaniso yokuba unqande le nxalenye yekhoyili eyinkimbinkimbi, ephikisanayo yokukhuthaza.
Ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba uye esitolo, ziphendule kumbuzo:
- Ngaba ufuna ukuthenga ngenxa yokuba ufuna into?
- Ngenxa yokuba uziva uhlelekile, udabukile, usizi?
- Okanye nje ngokuba ufuna ukuthenga?
Kulo hlobo lokugqibela lufanelekile ukwabela ngokwahlukileyo imali encinci ukulawula ngokulula ukuziphatha kwabo abafazi abathandekayo.