1. Kubonakala.
Ngaphambi, xa uya emsebenzini, uhlale ufuna ukukhangeleka. Kwaye oku kucacile, kuba emsebenzini ndiya kudibana neenyawo ezininzi eziza kujonga kuwe; awuyi kuza ngaphandle kokwenza kunye neengubo ezimbi. Enye yeempazamo ezithile kukuba ukuqaliswa kwangaphandle. Nangona umyeni engekho ekhaya, usebenza, kwaye uyambona kuphela kusihlwa - esi sizathu sokubheka singaboni. Umele uphume embhedeni, uhlambe phantsi kwamanzi, ubeke iincwekhwe zakho kwaye ugqoke ukhululekile, iimpahla ezimnandi. Makube ziingubo ezingenakuthobeka, kodwa kufuneka zihlambuluke kwaye zihlonipheke. Kwale fomu kufuneka udibane nomyeni wakho emsebenzini. Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba akudingeki ugqoke: i-elongated, i-T-shirts ezinkulu kunye neebhulukhwe. Iqabane lakho limele libukeke lijonge kwaye livule phambi kwakhe, kungekhona umfazi okhulelwe kunye noxinekileyo.
2. Idatha yenyama.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba bathini abafazi, ukuba uba ngumfazi wendlu, awuyi kuba ngcono - oku akunjalo. Kwizigaba zokuqala zale "bomi" bomi, abaninzi banokuthi bahlaselwe ngamapounds angaphezulu. Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba ungenalo ixesha elaneleyo lokuba ne-bite, ngoku ngoku unayo ifriji epheleleyo yokutya. Ukusombulula le ngxaki, kufuneka: ukutya okulula kunye nokuthanda kwakho. Kuya kuba bhetele xa uqhuba uhlobo oluthile lwemidlalo okanye uhamba nenja emini, okanye udibana nomyeni wakho emsebenzini kwaye uhambe naye - oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba udibanise ishishini kunye nolonwabo.
3. iingxaki zasekhaya.
Kukho amaxesha apho ungafuni ukwenza nto, nje ulala embhedeni. Ukuba ufuna ukulwa nale nto, sincoma ukuba uqale isonto rhoqo. Yenza isicwangciso sezenzo zakho ukususela ngoMsombuluko ukuya kuLwesihlanu. Ngokomzekelo, ngoMsombuluko unokuhlambulula, ngoLwesibili uphumle, ngoLwesithathu ukuba uhlambe impahla, njalo njalo. Oku kuya kukunika umyalelo weengxaki zakho kwaye akusivila. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba indlu isoloko ihlambulukile kwaye ihlambulukile, loo mntu uhlala evuyiswa ukuza kwindlu ehlambulukileyo, okanye akayi kukwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni uhlala ekhaya, kwaye yonke indawo iyinkathazo. Oku, kubangele ukuba kubangele ukuphikisana, kwaye umntu akakwazi ukuhamba kunye negama elithi "wena kunye nam ndisebenza kunye kwaye ndidiniwe".
4. Iikishi.
Ngoku unamathuba okubonakalisa indoda yakho ukuba uyazi ukupheka ngokumnandi. Kodwa khumbula ukuba isidlo sakusihlwa kunye nesidlo sakusihlwa kufuneka sidityaniswe nekhitshi ecocekileyo nehlambulukileyo.
5. Ukuzonwabisa.
Akuyimfuneko ukuchitha yonke imisebenzi, kuphela, ehleli yedwa ekhaya. Zenzele into ethile, kwaye uya kuba neenjongo ezithile kwizinto ezahlukeneyo ongazange uzibeke phambi kwazo okanye ungenalo ixesha elaneleyo. Yiya kwiintombi zakho ekutyeleleni ukukhulisa unxibelelwano, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo unike ixesha lokulungisa iinkqubo.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, kufuneka ube nombono wakho malunga nendima yomfazi. Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba abafazi abakwenzayo nantoni na, ngoko awanamdla. Kodwa wena kuphela uyazi ukuba umfazi wendlu ngumsebenzi omkhulu kwaye unokubonisa ukuba umfazi wendlu yangempela ungumfazi onomdla, othakazelisayo nomkhathalelayo!
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza