Ziziphi iindlovukazi kwaye ziba njani?
Ihlabathi lanamhlanje linani elingenamkhawulo lamathuba abo bonke abantu. Kulula ukwenza ukhetho malunga nale ndlela okanye loo ndlela yobomi. Ukuzinikela kwintsapho kunye nekhaya, bambalwa beza kwaye iindlela abaya kuzo kule sigqibo zingahluka.
1) Ukungaphumeleli.
Kukho uluhlu olunjalo lwabasetyhini, kungakhathaliseki ukuba lusizi kangakanani. Ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo, abazange bafumane imfundo, ukwenza umsebenzi, ukuba bafumane umsebenzi wabo. Benza isigqibo sokusingatha kuphela indlu kunye nabantwana, kuba abanakwenza nantoni na enye into.
2) Ukuqiniseka.
Akunabo bafazi abambalwa abaqinisekileyo ukuba umsebenzi, umsebenzi wokuba ngumsebenzi wesintu apho owesifazane engenawo indawo. Baya kuvuya ngokuzisa indlu, baya kuba nelokukhuliswa kwabantwana, baya kufunda ubuchule bokupheka, kodwa abafuni nokuzifumana kwezinye izinto.
3).
Ngamanye amaxesha kukho imeko yokuba inkosikazi ishiywe ngaphandle komsebenzi kwaye ngaphandle kwithuba lokuya kuye. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abancinci banqanyulwa yimisebenzi yabo okanye ubunzima bokufumana umsebenzi. Ngamanye amaxesha amadoda aphikisana kakhulu ukuba nomsebenzi womfazi. Abafazi abanjalo bafuna ukuya emsebenzini njengoko bafuna, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo abanalo leli thuba - ngokusisigxina okanye okwethutyana.
Abanye babo baphumelele indima entsha kwaye banandipha ubomi, kwaye umntu ubona ikusasa labo njengomsebenzi onzima. Kuxhomekeke kwizizathu ezininzi kwaye wonke umntu uyazi ukuba abafazi bezindlu bahluke - bobabini bahle kwaye badibana.
Nangona kuboniswe ngokubanzi, oomama abanamhlanje banokuhluka. Akukona into yokuba aba bafazi abangenalucalulo abangenakwenza into ngaphandle kokuhlamba phantsi nokupheka. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi abanjalo banakekele ingqalelo nje kuphela kwikhaya nakwiintsapho, kodwa nakwabo ukuphuhliswa, ukubonakala. Bahamba, bafunde ezininzi izinto ezintsha, ukufunda, ukuya kwiimicimbi zentlalo kunye nentlalontle - konke kuxhomekeke kubukhulu bekhredithi yentloko yentsapho.
Inzuzo.
Ngale ndlela yobomi, unokufumana ezininzi iingenelo. Umfazi wekhaya akadingeki ukuba ahlale ecinezelekile, ahambe emsebenzini, apho kukho intlanzi, iingxabano, iingxaki. Abanalo abaqashi, akukho mntu unokuyalela ukuba njani kwaye wenzeni.
Abafazi basemakhaya banelungelo elaneleyo lokuchitha kunye nabathandekayo babo - banokubona amanyathelo okuqala abantwana babo kwaye beva amazwi abo okuqala, banokuthatha inxaxheba kwimpilo yabo, benze utyeshelo kumyeni. Ukongeza, ukuba ufuna, kuya kuba nexesha lakho. Ukuze uhambe kwi-salon okanye umboniso, akufanele ube nexesha elibuhlungu - inxalenye yosuku liphela kubo.
Abafazi bezindlu basemzini. Akudingeki ukuba bafumane iimpawu zomntu ukuba bahlale kwindawo yabo okanye bafumane isikhundla esitsha. Akudingeki ukuba bancintisane namadoda.
Ukongezelela, abafazi basekhaya banethuba lokufumana ezininzi izakhono - ukufunda ulwimi, ufunde umsebenzi okanye uhlobo olutsha lomdaniso. Ukuba kukho umnqweno wokuphuhlisa, awuyi kutyhukela.
Iingxaki.
Mhlawumbi i-drawback ephawulekayo kuxhomekeke kuyo. Kwiminyaka umfazi wenze konke ukuze ancede umyeni wakhe nabantwana bazive ekhaya ekhaya, kodwa akukho mntu unokuqinisekisa ukuba idyll iya kuba ngonaphakade. Amaxesha amaninzi amadoda ashiya intsapho, kwaye lona wesifazane uhlala yedwa - engenamava emisebenzi, ngaphandle kwendlela yokutya. Ngako oko, ukuba ngumama wendlu akuyona nje imbopheleleko enkulu, kodwa kunomngcipheko omkhulu, ngakumbi ukuba ubudlelwane bentsapho abukude.
Olunye umva kukuba umsebenzi womfazi wendlu uhlalutya kwaye uhloliswe ngakumbi kunokuba umphathi osebenzayo uya kwenza. Ngamanye amaxesha uluhlu lwamatyulo kunye nesidlo sokutshisa luba zizathu zokuhlambalaza ekhaya.
Ukongezelela, abaninzi abafazi bayeke, bayeke ukuya phambili. Kuthatha ubuncinane babo - umyalelo endlwini, ukutya okumnandi, abantwana abaphantsi kolawulo. Indlukazi ayifuni nto ifuna enye into. Ngokuqhelekileyo amabhinqa ayahlukana kwintsapho, ayeke ukuba nomdla kunoma yintoni enye, ngaphandle kokupheka nokucoca kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uyahlaziya. Ngaphezulu - olu luchungechunge olungapheliyo kwiTV. Ewe, kwaye kukho isilingo esinzima sokulibala malunga nokulolonga kwansuku zonke kunye nokucoca.
Ngaphezu koko, uluntu ngoku lihlazo lwabasetyhini ababandakanyeka kuphela kwintsapho. Azikhuselekanga, amalungelo abo akakhulu kakhulu.
Ukwenza ukhetho kwiindlela zokuphila okunjalo akulula kangangoko kubonakala ngathi. Abaninzi banquma ukuba balahlekelwa ngakumbi, bazibamba kwiindonga ezine, kwaye bakhetha ukusebenza, batshata kwaye banabantwana. Sisiphi isigqibo esilungile kuwe. Kubalulekile ukuba uzive ukhululekile, ukuhlangabezana nemisebenzi yakho, ungayikhohlwa malunga nophuhliso kwaye ugcine uxolo kwintsapho. Emva koko nayiphi na imisebenzi yakho iya kukukholisa kunye nokubulela kwezihlobo akuyi kukugcina ulinde.