Umbutho wosuku lokuzalwa lwabantwana ekhaya luqwalaselwa ngabazali abaninzi njengendlela enokulungelelanisa kunye nenzuzo yokubhiyozela. Okokuqala, umntwana wakho usoloko, ngokukhawuleza, phantsi kolawulo lwabazali bakhe; okwesibini, unako ukukhangela into ekhethekileyo ukuba wenze into ekhethekileyo kwaye ungakhohlwa ukuba ayiyi kubukeka ilungile kwaye iyayiyinto yokuqala kwaye iya kubangela ukuba uvule umntwana. Okwesithathu, kunokunciphisa kakhulu iindleko zemali kwintlangano kwaye ke, imali esilondoloziweyo, ongayichitha kwisipho esibi kakhulu somntu wokuzalwa. Ngoko, masiqhubeke nendlela yokuhlela ieholide labantwana ekhaya. Ukwenza le mini ibe yinto engayibaleki kwaye ibe nemibala kuwe nomntwana wakho.
Okokuqala, siqale ngokukhetha ikamelo (igumbi). Nantsi kubalulekile ukuba ucinge ukuba ngeli holide unesiqiniseko sokumema abangane bakho, kunye nabantwana, njengokuba uyaziyo, badinga indawo enkulu yokukhulula yemidlalo. Ngoko ke, apha, kubalulekile ukunikela umnikelo omkhulu kunommandla (indawo yokuhlala). Ukuba kusekho indawo encinane kuyo, zama ukuyikhulula, ngokulungisa kwakhona loo fenitshala. Impahla yefenitshala evumela ukuba ihanjiswe kwelinye igumbi okanye ihlelwe kwakhona ukuze idibanise enye indawo. Ungakulibala ukususa, ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka, zonke izinto zokubetha kwiilazi okanye kwiikheramics.
Ngokuphathelele ukuhlobisa kunye nokucokisa igumbi, nantsi kukufanelekile ukusebenzisa umbala kunye nemibala. I-Recolor, ke, iindonga ebomvu wombala ayifanelekanga. Kuya kukwanela ukuba uthenge ezininzi iibhaluni ezimibalabala, zithinte kwaye uzifake apho kunokwenzeka khona. Kwakhona ungalibali malunga neefowuni ezimbala, onokuzenza ngezandla zakho. Ewe, ukuba unokwenza kakuhle. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, lesi sipho sikugqithise iqela, sichitha kwindlela elula ye "isisi kunye neglue". Cima kwiimagazini zeemfuno ezikhethekileyo zezingane kunye nemifanekiso emibalabala yeentyatyambo, izilwanyana kunye nokunye. Ukongeza konke oku, kufumaneka ngendlela efanayo, abalingiswa bekhathuni kwaye unamathisele kuwo onke amaphepha amakhulu e-Whatman. Nantsi unesithuba sokuposa. Beka phezu kweendonga, ungeze, ngokufanayo, ibhaluni. Ngoku ngoku, ngokuthe ngqo, siqhubekele ekuyiyileni kwetafile. Makhe siqale ngeetafile. Nantsi kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba kufuneka ukuba yinto eqaqambileyo. Thenga, kusengaphambili, kwishishini elinjalo isicikethi esikhethekileyo kunye nomzekelo ovuyoleyo. Kwaye, njengoko bethetha, umbuzo kunye neetafile ziza kugqitywa. Ngokuphathelele ukukhonza nokuhlobisa itafile, kuyafaneleka ukwenza into encinane kwindlela eyahlukileyo kunokuba iqhelekileyo. Sekunjalo, iindwendwe eziphambili ngabantwana kwaye kulungile ukukhumbula. Ukuchasisa nganye ipakethi unako ukubeka ithoyiji elincinci, oku kuya kumncedisa ngamnye umntwana. Kwee napkins, unokwenza amanani ahlukeneyo, ngendlela yokunyathela. Kodwa, izitya kufuneka zifakwe ngemidwebo. Wonke umntwana uyathanda into encinane, kodwa into enomdla. Khumbula oku wena ngokwakho xa uneminyaka leyo.
Ukulungiselela zonke iintaba zeesitya ezahlukeneyo akufanelekanga nhlobo. Abantwana abayidli ngandlela-thile, into ephambili kukugcina impahla, ngokubanzi ngokunokwenzeka ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zeentshisi kunye neziphuzo. Ugxininiso oluphawulekayo lubeka intlangano yesiqingatha esiphundu seeholide, kuba abantwana bathanda kakhulu. Yonke into oyiphekayo kwaye uyenze etafileni, ungakulibali ukuyihobisa ngeendawo eziluhlaza kunye nezinye iindlela zokutya. Yaye, yintoni igama elinguye ngaphandle kwekhekhe. Ikhekhe lomntu wokuzalwa kufuneka libe likhulu kwaye ungalibali ukufakela amakhandlela kuwo, kwisixa esilingana nomntwana ozaliseke kangakanani. Yenza iime izibane, ukukhanyisa zonke ikhandlela, vumela inkunzi yebhokhwe ukuba ikhuphe ngaphandle, yenza isifiso.
Iholide ngokwayo kufuneka isetyenziswe malunga nesidlo sasemini, ubuninzi beeyure eziyi-12 ukuya kwe-11. Into ephambili kukuba abantwana abahlali ixesha elide kwaye banexesha elihle. Ngethuba lokubhiyozela ngokwawo, thabatha lonke iqhinga kungekhona nje ngokuba ngumama, kodwa kwaye nje ngokuba ngumntwana ongumfana ongumlingani. Cinga ngezinto zonke ukusuka ekufumaneni iindwendwe ukuze uzibonise. Isimo esona sihle kwaye esimnandi salesi siza kuba, ukujiya ngokuhlwa ukuba kunye ngokuhlangeneyo. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka ufumane iingubo ezifanelekileyo (iifairies, inkosikazi enhle, njl.). Iingubo ezinjalo unokuziqhawula, okanye, ubonisa imfesane, yenza, wambethe ngeengubo ngeengubo. Yizisa kule papa kunye nompapa, nokuba ubuncinane isithsaba senkosi siyathwala.
Ukuba ucinga umdlalo wefestile, musa ukulibala ngemimangaliso. Phenduka iholide yonke kule ngqungquthela, kwaye indlela eyona nto yokwenza ngayo, kuya kuba nemincintiswano nezipho. Kwixesha eliphakathi kwetafile ephezulu kunye ne-sweet, okanye nje xa abantwana bezele, ukwenzela ukuba bahlale bumnandi, bacele ukuba badlale umdlalo "ukuqagela kunye nokudweba" oku kuya kufuna uninzi lweemman, amagosa kunye nolwazi lwemigqomo ehlukeneyo yabantwana. Nika iimakhishithi zamaphepha kwiindwendwe nganye uze unikele impendulo kwinqatyana kungekhona nje ukuthetha, kodwa ukudweba. Kuphela kule njongo, uya kubeka i-kiddies kwisimo esinjalo kangangokuthi abazange bajonge omnye nomnye. Xa usuxazulule oku okanye loo mvundla, banika ixesha lokwenza impendulo yabo kwaye baphakamise ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka abonise oko kwenzeka kuye. Ukuphumelela, ngokuthe ngqo kumvuzo - isikhumbuzo esincinci okanye iqhosha eliphambili kwisikhwama somlingo esiya kuba nawe. Ukuba iimpendulo kwimifanekiso zihambelana, ngoko, ngokukhuphisana, cela abantwana ukuba bakhethe umzobo obalaseleyo kunye, ibhonasi kuyo yonke into, ngohlobo lomvuzo wokukhuthazwa kweetalente, banike i-candy kwelinye isikhwama. Njengoko sele uqondayo, iifoksi zakho kufuneka zizaliswe ngeziqulatho ezahlukeneyo, enye i-trinkets, enye i-iilekese. Apha unomncintiswano ovuyayo, oya kuba mnandi kakhulu kwaye akhumbule kubantwana.
Indlela yokuhlela iholide yabantwana ekhaya? Akunzima nakhona, uzikhumbule ngokwakho ngexesha oye wafana ngalo, kwaye uya kuqonda oko umntwana wakho akufunayo ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa.