Ewe, siphila kwihlabathi eliphathekayo, kwaye ngoko ke, amaphupha ethu eempahla afanelwe ukunakwa kunye nentlonipho. Akukho nto ihlazo kuba zethu iingcamango zihlala zihla ukuya kwinqanaba lemihla ngemihla (kwesofa lesikhumba okanye umnxeba). Abafazi abaninzi banamaphupha afanayo okanye afanayo, kodwa ngamnye uya kwindlela yakhe. Thatha, umzekelo, isambatho esinobugcisa.
Indlela yenombolo 1. Misela ibhande
Ukuthenga le nto ye-wardrovised item, i-Masha yanciphisa iindleko zayo ubuncinci. Ngesibindi wayishiya isoso sayo esithandayo, u-5 wenza iteksi efanayo yeefesi, wagcina ifowuni kuphela kwiifowuni ezingenayo (kungekuhlawulelana nomnxibelelwano weselula), kodwa wayevuyiswa ngaloo mini ngemini eya kumphunga wakhe womlilo. Lapha uye walondoloza umkhono omnye, apha okwesibini ... Ukukhawulezisa inkqubo, uMasha wayeka ukutya nokuhamba ngezothutho zikawonkewonke. Kwaye kwathatha indawo ye-bullet i-bulb i-bulb ekhanyisa i-bulbs emashumi amane (ukwenzela ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kwamandla kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, umrhumo) kwaye wenqabe ukuhlawula i-intercom, eyayiyeka ngokukhawuleza. Zonke i-Masha ezongeniswayo zifaka imvulophu ekhethekileyo ngombhalo othi: "Ingubo yoboya", eyayifihla kwikheriteni yelineni. Emva kweminyaka engama-3 yokunyanzelwa (ukunyanzeliswa "kokutya", ehleli emthunzini, ukuhamba okunyamekayo kunye neendwendwe kwilizwe elizii-6-square metres), u-Masha wathenga iingubo zoboya. Inhlanhla yayingekho umda, ingakumbi ukuba ucinga ukuba isambuku ibuyiselwe kwisithebhile somatshini, i-bulb ye-100-watt, i-portphone, kunye nefowuni yeselula yavunyelwa ukuba isebenze kuphela ukufumana iifowuni. Kwaye ke akukho mali kunye nezibophelelo zemboleko! Ngaphezu koko, "ibhonasi" enomdla engalindelekanga: xa ama-Masha ahlutha ngeenyawo, ngoko asebenze, abuye ekhaya, wafunyanwa ngumfana owayehamba ngeenjaji epaki. Kwiinyanga eziliqela wayeya emoyeni waza ekugqibeleni waya kumana. Ngoku bahlala kwindlu yokuhlala, baqeshisa okwesibini, basindise kwizinto zonke, badla ngokutya kunye nabazali babo, kwaye kwi-closet yabo yeelinen banamabhulebhu amancinci amabini: "Umtshato nemoto."
Ukuba ucinga ukuba : "Yeka ukuyixhala!", Akukho nto. Kukho amabali ambi kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, okunje xa ungagcini okwethutyana, kungekhona ngenjongo ethile, kodwa nje ukuze ungasebenzisi imali "eyongeziweyo". Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba isimo sengqondo esinokugqithiseleyo kwimali kunye nokugcinwa okufanelekileyo kwintombi yanamhlanje ayikwazi ukuthathwa njengempilweni enempilo, ingakumbi xa ikhupha amaphupha kunye neminqweno yakho. Kwaye ukuba uthe wahamba ngale ndlela, unganakho ukuthobela ubomi bakho kwifilosofi ye-skopidomstvo. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu uthi ukugcinwa ngokufanelekileyo kumfazi wesimanje kuyingozi. Ukongezelela koko, ekubeni ingxaki yaqhambuka, kuye kwaba yindalo ukuhlala kwindlela yokugcina. Nokuba "iinkwenkwezi" ziqhayisa malunga nokuba ziphi na ukukwazi ukunciphisa imali. Nazi iindlela ezithatha iindleko zokufumana ukugcinwa okufanelekileyo kumfazi wamanje.
Irente
Abantu abathandwayo baseHollywood abayithengi iimpahla kunye neendwangu zokuhamba ukuze bahambe ngeekhawubomvu obomvu, baboleke ixesha elithile kwindlu yefestile. Ngendlela, sineendawo zokuqasha. Ngoko, ukhetha ukuhamba uhambo, ungakhathazeki ngeendleko eziphezulu zezixhobo: iintente, iibhegi zokulala kunye neepokethi zangasese ngenani elincinci lingathathwa ukusetyenziswa kwexeshana.
Thengisa i-junk
Iintengiso apho izinto kunye neefenitshala ezivela "inkwenkwezi" zokugqoka kunye nezindlu, ngokomzekelo, uKher, u-Elizabeth Taylor okanye uBritney Spears, baya kuba baninzi ngakumbi kwiminyaka yamuva. Kwaye wenzani ngeengubo zeegusha zeemvu, i-sofas kunye nezixhobo zekhaya ezingapheliyo? Ngokuchanekileyo, ulilahle kude, unike abahlobo okanye uyithathe kwi-dacha. Okwangoku, ukuba ungagqithisi amaxabiso kwaye wenze ngokusemgangathweni "ngegusha elikhunjini ubuncinci be-clone," ngoko unokufumana abathengi kuyo yonke into yakho. Yiba nesityebi, ngokuqinisekileyo, awuyi kuba nobutyebi, kodwa inxalenye yokwenza uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali luya kwenziwa, kwaye i-dacha ayinakuze ihlambele iinqwelo ze "zangaphambili".
Jabulela mahhala
Ewe, ukuba awunjalo nguJulia Roberts, ngoko unokuthembela kwinto yokuba uya kukhishwa inkululeko kwinani likaMongameli we-super-intelligent kuphela ekukhankanyiweyo kwiphepha: "Ubuhle buhlala apha, ndanelisekile", akuyimfuneko. Kodwa, ngenhlanhla, kukho into ekhululekile kweli hlabathi kubantu abaqhelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, isofthiwe: phantse zonke iinkqubo zeekhomputha zinezifaniso zamahhala. Ungagcina kumgama omde kunye neehlabathi zomhlaba wonke, ukuthetha nge-skype engenanto. Ungakulibali kwakhona ngamathala eencwadi karhulumente, iikhenkethi zothando, iiholide zikamasipala kunye nokuba ubusuku bonke ngobusuku boMeyi 18, ezininzi iimyuziyamu zivula iingcango zabo kwiindwendwe ngokupheleleyo.
Gcina uqoqosho lwezoqoqosho
Ngaloo ntombi yokuqala yaseUnited States, oye waqhekeza imyezo yasemifuno kufuphi neNdlu eNtshonalanga. Kwaye ngaba bethu besetyhini ngakumbi? Khulisa i-dill kunye ne-parsley ebhodweni kwiwindow namhlanje, kwanefestile. Yaye yonke ibusika - izityalo zayo ezingenanto kunye nentsholongwane (iindleko zembewu ye-2 hryvnia ngebhegi ayibalwa).
Konke oku, ngombono wakho, kuyintle? Mhlawumbi kunjalo. Kodwa ukuba ubeka ndawonye imali yokugcina imali kunye neendlela ezinjalo ze-hryvnia, unokufumana imali eninzi kakhulu yokulondolozwa ngokufanelekileyo kumfazi wesimanje.
Indlela yenombolo 2. Ukwandisa imali engenayo
U-Oksana - akakho oza kuphawula ngeemfesimatho zefestile okanye ahlale kwisonka kunye namanzi ngenxa yokuthenga into. Ubume bakhe obusebenzayo kulula ukufumana imali engekhoyo kunokusindisa, ukuzikhanyela izinto ezinonophelo, kwaye nangona kunjalo kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngoko ke, ekhangela ikhathalogu yemveliso yobomvu, u-Oksana wacinga malunga nendlela yokwenza imali yokunyusa imali kwimodeli eyathandwa kuye: "Ndiza kuthatha ixesha lokuqeqesha elongezelelweyo, njengoko kucetyiswa ngumlawuli, ndiya kufumana iikole ezongezelelekileyo kwizifundo ezizimeleyo kwaye ngoko-ke uyavuma ukukhokelela isangqa umelwane wase-lyceum ". U-Oksana uqikelele ubungakanani bemali engenayo: kubonakala ukuba uya kuba ngumnikazi weengubo ezimnandi zaseMouton nje ngexesha lokubusika ozayo. Ilungiselelo lakhe lalungiswa, kwaye waqala ukukhangela iqela lephepha elinomnxeba wenkokhelo yothisha oyintloko waseLyceum, osandul 'ukuvakalisa isiluleko somsebenzi.
Le ndlela ikulungele ukuba abo bafazi abasebenza ngeteksi-sebenze-unako ukuhlala enkonzweni kuze kube phakathi kobusuku okanye uthathe imiba endlwini. Ukuba uhlala kumvuzo, unokucela ukwanda, uhambela kwindawo ephezulu yokuhlawula, ufumana imisebenzi yesikhathi esithile. Ukongezelela, malunga nehlabathi lonke, ukunika ezininzi iindlela zokufumana iimali ezongezelelweyo kunye namathuba oqoqosho olufanelekileyo kumfazi wesimanje.
Ebusuku, ngeempela-veki nakwiholide, unokufumana umsebenzi oza kuzisa imali eyongezelelweyo, kwaye kwakhona, ukugcinwa ngokufanelekileyo kumfazi wesimanje. Ama-freelancers kuwo wonke umhlaba aqhubeka ngakumbi kwaye imali yabo iyaqhubeka ikhula. Musa nje ukubandakanyeka kwiingxaki zezemali ezingathandabuzekiyo kwaye ungakholelwa abo bathembisa ukuzondla ngokukhawuleza nangokulula (khumbula, umzekelo, bangaphi abantu abavuthayo kwiipramramid zemali).
Kukhona enye ingozi elele kulindele abo bakulungele ukusebenza ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yephupha. Le ndlela-yokunyamezela, ixinzelelwe yi-syndrome yokutshiswa komzwelo. Kunzima kubafazi abanokuxilongwa okunjalo ukufumana injabulo kwizinto eziye zaphunyezwa, iphupha elithengiweyo alinakuchulumisa, kwaye ngokubanzi akukho mvakalelo. Kwaye kuvela: umphumo kukuba, kwaye akukho ntliziyo yolonwabo. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukuyeka ngokukhawuleza ekuphishekeleni ukuchuma kwezinto eziphathekayo nokubhiyozela ukunqoba okuphakathi. Hlala namhlanje, kungekhona nje izicwangciso ezizayo. Kwaye khumbula njalo into owenza imali.
Indlela yenombolo 3. Ukuboleka
UVera uye wahlala engumfazi ongachukumisi: ngokukhawuleza xa efumene umsebenzi kwiqumrhu elidumileyo, ngokukhawuleza wahlanganyela kwisethi epheleleyo "ikhabethe". Kwaye waqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba wayengenayo i-coat yaneleyo yengubo: "Ukuhamba ngomsebenzi omninzi kwijeyethi engavumelekanga, udinga ubomvu boqobo!" Kungekudala nje kunokutsho. UVera wathatha umhlobo we-2,5 i-euro zama-euro ngomvuzo wesikhathi esizayo waza waya e-Greece. Usuku lwachithwa ekukhetheni iingubo zeegusha (i-mink ye-1800). Iintsuku ezimbini ezongezelelweyo uVera wachitha kwisiqithi saseKalkidiki, ekwazisa i-Aegean Sea kunye nokutyelela iindawo ezikhangayo zendawo, kwaye ekubuyeni kwakhe kwaqala umsebenzi wakhe omtsha. Kwakufudumele kwaye kuyamnandi ukuya emsebenzini kwindawo entsha.
Eli bali libonisa indlela yokuqonda ebomini, kuquka imali kunye nezinto eziphathekayo, ukugcinwa ngokufanelekileyo kumfazi wamanje. Yintoni umntu ayifunayo, uyayifumana ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ke ngoko uyayihlawulela yona: uyayiphakamisa umsebenzi, aphinde ahlawule imali, kwaye uyancenkceshela - ukuba ubani kulula. Kwaye inengcamango yokuba iinjongo sele zifezekile, zivakala kwaye zixhasa: iyakwandisa ukuzithemba kwaye inceda ukusebenza nzima okanye ukuzithemba ukuhlala kwisondlo, ukugcina kwimveliso ebiza.
Umsebenzi okhuthaziweyo usebenza ngokuthe gqolo, kwaye izithintelo ezihambelana nazo kulula kakhulu ukudlulisa, kuba iintlawulo zenyanga nganye mboleko ziyanqandeka. Kodwa kulabo abafuna yonke into ngexesha elilodwa, kukho ubuninzi beengozi: musa ukukrazula umthwalo, zityumle kunye / okanye ube yintlawulo engapheliyo. Ngoko zama ukulinganisa amathuba akho ngokuchitha. Ngendlela, ngamanye amaxesha ukungcola kunye namaphupha okungalawulwayo kubangelwa ukwesaba okukamva kwekamva lomfazi. I-psychotherapist iyomnceda ukuba alwe nalo mfazi.
Indlela yombolo 4. Fumana isipho
Inna phantse akanakuva ukugatywa kwabazali bakhe, kwaye zonke iimfuno zakhe zezinto eziphathekayo, kubandakanywa nezindleko, zadibana nokufunwa. Kungokwemvelo ukuba xa ukhetha iqabane, waqaphela indlela umntu azimisele ngayo ukumkhupha. Ngokukodwa, waqala ukukhumbuza naziphi na iiholide eziphawulekayo phakathi kwenyanga kunye nanini naxa wabuza ngokudlala: "Uza kundinika ntoni na?" Omnye ovela kwintsimi yahlanjululwa ngokukhawuleza ("Ufuna kuphela imali kum!"), Omnye wazinikela ezinyangeni ezimbalwa, engabandezeleka ngumthwalo omkhulu. Kodwa emva kokuba umfana olandelayo wesigqibo somdabu-okhuselekileyo u-Inna: "Uza kundinika ntoni ngoMatshi 8?" waphendula umbuzo: "Ufuna ntoni na?" - "Shubka", - wamomotheka ngokukhawuleza, wakhala. "Azikho iingxaki," iRoomo yaphendula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngosuku lwesibhozo emini i-Inna yayisele izama umkhiqizo ococekileyo owenziwe ngubomvu wenkomo yasendle kunye neekhenkethi ze-Swarovski.
Eli bali liyamthanda, ukuba uyakholelwa kumandla e-narcotic of love, kwiindaba zeCinderellas kunye neenkosana eziphathekayo kunye nenyaniso yokuba inkumbulo ingaba yinyani. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba nengqondo ephilileyo, akufuneki ukuba nethemba lokuba isisombululo seengxaki zakho zezinto eziphathekayo siya kuba ngumntu onomdla kwaye onqabileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuqinisekileyo, abantu abanjalo bafunyaniswa, kodwa bahlala behlawula ngokukhululekile ukunyameka kwabantu: bayakubekezelela ukunyaniseka, baphulaphule ukuhlambalaza, baxolele ukunyaniseka ... kwaye konke okuhlazolayo, kunye naloo nto, ubundlobongela besifazane. Ndikholelwe, ukusuka kumbono wokujonga, ukucela izipho (imali) ibonakala, ukuyibeka ngobumnene, kungeyona ndlela engcono. Ngubani othunyelwe kuyo: umthandi okanye abazali bakhe.
Kodwa nangona ungayicingi ingqalelo kwimiba yokuziphatha neyokuziphatha yenkinga, umfanekiso uphazamisa. Xa umntu ngokuzithandela engavumi ukuqonda iphupha lakhe kwaye uzame nangayiphi na indlela yokwenza omnye umntu abe yinto yokufezekisa injongo yakhe, umntu unokuthetha ngokukhuselekileyo ngokungaqhathaniswa kwakhe kunye nokunyaniseka. Ehlabathini lanamhlanje kunye nesiseko soqoqosho lwaso, umsebenzi ohlawulelwayo ngowona nto inzuzo kunye nelungelo elilodwa lomntu omdala, kwaye wena ngokwakho uyayenqaba, kwakunye nokuvavanywa kwentlalo. Wena, njengomntwana, cela "umntu omdala" ngoncedo lwezinto ezithile eziza kuba yimpumelelo yakho. Ngaba lixesha lokukhula, ukuzama isandla sakho ngokuqala ukuzithobela?
Indlela yendlela 5. Yenza yona
UMarina wayegqoke kakuhle, kwaye iingubo zakhe ezintle zazivela kwimvelaphi yabantu. Nangona kunjalo, ingcamango yokubambisa isambatho soboya eboyeni obulungisiweyo ayizange ifike kuye ade afunde isikhangiso kwi-intanethi malunga nokuthengiswa kweebhokhwe ezinemibala. Ixabiso labo lalifaniswa nentengo yesitya yengubo yengubo, kwaye uMarina wanquma. Kwathatha ixesha elide ukuhlambalaza, ngenxa yokuba kwakungekho buchule ekusebenzeni ngoboya, kodwa ijacket yavela-umthendeleko wamehlo. Ukongezelela, ukusuka kwinqaku kwakunokwenzeka ukwenza i-cap efanelekileyo kwintombi kunye nokuqhaqha inqabunga ngeenwele zesibane. Impumelelo yaphefumlela uMarina, waza wagqiba ukugubungela iingubo ezilandelayo zoboya obunzima. Emva koko, imiyalelo evela kubahlobo kunye nabaziyo bawa, uMarina washiya umsebenzi weofisi, waqasha ababini abancedisi besetyhini waza waququzelela umgcini we-atelier encinci, enika imali engenayo.
Inkqubo eyenziwe ngumntu kwiphupha yindlela eyona yendalo kunye neyendlela yamandulo yoqoqosho olufanelekileyo kumfazi wesimanje. Ekuqaleni kwempucuko, abanye babengazange bafumaneke: ufuna ukugqokisa ukugqoka okufudumele - ufuna i-new tuesok ukuqokelela amajikijolo kunye neengcambu - i-weave ... Kodwa ekubeni uluntu lucala imali, ukwenza ngezandla zethu oko sikufunayo okanye sifuna ukuba , yazikhethela. Ngokuqhelekileyo kulula ukuyithenga into epheleleyo kwaye ungabikho ukukhohlisa. Nangona kunjalo, i-psychotype yomntu odala iphupha ngezandla zakhe kwisuka sokuqala (amanqatha, iplank, nakleechki ...), ehlukileyo kwi-psychotype ye-amateur evulekile ngokulungele ukuba ufuna ukukhohlisa. Uyakuthanda ukuphazamisa malunga neenkcukacha, ukudala ukuhluka okungazange kwenziwe ngaphambili kokuklanywa okanye ukusika, ukufuna iinkonzo ezizodwa. Ngendlela, kufuneka kucace kule nto "ukwenza oko ngokwakho" akusoloko ihamba ngendlela encinci, kwaye akubona abo bafuna ukuyigcina kwiphupha okanye ukuyifumana engabizi. Kodwa iphupha lokwenene ekubonakalweni kweedalowom ixabiso lexeshana kunye nezinto eziphathekayo, kuba umphumo uyinto eyingqayizivele, ekhethekileyo ngohlobo lwawo, ucingisise ngeenkcukacha kwaye uyithande kakhulu. Kuyabasetyhini abaqulunqayo, musa ukunyamezela imibono ephindaphindiweyo, abafuna ukuhlala, ukuba bangaboni njengabanye abantu, le yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqonda iphupha lezinto eziphathekayo. Kubo, inkqubo ehambayo yokuguqulwa komgubo ayinandi kuphela, kodwa nayo iyimfuneko yokwaneliseka ngesiphumo kunye nomoya wokuzaliswa kobomi ngokubanzi.
Ukugcinwa kolunye uhlobo
Tshintsha. Utshintshiselwano lwemvelo yinto abantu abaye bayenza ukususela kumaxesha amandulo. Kwaye ekubeni imali ingabandakanywa kwinkqubo, ukugcinwa kuyifumaneka kwifomu ecocekileyo. Umzekelo, unokufunda incwadi uze uyitshintshe kwi-intanethi kwenye, emva koko ibe kwisithathu kunye njalo. Abo banqwenela ukuthabatha ukufunda kwakho ngokuqinisekileyo baya kufumaneka, kwaye wena, ngaphandle kokuhlawula ipenny, funda ilayibrari yonke. Ukuhamba kwencwadi yokuhamba ngeencwadi ("iincwadi zokuhamba") kuzuza ukuthandwa: abathathi-nxaxheba, emva kokufunda le ncwadi, bayishiye kwindawo evelele, umzekelo, esihlalweni emotweni yendlela engaphantsi komhlaba, apho unokuthi ithathwe ngumntu.
Ukusebenzisana. Ngokomzekelo, ngokuvuma kunye nabahlobo-abahlobo ukuthenga iiCD kunye namafilimu "nonke", uya kulondoloza inani elihle. Ngokomzekelo, kule veki uthengisa ii-discs, ngolunye olulandelayo-i-Krasnovs, i-Belovs zithenga ii-diski ezimbini kwenye iveki, kwaye ekupheleni kwenyanga i-Chernovs yenza okufanayo, kwaye ngeli xesha lonke iifilimu ziyahamba ngeesangqa. Kubonakala ngathi yinto encinci, kodwa ekubaleni ukuba i-disk yelayisenisi ixabisa malunga ne-40 hryvnia, uya kulondoloza inyanga ngaphezulu kwewaka lamawaka eeprojekithi.
Ukusetyenziswa kokubambisana, okanye ukwabelana ngoku kuhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo, engekho kuphela kwiiDVD, kodwa nakwiimoto, izixhobo kunye namakhadi okuphuhlisa.
Landela izaphulelo
Ungalindi ixesha lexesha lexesha leminyaka: amanqaku amaninzi awaziwayo anamasheya anamhlanje onke. Landela iintlawulo zanamhlanje zabanikezeli be-intanethi, iinkampani ezihambahambayo kwaye ukhethe eyona ndlela yonyusa. Ukuya eholidini, qwa lasela amahotele atsha ukuba uvule, apho amaxabiso ahlala ephantsi. Isaphulelo sinokufika kuma-30%, kwaye lo ngumkhankaso wokukhangisa ukutsala abathengi. Ukuba uya kwelinye ilizwe, yenza i-visa inenzuzo ngokwakho. Unomonde okwaneleyo, kwaye umsebenzi wakho ukuqokelela amaxwebhu uya kuhlawula: amaninzi amajelo ehambo ekuvuleni i-visa athathe i-euro engama-10-20. Uze uqhelane neziqheno zendawo, kwaye (ukugcina kwiindleko zokuvakasha), uhamba ngelizwe ngeebhasi kunye neetreni eziye zayeka, nakuzo zonke iidolophana zokuhlala. Ieteksi, xa kuthelekiswa, kuya kuba neendleko ezi-5-10 kumaxabiso angaphezulu.