Abaninzi bethu, ekupheleni koMnyaka woNyaka omtsha, babuzwa ingxaki enjalo njengendlela yokwenza u-Eva Unyaka Omtsha angalibalekanga, kwaye intsapho kunye nabathandekayo bayonwabile kakhulu kule holide. Impendulo ilula, njengezimbini ezibini, kubalulekile ukuzama kule shishini, ukucinga ngokupheleleyo yonke into yoNyaka kaNtsha. Kwaye ngoko uya kuziva ufudumele kunye nesidlo sonyaka woNyaka omtsha ngeepesenti ezilikhulu. Unyaka omtsha yeholide yentsapho, ngoko ke, kuxhomekeke kwindlela oyiphatha ngayo, imvakalelo yamakhaya akho incike, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo iyakho. Ngenxa yokuba akukho nto ilungileyo kuneendawo ezikhoyokileyo zabantu basekuhlaleni kulo mkhwa.
Kuhlala kulungele ukukhumbula ukuba ukulungiselela ukubhiyozelwa koNyaka omtsha kulungele kwangaphambili. Ngexesha elide lokulungiselela, ngakumbi uqobo kunye nombala oza kulufumana. Kwikhalenda yokuqala kwiminyaka eyi-10 kaDisemba, ungalindeli ukuba amanani adlule kuma-20. Qala ukwenza ngoku ngoku, uzenzele "isiqalo" sokulungiselela. Njengoko sele sikhankanywe ngasentla, kubalulekile ukucinga malunga nayiphi na inkcukacha kulo myalelo. Ngoko masiphathise ngoku xanduva ngqo kwaye sizame ukucinga ngeli holide.
Kwaye qalisa kunye netafile, nokuba yinto enje into ebalulekileyo, njengeempahla zetafile zonyaka omtsha. Kufuneka kungabi nendawo enye okanye iphoso. Ngoko ke, ihlanjwe kakuhle kwaye ifakwe. Akuyimfuneko ukuthenga ityhubhu entsha yetafile minyaka yonke. Ukubhiyozelwa koNyaka omtsha ozayo, unyaka odlulileyo uya kwenza. Unokwenza uhlaziye ngokucwangcisa umzekelo wonyaka onguNyaka okanye usebenzise isicelo sesidlo. Khumbula ukuba indwangu yeetrafti ixhomeke malunga ne-15-20 centimitha etafileni. Ngendlela, umbala wecala lesambatho kufuneka uncediswe ngumbala we-napkins oyikhethile. Ngomnyaka omtsha, kufuneka ibe nemibala eyahlukileyo. Oku, umzekelo, ubomvu ngokudibanisa nephuzi. Imboleko yentsapho yonyaka kaNtshukumo omtsha ayifuni ingcamango encinane kunye neengcamango. Kuphakathi kwetafile, kufuneka ubeke imboleko encinci yeKrismesi ngendlela yecandelo lokuqala lomthi weKrismesi elungileyo elenziwe ngezinto eziphathekayo. Kwakhona, musa ukulibala ngeemakhandlela zonyaka omtsha, zizakuhlala zize zibe zibini. Ngokusondele kwiziko letafile, beka ii-oranges uze unamathele kuwo umlilo waseBengal, osebenza ngokuthe ngqo ngexesha lokulwa kwe-chimes. Kwakhona, ungazibopha amabhokisi amancinci ngephepha okanye iphepha elinemibala uze uwafake kwi-nganye yazo ngokubhekiselele kwinqophiso yeNtsha yeNtsha okanye izibikezelo zamahlaya. Ukuba, ngakwesokunene, akukho bhokisi, uze uthathe kwaye ubambe isikhwama esikhanyayo ngokubhekiselele kweli cala. Yenza ilungu ngalinye lentsapho, libeke isandla sayo kuyo, khetha iqela elinesifiso kuye. Olu lonwabo luya kukhupha umoya kwaye lunike ulwandle luhle.
Umthi omtsha woNyaka ungumqondiso weeholide, zama, ukuba ingubo yayo iya kuba yinto enhle kwaye ayiyi kuphinda ithetha intsingiselo yalo nyaka wokugqibela. Ngendlela, ngaphezu komthi oyintloko, ungenza enye ingcaciso encinane, ngakumbi kubantwana bakho. Kule meko, abantwana baya kubangela ulwandle oluneemvakalelo ezintle, okubizwa ngokuba "ngumthi uKrismesi onomnandi". Ukuze wenze oko, uya kuyidinga iqela lekhadibhodi, okufuneka uyifake kwifom yekona. Ukukhuseleka ngoncedo lokunciphisa izitenxo zesiseko sawo, kwaye ekugqibeleni, unamathele i-candy emthini weKrismesi kwiimpawu eziqhakazileyo. Yazi, umntwana wakho uya kuwuxabisa. Emva kwakho konke, kubantwana, uNyaka omtsha yiholide enhle kakhulu, ngoko ke umsebenzi wakho oyintloko kukuba wenze konke okusemandleni ukuba umntwana wakho akholelwe kule ngxaki.
Cinga ngeendlela zokunikela izipho zakho kwizihlobo nakwiintsapho. Khumbula ukuba nayiphina isipho, kungekhona kuxhomekeke kwintengo kunye nokubaluleka kwayo, ngokuchanekileyo kufakwe kwi-addressee yayo, inokukhunjulwa kakhulu ixesha elide. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka unike isipho sakho ngesimanga. Intsapho yakho iya kuneliswa yilo. Thatha uphinde upake zonke izipho zakho kwiphepha eliqhawulayo, udibanise ngesithsaba esinamandla kunye nesithambiso esiphezulu, zifake phantsi komthi wakho weKrisimasi. Kuzo zonke izipho, faka ikhadi kunye negama lomntu ekubhekiswe kuyo (unyana, ugogo, utata, othandekayo, njl.).
Ukwenza imenyu yonyaka omtsha, qwalasela zonke izinto ezithandayo kunye neenketho zentsapho yakho. Abantwana abathandekayo, abantu abadala yonke into. Bonisa zonke iitalente zakho zokutya. Khangela iimpapasho ezizodwa okanye iiwebhsayithi. Kwaye ke, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kunika izihlobo zakho kunye neyona ndlela ekhethekileyo yokutya, kwaye baya kuphakamisa ngokukhawuleza isilwanyana sakho sokuqala ngoNyaka omtsha, siyabonga ngenxa yakho, kunye nawe nemizamo yakho. Musa ukulibala malunga nokuhlobisa iikholishi, kuba uyilo oluchanekileyo lwesitya lenza lukhange ngakumbi.
Kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ndifuna ukuphawula, ngokugqithiseleyo ukuphatha umbhiyozo woNyaka omtsha, udibaniso uya kudibana nayo nentsapho yakho. Emva kokuba uzonambitha ubuncwane bobuchule bakho kwaye uqaphela indlela eyavuya ngayo kwiintsapho zakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziva ngathi ungeyi-sorceress. Futhi musa ukuvumela le mvakalelo emihle ikushiye. Kodwa into ephambili apha ayikho loo nto. Yaye inyaniso yokuba uya kuhlangana noMnyaka omtsha nabantu bakho abasondeleyo abakunikizelayo baze baveze iimvakalelo ezimangalisayo zengqondo. Kungenxa yezi zizathu, ungatsho ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba usapho lwakho lusuku lokuNyaka omtsha, lwaphumelela ngokwenene. Konke kusezandleni zakho.