Ngelishwa, ngesini esinye isini isini sibonisa i-naivety engenammiselo, kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, nobudenge. Kodwa thina ngabasetyhini ngenxa yoko. Kwaye abantu bathi bafuna ukubona intombi ehlakaniphile, ehlakaniphile kufuphi nabo. Yaye ngubani owathi abantu abanobulumko abanakukwazi ukungazenzisi kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, bahlaziye ngelo xesha? Nangona kunjalo, masizame ukuqonda ingqiqo yabo kwaye sifumane ukuba zeziphi iimpazamo ezinkulu zamantombazana ekunxibelelaneni nobudlelwane kunye nabafana - emva kokuba lonke olu lwazi luya kusinceda ukuququzelela ukunxibelelana kunye nokuphepha ukungaqondi kakuhle.
"Ukuba ndambiza, akuthethi nto nantoni na!"
Le yimi binzana abaxelela abahlobo babo emva kokuba uqale ukuziphatha njengokungathi usuqabane. Bantombazana abathandekayo, abantu bafana nezidalwa ezinokuthi baninzi iintombi zabo ukuba bathethe, nokuba bawancedise ngokuncoma, kodwa oko akuthethi kubo ukuba ufuna ukuba nawe kunye. Ngako oko, baphakamisa ukuzithemba kwabo, kakuhle, okanye ngokwenene, umfana, onyanisekileyo. Ngoko akudingeki ukuba wenze ifowuni yakhe ibuhlungu, ingakumbi ekhaya, emva koko, kuba umama wakhe nodade bakhe bangathabatha ifowuni kunye nombuzo "unjani uhlobo lweentombazana ezibizayo", "uneminyaka emingakanani", njl njl. Kwaye a makhwenkwe apha, njengoko bengathandi.
Gcina ikhefu, ukuba kungekudala uza kuqala ukukubiza ngokuphindaphindiweyo, okanye nangomhla wokumema, ngoko unokwazi ukuphendula i-SMS yakhe, kodwa kungcono ukungaxhomeki kulo mbandela. Unokulahlekelwa ngumlinganiselo wakho kwaye uqale ukumkhathaza.
Ubomvu obomvu njengabantu bonke.
Uninzi lwamantombazana luchaza umdlalo wokuba abantu bathande. Bafuna ukuba banomtsalane, banomdla kwaye bavakalise. Kuhle ukuba umfazi ufuna ukuthanda indoda yakhe. Ngokukodwa xa umntu emxelela ukuba ibonakala ibhenkce kakhulu, umzekelo, ukwakheka "iso elitshatayo" okanye enye into. Kulungile, thatha le ngqalelo kwaye usebenzise isixhobo esinjalo esingenakwenzeka. Kodwa, ukuba umntu othandekayo uthi akafuni ukumanga ibhokisi le powder, kwaye uyakuthanda ubuncinci bokuzenzela, ke ungacingi ukuba ulele kwaye uziva nje uxolo ngemali yokwenza kwakho. Ukuba uthethe njalo, oko kunjalo. Sivele sibheke ubuqhetseba obungcolileyo, kwaye bahlala bethetha ngokungahambi kakuhle, ngendlela abacinga ngayo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphuma kwisihlwele, zenzele ukwakheka kwendalo, kungekhona isiskiti sePapu. Imibala ye-pastel edibeneyo iya kukunika inkqubela kunye nentsha yesibheno. Yaye le nto iya kuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokutsala ingqalelo yakho kwincwadana yakho. Yimvelo.
Amadoda ayithandi ukuhleba kunye nokuthakazelisa.
Ngamanye amaxesha, amantombazana axoxa nabanye abantu bengabikho. Akunandaba ukuba bayayenza ivulekele, okanye bazame ukuhlekisana ngomnye nomnye. Emva kwakho konke, kusabonakala, kwaye umntu ohloniphayo akayi kukunyamezela oku. Ewe, sonke asikho ngaphandle kwetyala. Abanye abameli bendoda, ngamanye amaxesha, banokuxoxa ngomntu othile, kodwa oku kwenziwa ngokuthula, ngaphandle kokuziqwalasela. Ngoko ungabonakali isithunzi sakho ngeendleko zezinye iintsilelo zabantu, kuba nazo unabo.
I-PMS ayikho isizathu sokuphula kumntu othandekayo.
Bafazi abathandekayo, khumbula ukuba amadoda ethu abathandayo akaqondi ukuba i-PMS ingenza njani ukhathazeke kwaye, nangokwengqondo! Ewe, ewe. Abayi kuqonda oku, ukuzisola kakhulu. Kwaye, ukuba sizivumela ukuba sikhuphe kubo, kwaye "zilahla" konke oku kuzinzwa ezibangelwa yi-PMS, ngoko bayathemba ukuba oku kungokuthi "sizathu." Oo, yintoni inceba yokuba awukwazi ukutshintshiselana neendawo kunye ubuncinane ngomjikelezo omnye!
Ifowuni yeselula yipropati yam yangasese.
Isiqingatha sabantu besiplanethi sithukuthelelwe kukuba intombazana yabo ihlola iifowuni zazo. Le yithuba labo, ihlabathi labo. Musa ukuphazamisana naye, umnike inkululeko, oku kubaluleke kakhulu kumadoda. Kungcono nje ukuba uthembele kubo kunye nayo yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle. Emva koko, ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha, uya kwenza oko kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyenyuka efonini yakhe okanye cha.
Ingxoxo kwizinto ezinzulu ziloyiko.
Kwisigaba sokuqala sobudlelwane akuvumelekile ukuba uqale ukuthetha malunga nosapho nabantwana. Bonke abantu banenzondelelo enkulu ngenkululeko yabo. Kwaye lolu hlobo lwenkulumo luphahla nje kuphela. Ngaphambi kwamehlo abo, ngokukhawuleza kubonakala umfanekiso apho ihhashi elikhululekileyo lisinda ebukhosini. Ngokukodwa ukuba umntu usemncinane. Nangona oku kunokubangela umntu kunye neminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala nangaphezulu.
Umona ngumbulali wobudlelwane.
Intombazana enomona kuqala iyabangela ukuba badideke, kwaye ke - umsindo. Kwaye, ukuba ngaba nomona ongenamsebenzi, ubuhlobo bakho abuyi kuhlala ixesha elide. Nantsi kuyimfuneko ukukhetha, nokuba nomona okanye ukwakha ubudlelwane.
Abahlobo bangcwele.
Apha uqala ukudibana, uyakuzisa kubahlobo bakhe, kwaye abayithandi. Enye - inkohlakalo, isibini - iziqalekiso ngegama ngalinye, ngokunjalo, njl. Kuya kuba yimpazamo enkulu xa uqala ukuphazamisana nabo, kuba bangabangani bakho bomhlobo. Kulungile ngokuthe ngcembe, ungene ngokuthe ngcembe kwinkampani yakho, okanye uqhelane nabantu abatsha kwaye wenze i-yours, inkampani eqhelekileyo. Kodwa, ngenxa yoko kufuneka ube nesineke kwaye uhlale uhlala.
Lapha siye sazisa iimpazamo ezinkulu zamantombazana ekunxibelelaneni nasebudlelwaneni kunye nabafana. Qaphela kwaye ujabule!