Mshiye loo mntu indawo
Isabelo seengonyama phakathi kwezibini ezitshatileyo zivela ngenxa yokulawulwa ngokugqithisileyo kunye neqabane elilodwa kunye nokunyamekela kolunye. Njengomthetho, umntu unesifo esithintekayo kwisithandwa sakhe, kwaye umfazi uyacaphuka xa engayifumani yonke iminithi kwisiqingatha sakhe. Amantombazana azivakalela ukungqalelo, njengokuba bengenalo uthando.
Yena kwaye uyaqonda ngokucacileyo ubudlelwane beentsapho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba namandla enu ngawe, indoda ayisoze yafuna ukungahlali phantsi kunye nabahlobo kwaye uye kwibhola lebhola. Abasetyhini, ngokuchaseneyo, bathambekele ekukhawulezeni ubudlelwane nentloko, bakhohlwe ngabahlobo kunye nokuzonwabisa, apho intanda ayithatha inxaxheba. Ngenxa yoko, kuvela ukuxhatshazwa okubuhlungu.
Umgaqo wokuqala wegolide: ukuphepha iingxaki - ukuphuculwa ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukugxila kumntu wakho iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, bhetele uzifumene izinto ezimbini zokuzilibazisa eziza kuthatha ixesha lakho lokukhulula. Nangona umyeni wakho ehleli kwibhagi kunye nabahlobo, uya kwizemidlalo, waya kwi-salon, udibana neentombi zakho, ubhalisele izifundo zokuvuselela, ukuqeqesha ... Ngoko awuyikushiya indoda nje ngeeyure eziliqela ngaphandle kweefowuni kunye neesms, kodwa uya kuphucula ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Ndikholelwe, indoda ayisoze ifuna ukulahlekelwa ngumfazi onelungelo elaneleyo.
Inkxaso
Ubudlelwane buyadinga ukulinganisela nokuvisisana, ngoko musa ukukhawuleza. Sikuqinisekisile ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba ungaphaya kwamadoda akho? Ukugqwesa, kodwa ungakulibala ukubiza (kungekho rhoqo, ngokwaneleyo kanye ngosuku!) Kwaye uzibuze ukuba wenza ntoni kwaye ufuna ukukwenza inkampani, umzekelo, kwi-gym? Ngoku - unamalingani alinganayo, iinqitha zenye. Buza malunga nokunqoba kwakhe nokuphumelela kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, inkxaso. Amadoda akasoze abelane ngokuhluleka kwabo nabahlobo, kungenxa yoko ngezinye izihlandlo badinga uncedo lwabathandekayo babo.
Umgaqo wesibini wegolide: sondele kumthandeki wakho ngexesha loyiso kunye nokulwa. Amadoda akasoze afune ukulahlekelwa intombazana ewaqondayo aze ayamkele njengoko ikhona.
Hlala ukhange
Abafazi abaninzi emva komtshato bayeke ukuhlawula ixesha elaneleyo lokuzinyamekela. Khumbula wena ngexesha ofuna ukutsala ingqalelo yakho okhethiweyo. Zingaphi iingubo ezintsha kunye neebhola ezibonakalayo kwi-wardrobe yakho? Ngokuqinisekileyo phantse yonke imihla uyenze umzobo kwi-hairdresser, ubeke izithende, uzincama ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yobuhle? Ukuba usaphila phambi kwesibuko imihla ngemihla ngeyure, akufanele ukhathazeke, kodwa ukuba ixesha obenokuzinyamekela lona liza kuhlamba, ukutshiza kunye "neentombi zabesifazane" - ukuphuka. Hlaziya ihambo yakho yemihla ngemihla. Indoda, ewe, iya kuqonda ukunakekelwa, kodwa yena, okokuqala, ufuna ukukubona uhle njengaphambili.
Umthetho wesithathu wegolide: Hlalani nisoloko ninomsebenzi wokwenza umgangatho kunye nokugqiba. Umfazi omhle uya kuyika ukulahlekelwa ngumntu.
Musa kuba nomona!
Amakhosikazi ngamanye amaxesha ayengabonakali ngomona, ekholelwa ukuba lo bubungqina bothando. Ngelo xesha, indoda ingasongelwa ixesha elide kwaye liqhubeke, ukuba umona ufanele uhlangabezane naye. Akukho namnye ongenakunceda ukwakha ubudlelwane. Ukugqiba ukukhupha umfana ukuba ube nomona, zilungele imiphumo engalindelekanga. Abanye abantu banokuthukuthela, abanye baya kucinga ukuba unengqondo, kanti abanye baya kufumana ubukhwele ubungqina bokungazinaki. Kungcono ukuba ungadlani kunye nomona.
Ngokungafani nabasetyhini, bonke abantu, ngaphandle kokunye, badelela ukubonakaliswa kothando olunjalo kwaye bacaphukisa xa umfazi othandekayo ekhwela ukuba nomona.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi iisoloko ibangela ukuba umona ungakhuselekanga. Yingakho ibhinqa ivakalelwa kukuba indoda yakhe ifuna ukufumana umntu olungcono kwaye iqala ukudlala i-detective.
Umthetho wesine wegolide: gxininisa ngokwakho, tyelela iinkqubo ezininzi zokuzicoca, uninzi oluya kulufuna ukuze uzive untle kakhulu. Nomona uya kuhamba.
Makhe azive efunekayo
Wonke umntu ufuna ukubonisa esinye isiqingatha oko kuyimfuneko nokulungileyo. Ungadlala kunye neenjongo zakhe ezintle kwaye ngezikhathi ezithile zicela iinkonzo ezincinci, kungekhona, iinkonzo. Ukuba umntu uyazi kakuhle kule nkqubo, mbizele ukuba alungise i-toaster. Ukuba ubiza umninimzi ekhaya, ke umfana wakho unokuthatha njengento yokuthuka isithunzi. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba nantoni na eyenziwe, mxelele ngengxaki, mthandayo makenze isigqibo sokuba uya kuhlangabezana naso okanye ufuna uncedo.
Ukuba isiqingatha sakho sinezakhono ezaneleyo zokusombulula ingxaki, ungathi kuye: "ungumntu ..." Umfana wakho unokuba ngumqeqeshi kwimeko enye, kodwa akayiqondi enye. Kwaye oku kuqhelekileyo, kuba sonke singabantu. Khumbula, ukunyeliswa kolu hlobo kwenza umntu azibuthathaka. Ekuphenduleni, unokufumana ukuhlaselwa okubuhlungu ngakumbi, kuba uya kuthinta i-ego yakhe.
Umthetho wesihlanu wegolide: qinisa kwaye usebenzise amandla omthandayo, ngokucokisekileyo ungathethi ngobuthathaka! Ulwalamano oluhambelanayo, njengomthetho, luyinto eqhubekayo kwaye ihlala ihlala njalo. Amadoda ayesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumfazi onokuziqhayisa kunye nesibindi.
Qaphela umba wezemali
Enye indawo yokugula yamadoda amaninzi uphuhliso lwezemali. Ukugxekwa komsebenzi wakhe, umvuzo, ukuhlambalaza malunga neendleko zezipho kunye nezinto ezinjalo zikhokelela ekugqibeleni ngokupheleleyo kobudlelwane.
Umthetho wesithandathu wegolide: ungayeki ukugxeka imeko yemali yekhethiweyo. Ukuba awukwaneliswa yimali engenayo, xubusha ngebhunga lentsapho ukuba unokuphucula njani impilo yakho. Indoda ayisoze ifuna ukulahlekelwa ngumfazi owaziyo ukuba imali ingabizi kakhulu kunothando.
Musa ukwaneliswa ngumsindo nentukuthelo
Ukubuyisa ukufudumala kwangaphambili kunxibelelwano kunzima nangona emva kweentsuku eziliqela zokuhlambalaza, ungakhankanyi ukuxabana okude. Ulwalamano oluchanekileyo luphambili kwiimpumelelo nokuvisisana.
Umyalelo wesixhenxe wegolide: ukuba uyamthanda owakhethiweyo, funda ukuwuthabatha, kunokuba umfanekiso ocingileyo owawukhanda entlokweni yakho kwiinyanga ezinjalo xa ekutshatile. Indoda iya kuyixabisa kwaye iya kuyika ukulahlekelwa nguwe.