Indlela yokubetha umfana evela kwintombazana, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zezi. Amakhulu kunye namakhulu eminyaka, abafazi bahlaselwa ngabakhethiweyo. Yingakho, kukho i-arsenal yonke "yezixhobo" ukwenza intombi yakhe yangaphambili.
Ngoko, nantoni na ukuba uqale. Mhlawumbi kunye nokuqokelela ulwazi. Kufuneka uwazi zonke iindawo ezibuthathaka zomdlali wakho ngokufanelekileyo ukubetha isiguli. Abantu abafezekanga, ngoko intombazana iya kuba neendlela ezinobungqina obuvuthayo umthandi wakho. Yilokho okufuneka udlale. Behave ukuze aqonde: nguyena umfazi onokuba ngumhle kuye. Awukwazi ukucaphukisa okanye ukuthukuthela. Uyavumelana ngokupheleleyo kunye nemibono yobomi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akunako ukunyaniseka, kodwa oko akunakwenziwa, ngenxa yothandekayo. Zama nje ukuba ungadlulanga kwakhona. Yonke into ifanele ibonakale inyaniso kunye nemvelo.
Ukuba uhlala kwinkampani enye, yenza njengomntu ongenalo umdla, ukuze umchasi akrokre into into engalunganga, kwaye akayi kuqalisa imfazwe nawe. Yenza sengathi awukukhathaleli, kodwa ngenxa yempazamo, ngephutha, uphendule ngezenzo kunye namazwi ayenayo loo mntu.
Ukuba oku kungasebenzi, okanye ungenalo ithuba lokubona indoda edla ngokwaneleyo, nakhu izicebiso ezingakumbi zokubetha intombazana, ezi ndlela zingozi kwaye ngokwabo, zikhohlakele, kodwa ngenxa yothando ungakwazi ukuya nantoni na.
Intombazana ingahlawuliswa, kungekhona ngelizwi, kodwa ngezenzo. Ukwenza oku, udinga indoda encinane, ngokukhethekileyo ukusuka kwelinye idolophu, ngoko ke loo mfana akazange abe nethuba lokumhlangabeza kwaye avule yonke inyaniso. Ngaloo ndlela, le ntombazana kufuneka ikwazi ukufumana ingxabano kunye neentlanzi, ukuxoxa, ukudlala ngothando. Kwaye, ke, kufuneka uxelele umthandayo wakho ngale nto. Zininzi iindlela: iifoto nge-imeyile, iifowuni ezingaziwa kunye nezinto, izinto, izinto. Into ephambili kukuba ayikrokreli ukuba lo ngumsebenzi wezandla zakho. Ewe, ukuba phakathi kwabahlobo bakho kunye nabahlobo bakho "i-Stirlitz", ngubani oza kuthulula ioli phezu komlilo aze afake ukungathandabuzeki nomona kumfana, kuya kumkhokela kwindawo apho insizwa inokuyibona intanda yakhe kwiingalo zenye. Kufuneka unakekele ukuvuma. Ngoko ke, zama ukufumana umhlobo okanye omaziyo ngaphambi kokuba abesifazana abanako ukuchasa.
Ukuba konke kwenziwa ngokuchanekileyo, ingxabano ikhuselekile. Kwaye ngoku yakho indlela yokuphuma. Kubalulekile ukubonakalisa ebomini bomntu obathandayo ngokungalindelekanga kwaye unobtrusively - kwaye ngokufanelekileyo ukuphazamisa umfana kule ntombazana. Musa ukuvula umfazi wakhe intombi ngokungahlambulukanga, kodwa akufuneki ukumkhusela. Yenza sengathi ungobuchule obuzimeleyo. Thetha naye malunga nemeko, velwano. Sitshele ukuba awuyiqondi indlela ongakwenza ngayo konke, kwaye, ngakumbi, naye. Makhe abone inkxaso kunye nokuqonda kuwe. Xa oko kwenzeka, qwalasela ukuba isiqingatha seemeko sele senziwe. Ngoku kufuneka udibanise yonke into enomfazi wakho kwaye uqale ukuhlaselwa. I-soft, ingabonakali, ihlaselwe.
Yiba nomnandi kunye ne-sexy. Amadoda njengamehlo. Kungenxa yoko, umfazi umele abe yinto eyonwabileyo emehlweni akhe. Hlalani niya ezintlanganisweni kwiingubo ezintsha, zilungele kakuhle, zenze iintlobo zezinwele ezahlukeneyo. Kufuneka ube yilo mkhwa ongenakulinganiswa ukuze ubonise umdla. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukuba, ngezinga elithile, ayifumaneki. Ukuba uyakhawuleza entanyeni, akayi kukuthatha ngokungathandekiyo. Yingakho ufuna ukucaca ukuba unomdla kuwe, kodwa kungekudala ukuphulaphula imigaqo ethile okanye ukuzalisekisa iifomms kunye neminqweno yakho. Yonke into oyenzayo kufuneka ibonakale ifanelekile kwaye iyamnandi kuwe. Ewe, akunakwenzeka ukwabelana nazo zonke iimfuno kunye nembono, kodwa umntu akanakwenzeka ukuba acinge ngako ukuba udlala indima yakho ngokuchanekileyo. Ngoku ulungele ukukholelwa yonke into eyenzeka ngeenxa zonke, ukuba akukho ukungcatshiswa nokuphambuka kweminqweno namalungelo akhe. Ngoko ube ngumhlobo ococekileyo kunye nomfazi kuye.
Ukongezelela, kufuneka wenze konke ukuze intombazana yangaphambili ikwazi ukukhumbula. Mkhuthaze ukuba utshintshe inombolo kwaye uvimbe umnxeba, kuba izikhumbuzi zenza kube buhlungu kakhulu. Mkholise ukuba ukuxolelana akunakwenzeka, kuba umrhwebi usoloko engumratshi. Zama ukukholisa bonke abahlobo bakhe kunye nabaqhelana nabo ukuba ngaphambili nguSathana, kwaye wena uyilosi eya kusindisa umhlobo wabo kuzo zonke iintlungu. Ukuba phakathi kwabahlobo bakhe, kunye neentombi zeentombi, umntu ukhangela ukuba yonke into ayifanelekanga, zama ukunciphisa intlanganiso yomntu othandekayo nalo mntu. Kakade, yonke into ifanele ibonakale kungeyena iphoso lakho, yintombi yakhe. Yiya naye ukuba uqhagamshelane naye, ibe yintlonelo. Yonke into aya kuyenza. Xa uzama ukuvula amehlo akho kumfana osondeleyo, uya kummisa kwaye ulwalamano luya kubanda.
Kuya kuba nexesha elincinane, kwaye loo mntu uya kuqonda ukuba uphupha ngalo lonke ubomi bakhe. Kakade, akufanele uvumelane ngowesibili sokuqala ukuqala ubudlelwane, kodwa ukukhupha ngokungadingekile. Vele uqale ingxoxo ongaqinisekanga ukuba uyalilibala malunga nexesha elidlulileyo. Kufuneka ucele imibuzo ukuze akwazi ukusho ukuba usayikhumbula into eyayiyithanda ngaphambili.
Xa uqaphela ukuba ulwalamano luye lwaphuhliswa, yiba ngowona mbini ogqwesileyo ebomini, kwiintetho, ngesini. Makhe umntu athathe umoya wokuphefumula. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka udlale kunye naye kwaye uphaphezele ngokwakho, kuba umphumo kufuneka uzinze, ukuze asetyenziswe kuwe kwaye akakwazi ukuhamba.
Yonke into. Uthando lwakho lukufuphi ngoku. Ufezekise yonke into oyifunayo. Ngoko unelungelo lokunandipha ubomi. Enyanisweni, mhlawumbi ngexesha uya kuhlaselwa ngcamango yokuba nabani na oya kukwazi ukukugxeka njengokuba wenza wena. Kodwa le yile shishini lakho, kuba wena ngokwakho unqwenela ukufumana ulonwabo ngale ndlela-ke le ndlela iyenzela wena, kodwa ingasetyenziswa ngabanye.