Uhlala, ujabulele ilanga elikhanyayo, imvula yamanzi, ukugubha kwifestile ... Kulungile, eduze komntu othandekayo, uphantsi kokhuselo kwaye uqinisekile ngokupheleleyo kwikamva. Umfanekiso wesisitye, akunjalo? Inqaku elihle lefiloso, kwaye uyakholelwa kuyo, kodwa kutheni le ngxelo ihlala ixesha elide - de kube ixesha? Kutheni loo nto kunye nomthandayo kuba enye, engaziwayo, yintoni isizathu? Namhlanje siya kuzama ukuhlaziya iimvakalelo zomfazi, oguquka ngumyeni.
Kha wuleza ubuze umbuzo othi: "Mhlawumbi into ephosakeleyo kum, ndiyenze into engalunganga, engathethi kunyoko kunina okanye engabulingani nabahlobo?" Ucinga ukuba uhlupheka yaye awufumani impendulo. Iingcamango ezintle zihamba ekhanda lam, zizama ukuqhubisana, kodwa nantsi enye, inyanzelisa, njengeflethi engenayo ayifuni. Ijika kwaye ijikeleze, inobungozi ... Ukusuka kum-ku-Ewe, ewe, ngowona nto. Hayi, oku akunako ukuba nam, oku akunakwenzeka! Yintoni endiyenzayo? I-frost iyakhukhuza encinci, kodwa ngokukhawuleza into ethile enzima ephosayo esifubeni, ayivumeli ukuphefumla, intliziyo intliziyo, kunye nokubethelela, ukuzama ukuyeka intlungu ebuhlungu, ukwesaba. Ewe, kwakuyikoyiko, ukwesaba ikusasa, elidlulileyo lahlala khona, emva kwesi sihlandlo, kwaye akayi kubuya. Ubuhlungu. Ewe, inamandla kwaye ingenabubele, ... Yiyo le ngcamango, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ejikelezayo entloko yowesifazane okhubekileyo. Kodwa ngaba kulungele ukubulawa? Ndifuna ukunika amagama ambalwa endimele ndizitshilo wona, ukuze ndingabi sisigxina esipheleleyo, nangam amehlo am, andiyathethi ngeengcinga zamabangani bam.
Okokuqala, andifanele le meko kum. Ubuqhetseba abukho ukulungiswa, kwaye akukho zizathu ezingekho apha.
Okwesibini, ndiyena mhle kunene, inqwenelekayo kwaye inqwenelekayo, kwaye yena ... asiyi kusebenzisa amagama anamandla, nangona kungenakulimaza.
Okwesithathu, ndingahlala ngaphandle kwakhe, ndiya kuvuya kwaye kuyinqweneleka.
Ezi binzana zifuna nje ukuthetha ngazo rhoqo, ukuze ungaphumeleli udidi lokuzithemba, ekukhangekeni kwakho kunye nethuba lokuthabatha umdla wesini esahlukileyo. Kwanjalo nakwiimeko xa kungenjalo, xa iphoso lakho lokuba umntu oyedwa kunye othandekayo uye wahluke.
Ngokwezibalo, ngaphezu kwama-60% amadoda ashintsha abafazi. Iingcali zengqondo, oogqirha kunye nabanye abantu abathwalwe ngamava oosayensi bavuselela ngokuqinisekileyo abafazi abahluphekileyo ukuba yonke into iyinto eqhelekileyo, bonke abantu isithembu, zii-hormone, njl. kunye nezinye.
Kodwa ukungcatsha kukuphakama kokungahloniphi, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ukuvunywa ngabantu, apho bonke abafazi bahlulwe ngamacandelo amabini: "i-bitch" kunye "nenkukhu". Kucacile ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngokukhawuleza ukuba ngubani okhuphisanayo kunye nendlela enhle ngayo. Yiyiphi eyamtsalisa, yamthabatha? Unemilenze emide, iinwele ezintle, unqabileyo, mhlawumbi ubuhle okanye umzekelo ophezulu? Kwaye ngoku, ukuphoxeka, kukude - kumzekelo! Ngoko, emva koko, umntu ufuna ukuphindisela kulo mthengisi onetyala, kodwa kukufanelekile ukuba uchithe ixesha elixabisekileyo lakho, ixesha elidlulileyo, ubomi kulo mntu ongenamsebenzi. Ukongezelela, kufuneka kuzisole ngakumbi, kuba kubaloo manani bengaziwayo, ngaba ngabafana abanesibindi abafumana umtshato kunzima kakhulu kunabesifazane. (Oku kwenzeka ukuba kufuneka uhambe kumanyathelo okweqile kwaye ushiye umthengisi). Ngenxa yoko ukuziphatha kuyacaca - ukungcatsha kungabakhokelela ekuphuculeni phambili.
Nantsi inguqu! Akukho mida ebophelelweyo, unesidima "sokukhubazeka," kuba ungcono, ucocekile, unokwethenjelwa ngaphezu kwakhe. Kwaye ngoku, mqondiso! Kwathi! Sekunjalo yonke into embi kakhulu, ihlabathi elitsha eliyinkimbinkimbi livulekile phambi kwakho, yonke into emangalisayo ingekafiki, ukhululekile ngokukhetha kwakho. Kwaye ngokwenene kukho ukhetho! Unokuxolela okanye akunjalo, unokuqhawula umtshato okanye cha, ungavunyelwa ukuba ungabonakali okanye, njengangaphambili, uhlale unemvana emnene, nantoni na oyithandayo! Ingqungquthela idlulileyo, yintoni na ngokuyikwesabayo? Unokungena ebomini obusondeleyo kumntu okanye sele sele unomnye, ongenakho ukudala intlungu eninzi. Utshintsho aluyikiyi, kuba uyazi ukuba ungaqhubeka njani. Emva kwakho konke, awuyikwesaba into esele yenzeke, oko kukuthi, ubumnyama bokungaqiniseki.
Inkambo yowesifazane okhohlisiwe sele sele udlulile, kwaye wena, enhle kakhulu, kunye neenwele ezintle kunye nokwenyuka, kwisigqoko esitsha kunye neenwele, mhlawumbi uzame ukutshintsha - unzima kakhulu, uya kulahlekelwa yedwa ubuncwane anakho - nina!
Imvakalelo yomfazi, onguyeni wakhe utshintsho, kungcono ukuba angazi mntu. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza, indoda yakho ayikutshintshi, kuba akafuni ukulahlekelwa ngubuhle obufana nawe!