1. Kutheni umntwana ebonakala elambile?
Kubonakala ngathi uhlala usondla umntwana wakho, ngakumbi ekuqaleni. Ubisi lwebele lubulula kakhulu ukugaya, ngoko i-crumb ifuna ukondliwa okungenani ama-6-8 ngamaxesha.
Musa ukukhathazeka ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukutya okuninzi kunoko ngokuqhelekileyo. Ukuqhekeka kokulamba kuqhelekileyo kwiintsana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, zenzeka kwiintsuku ezili-10, iiveki ezi-3, iiiveki ezi-6 kunye neenyanga ezi-3, kodwa ziyakwenzeka nakwezinye iinye ixesha. Kwezinye iimeko, zinokubangelwa ukuhla kwexeshana kwinani lobisi kumama ngenxa yokusebenza ngokungaphezulu kunye nokungabikho kokulala. Kulo mzekelo, unganikeli umnqweno wokuqalisa ukuxuba, oku kuya kunciphisa kuphela inani lobisi elenziwe ngumzimba wakho.
Kunoko, landela iminqweno yomntwana kwaye uyifake kwisifuba ngokuqhelekileyo njengoko ufuna. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuthatha malunga neentsuku ezimbini zokutya rhoqo emva kweeyure ezimbini emva kwemizuzu engama-20 ngaphambi kokuba imali eyabelwe ngumzimba wakho wobisi iguqule ukunyuka kweemfuno zomntwana. Ngelo xesha, zama ukulandela ukutya okunokulinganisela nokusela ngaphezulu. Yaye ke, zama ukuphumla kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
2. Ingaba umntwana angaluma?
Enye into yokuba uncelise umntwana osana onamaqabane kwaye ubeke umntwana kunye ne-incisors encinci kwenye. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana uya kuluma ngexesha lokutya. Ulwimi lwakhe lufakela amazinyo aphantsi ngelixa elusayo. Kodwa ekupheleni kokutya, xa ukuhamba kwebisi kuyancipha, umntwana unokudlala aze alume. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, susa ngobumnene umntwana ukusuka esifubeni ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyeke ukugwinya. Ukuba ngandlela-thile uya kufubeni, athi "hayi" ngelizwi eliqinileyo kwaye unqande ukutyisa. Phantse zonke iintsana ziziva ngokukhawuleza ukuba ngexesha lokuncelisa, umama akakwazi ukulunywa.
3. Yiliphi ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqala ubisi obunzima?
Ubisi lunokuqaliswa ukuba lube lukhuni nangomhla xa luvela kuqala. Kukho iingenelo ezininzi ekunciphiseni ubisi kwiveki yokuqala yobomi bentsana yakho. Isitshixo ekuvuseleleni umveliso wobisi ngumzimba ukukhulula isifuba. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana engadli buninzi, ngokukhawuleza emva kokutya, ubonise ubisi imizuzu eyi-10. Emva kweveki yokuqala, ungabonisa iintsikelelo zobisi kuphela emva kokusondeza kusasa. Le nkqubo iya kunceda ukuqhubeka nokwandisa ulwabiwo lweebisi kwaye ngexesha elifanayo liya kukunika ithuba lokumisa intsalela ukuze isebenzise ngakumbi.
4. Ngaba ukondla umxube uzahlukana nokuncelisa?
Nangona ukuba ukondla ubisi lwebele kuphela lukhetho olufanelekileyo, umxube we-bait ngezihlandlo awuyi kubuyisa umnqweno womntwana ukuba ancelise.
Ukuba ucinga ngokukhetha ukondla umntwana ngomxube, kufuneka uqwalasele ixesha lakhe. Zama ukunganiki umxube ubuncinane de kube umntwana uneminyaka eyi-1 ubudala kwaye ukwabiwa kobisi ngomzimba wakho kusekwe kakuhle. Izibhedlele nazo zithinteka kakhulu kumbhobho we-ingono (okulula ukuyiphula) kunabantwana asebekhulile, kuba baqhubeka befunda indlela yokusondeza kakuhle.
Inketho efanelekileyo kakhulu kukubonisa ubisi nokunyusa umntwana ebhotile. Ubisi lwebele lubuncedo ngakumbi, kwaye ukupompa akukali ulwabiwo lwabiwo.
Ukuba, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, umntwana wakho ukhetha ibhotile yebele, ungesabi. Ungamfundisa indlela yokutya ngokufanelekileyo, ngakumbi ukuba unayo ubisi obaneleyo. Zama oku kulandelayo: Yeka usebenzisa ibhotile; unike umntwana wakho ibele rhoqo xa ebukeka elambile; ukudala ubudlelwane obuhle, unamathele ithole elizelele esifubeni sakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ugqirha wakho wezingane ucebise ukubuyisela ubisi lwebele ngomxube, vumelana. Oku kudla ngokukhawuleza indlela yokuba abantwana bafumane ubunzima obaneleyo babo.
5. Kutheni umntwana ekhetha ukondla kuphela kwicala elinye?
Ingane inokukhetha enye ibele ngenxa yokuba kulula ukuyiqonda ingono okanye ubisi ngaphezulu kulolu cala, okanye ubisi luvele lula. Ngamanye amaxesha umama, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, udla ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwelinye icala. Amanani ahlukeneyo obisi anokuchaphazela ubungakanani besifuba esingalinganiyo.
Amanani ahlukeneyo obisi aqhelekanga yingxaki. Ukuba umntwana wakho uzuza ubunzima kwaye abukeka ezele emva kokutya, ngoko ufumana ubisi obaneleyo phakathi kwamabele amabini. Unokwandisa ulwabiwo lweebisi kwisifuba esingathandekiyo, uyayigqiba emva kokutya, okanye uqale ukusondla esi sibele.
6. Unokuyithintela njani intloni xa uncelisa nabanye?
Nangona ukunyelwa kwezilwanyana kwiindawo zikawonkewonke kungavunyelwe ngumthetho, uninzi unina abaqapheli ukuzala amabele ngaphandle kweendonga zamakhaya abo. Kodwa umkhwa omncinci kwaye uya kuba nethemba ngakumbi ekunceliseni umntwana umntwana. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso:
- Sebenzisa i-bra ekhethekileyo kumama oongikazi.
- Valeka umntwana nge-diaper okanye i-handkerchief ngexesha lokutya.
- Gqoka izinto ezimbalwa. I-Waistcoat okanye i-blouse phezu kwe-blouse izakuvala isisu sakho, ngelixa uphakamisa i-blouse yokutya.
- Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuncelisa ibele kwiindawo zoluntu, qhelisa phambi kwesibuko.
Ukuba usenakuziva ungakhululekile, zama ukuhlehlisa ukondliwa kwiindawo zoluntu. Zama ukuthetha nabanye abomama malunga nendlela abaye banqoba ngayo iintloni.
7. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukudibanisa ukuncelisa nokuthatha amayeza?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, oomama bayacetyiswa ukuba baphazamise ukunyanga xa bethatha unyango olunjengezonyango. Enyanisweni, iziyobisi zikhuselekile, kuphela inani elincinci liwela ebisi.
Kodwa kungcono ukuba uqaphele. Xa ugqirha enika unyango kuwe, qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba uyamncelisa. Mxelele oogqirha. Buza malunga nemiphumo echaphazelekayo wena kunye nosana.
Zama ukuthatha amayeza emva kokutya.
Nangona kunjalo, amanye amayeza, emva koko, awonakalisa abantwana. Nayiphi na i-antidepressants okanye ezo zisetyenziselwa i-chemotherapy. Kodwa nangona ufuna ukuthatha iyeza ezinobungozi kwintsana yakho, akudingeki ukuba uyisuse. Unokuyeka okwethutyana, ukubonisa nokucoca ubisi. Oku kuya kunceda ukugcina inani lobisi obelwe kwaye uqhubeke usondla xa ulungele.
Ngoku, ngolwazi oluyimfuneko, unokukunqoba le miqobo. Kufanelekile, kuba ukuncelisa ingenye yemivuzo engabalulekiyo yonina.