Yonke inzuzo kunye neengxaki zokulala ngokwabelana nosana

Ukuthabatha phakathi kwabaxhasayo kunye nabachasene nokulala nabantwana abaxhasi. Abaxhasi bendoda yokulala ngokubambisana kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle indlela onokubeka ngayo umntwana ukuba alale ngokwahlukileyo kwaye ngenxa yoko balala kuphela kunye nomntwana ebhedini elinye. Abo ba khuliswe kwintsapho ekhuselekileyo, bavote ukuba bahlale balala ebusuku nomama kunye nosana. Kule nqaku, ndifuna ukulinganisela zonke iingxaki kunye nokuxhamla kokulala ngokubambisana kwabazali nabantwana.


Ingane idinga ukuhlala rhoqo koomama, kwanobusuku
Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, iiveki ezingama-40 umntwana wakho wangaphakathi, uphulaphule igazi eligelezayo emithanjeni yakho, ukubetha kweengcamango kwentliziyo yakho, ilizwi lakho lafika kuye, wayenokuvumba iphunga lakho. Wayeyingxenye ebalulekileyo kuwe. Kwaye xa wazalwa, yonke into ayitshintshi ngomzuzwana - ucinga ukuba uyincinci yakhe kwaye ngokufanayo. Nangona inkunzi yinkwenkwe yonina yonke imini, uyayidinga ebusuku. Ukuba umama usekufutshane, umntwana uphapheme njengoko ezolile yaye evakalelwa kukuba unina unabo. Umntwana uvakalelwa kukuba unobomi obusondele kwesikhumba, kwaye iimvakalelo ezichukumisayo zingenye yezona zinto ziphambili kwixesha lokuphuhliswa kwengane, ukuthatha indawo yokutshintshisa umntwana kunye nokubona kakubi nokuva. Oku kunika umvakalelo, ukhuseleko kunye nokuzinza. Abo baxhasa ubuthongo obunqamlekileyo bathi ukuhlala ebusuku kunye nomntwana kwibhede elifanayo kunye nonina esikhathini esizayo kuthintela uphuhliso lwakhe olungcono: abantwana bakhula ngokuzinzileyo nangokuzimeleyo kunontanga yabo. Ezinye izazinzulu ziye zaphanda ukuxhomekeka kwendawo apho umntwana elele khona ebuntwaneni bakhe kunye ne-IQ yezinga, kunye neqela labantwana abalala nabazali babo babonise iziphumo ezingcono.

Ukunciphisa ukutya
Ukongezelela, unina onomnyoko ulula kakhulu xa umntwana elele eceleni kwakhe: musa ukuphuma ebhedini rhoqo xa umntwana elambile. Ukongezelela, umntwana akayi kuba nexesha lokuvusa ngokupheleleyo kwaye aphuke ngezinyembezi, njengoko uya kufumana okufunekayo ngaphambili. Kufuneka kuphela ukubeka umntwana ngokufanelekileyo ukuze abe nokufikelela ngokukhawuleza esifubeni, kwaye akaphazamise unina. Kuzo zonke ezinye, njengoko ziyaziwayo, iprolactin - ihomoni ejongene nokukhwabanisa, iveliswa ebusuku ngelixa ivuselela ibele. Oku kuthetha ukuba unina, onomntwana ubusuku ngobunzima bokuqala, uvelisa ubisi obongezelelekileyo, okwandisa ixesha lokulinywa kunye nokulondoloza iliso ixesha elide.

Ukunyulwa koomama abangenasiphelo
Abanye oomama banentlonelo yokulala baze bavuke kwi-rustle encinane ephuma kwi-crib baby, kaninzi baxhamla ukuze bahlole ukuba yonke into ihambelana nomntwana, nokuba uphefumula. Oomama abanengxaki, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukhululekile ukulala ebusuku nomntwana. Emva koko beva uxolo lokuphefumula komntwana baze balale ngokuthula.

Abameli bokulala ngokuhlukileyo?

Ingane inokugonywa ngengozi ngomzimba wayo ephupheni
Nangona kunjalo, iinani-mali zibonisa ukuba loo matyala ayingqabile kakhulu kwaye ivela ngokukodwa nalabo abasebenzisa kakubi utywala okanye iziyobisi. Nangona kunjalo, ngelanga, kwenzeka ukuba izingozi zenzeka kwiintsapho eziqhelekileyo, ezikhuselekileyo. Xa ukhetha ukulala ngokubambisana, abazali kufuneka bahlale bekhumbula, ingakumbi ukuba ubawo kunye nobaba balala kufuphi, ukuba iinxalenye ezinzima zomzimba, ezinjengezandla okanye ezinyaweni ezibekwa ngengozi kwintsana, kunokukhokelela entlekele. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukubeka ezinye iintambo kunye nemithwalo phakathi kwabafazi, apho uyise uya kulala kwisiqingatha sendawo yokulala, nangomnye - unina nomntwana.

Ubunzima bokuphila obusondeleyo
Ukuba ufuna, unokuhlala ufumana indlela yokuphuma kule meko. Kukho amanye amagumbi okanye iikoni, indawo yokuhlambela. Unokulungelelanisa kwizigaba zokulala komntwana, ngoko ungamvusi. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana abancinci kwiinyanga eziliqela balala kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka uzame kakhulu ukumvusa. Khawulibala ixesha elithile malunga nokugcoba kwe-languid kunye ne-sobs phantsi kwengubo. Ngubani o khangela iindlela, uhlala ewafumana.

Umntwana uya kuphiliswa ekulaleni kunye kwaye "uya kuhlala" ehleli embhedeni womzali
Le ngxabano ibalisa abazali abaninzi. Akuyena wonke umntu ofuna ukwabelana ngesithambiso somtshato kunye nomntwana okhulile, owathi, ngaphezu koko, uthatha indawo eninzi kunye nabazali maxa wambi kufuneka badibanise emacaleni ombhede. Kodwa kungekudala kamva umntwana ufuna ukuba nekona lakhe aze alale kwisikhumba sakhe. Njengolawulo, eli xesha alihlali ixesha elide kunokuba umntwana uya kuba neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka eyi-18, ngokuqinisekileyo akafuni ukulala nawe.

Kukho nawuphi na, isigqibo sokulala ngokubambisana okanye esahlukileyo sihlala kunye nabazali. Yenza njengoko uthanda. Elula kubazali - umntwana okhululekile. Kwaye ukuba uceba ukulala ngokubambisana nomntwana, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile akunakwenzeka - ungakhathazeki kakhulu ukuba awuniki nto kumntwana. Kufanelekile ukuthatha le nyaniso njengenyaniso. Emva kwakho konke, amava akho angadluliselwa kumntwana, oya kuthi uyavuma, okubi kakhulu.