Ngoko kutheni ungekho umntwana onokwenza umngane ngesiringi? Asiyi kukhawuleza, kuba sifunde ukuhamba kwaye singathethi ngeyure ... Ngoko ke, iingcebiso ezimbalwa aziyi kukulimaza. Indlela yokukhetha i-sling efanelekileyo ngamacong, indlela yokugqoka ngayo kwaye ingaba iyimfuneko nhlobo.
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Isizathu esibalulekileyo sokukhathazeka kwengane kukuxhalabisa komama. Ngaphantsi kancinci kwaye ngokuzithemba unina ugcina umntwana engxenyeni, ingakumbi umntwana uyakhathazeka. Njengomthetho, umama ohamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye egqibeleleyo uyathwala ngezandla zakhe, esebenzisa ngempumelelo kwaye atyelele. Ukuba awunalo amava okunyamekela abantwana, qeqesha iidonki ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Xa umntwana ezalwa, yibambe ngokungangoko kunokwenzeka kwiingalo zakho. Khangela ukuba iimvakalelo zakho zifana neengxaki ngexesha lovavanyo olunzima? Awuzange ulibale ukuphefumla? Ukuba impendulo kuyo nayiphi na le mibuzo ilungile, ungakhathazeki! Uke wambona ingxaki? Cinga ngendlela yokuphumla, kwaye iya kuhamba ngokwawo. Maxa wambi kufuneka uguqule i-pose yakho. Cinga ngesibuko ukuba umntwana uhlezi ngokuchanekileyo. Isikhundla sakhe kwisigxina kufuneka siphinde siphinde senzeke kwizandla zakho. Ngamanye amaxesha i-crumb ikhathazeka ngokwenyama. Omnye uthanda ukumngcwaba ubuso babo kumama wabo, abanye abenzi. Omnye uthanda ukuhlala kwisiqwenga, ehlangene nomama, kwaye umntu ufuna ithuba lokujika. Okanye ingaba indlebe iyancipha? Ngokukhula komntwana, iimfuno zakhe zitshintsha. Ingaba ixesha lokugqoka i-crumb vertically? Funda imiyalelo: wenza konke okulungileyo, umntwana ukhululekile? Ingaba uzinzile ngokwaneleyo kuwe? 3 Kubalulekile ukuba ulwalamano lokuqala kunye nesimboli siphumelele. Ukuba umntwana uzele, ulawule, wabeka umntwana kwisalathisi kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyifake kwisifuba. Umntwana ongenasiphelo unokuqhotyoshelana nesifuba xa ulungisa utshintsho. Konke oku kuya kukukhumbuza inkwenkwe yexesha elonwabileyo xa wayesiswini somama.
Ukuba umntwana akayithandi imfesane, yibuyisele iiveki ezimbalwa, uze uqale kwakhona. Ngaba uyayifuna le nto? Ukuba umama akacingi ukuba ufuna i-sling, akayi kuqonda. Ngokomzekelo, ekhaya bancedisi abaninzi abachaphazelekayo ekulawuleni kwintsapho, umntwana unzima kakhulu kwaye kulula ukuhamba ngezandla - njani ukuba kwimeko enjalo kuwe? Kodwa izihlandlo zitshintsha, kwaye imfuneko ibonakala kungekudala okanye kamva. Omnye umama wayengenakukwazi ukuyiqonda ingqungquthela. Kuze afike esitrato ngaphandle kwezihluthulelo. Wayelinde iiyure ezingama-3 ukuba indoda yakhe ifike kwaye ivule umnyango, kwaye emva koko ayikwazi ukumbatha umntwana wayo kalula, kodwa unike iingcebiso ezintle ngokugqoka iimfumba kwi-sling-scarf. Nangona kunqabile, kodwa kukho abantwana abanokuziva bazivelele kwiingalo zomama, kodwa bayenqaba ngokucacileyo ukuba babekwe kwisibethe. Ezi zincinci ezintle ziyakwazi ukuziqhelanisa. Kwaye, nanko, into ephambili kukuba uzive umntwana. Okanye mhlawumbi le nto iyona nto, umama usifundisa ntoni? Okokuqala yibamba umntwana ngokucincileyo ezandleni zakho, kwaye phezulu kwesimbolo. Yiba njalo leentsuku ezimbalwa. Yonke imihla, ukudonsa ukubethelwa kancinci. Emva kweveki, bhuqa ingalo enye ngaphandle kwesirha, kwaye ushiye enye yangaphakathi. Ngokuthe ngcembe, ngobumnene nangobulungiseleli, usuku nosuku, udlulisele ubuninzi bomntwana kwisitya. Ngenye imini uya kuziva ukuba unako ukukhupha isandla sakho sesibini ngokunjalo. Hug umntana ngaphandle kwe-sling. Ukunciphisa ngokukhawuleza ukuvuma, ukukhululwa kwesandla esinye, ngoko ke okwesibini. Kungathatha iiveki ezintathu ukuba ufunde, kodwa kulungele umzamo. UKroha uchitha ixesha elininzi ezandleni zakhe, kwaye ukukhulula kubaluleke kakhulu kumama. Ngoko, ukuzithemba, ukuqonda, ukunyanzeliswa kwezinto ezihambayo-kwaye zonke ziya kuvela!