7 iimpawu zokuthandana

Iimpawu ezisixhenxe ukuba iqabane lakho likhohlisa.

Ungayibona njani inkohlakalo? Emva koko, kuxhaphake ubudlelwane banamhlanje. Ngaba iyinyaniso yokuba ngenxa ye-intanethi kunye neefowuni, kuya kuba lula kakhulu kumaqabane ethu ukuba asebenze imeko yangoku?

Isiqingatha sakho sesibini, sinokuzama ukufihla ubukho benkosikazi, kodwa ukungathembeki kufuna ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwingcaciso. Lo mbandela awukho ngaso sonke isikhathi kumadoda. Abalingani bashiya, ngokungahambi kwabo, ubungqina obuninzi kwaye baziphatha ngokumangalisayo, bezama ukufihla imisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla.

Ukuba uyakrokrela ukuba umthandayo akanakunyaniseki ngokupheleleyo nawe, kufuneka ufunde ukuphawula. Funda iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokungathembeki, eziqinisekisa ukuba umthandi wakho unendaba yothando:

1. Uhlala ulandelela ubunzima bakho kwaye uhlala uthenge iimpahla ezintsha.

Ukuba iqabane lakho liqalise ukuqeqesha nzima kwi-gym nokugqoka bhetele, ke le yithuba elitsha lobutsha bakhe, okanye akwenzeki nje. Xa umntu eba nesithakazelo esibonakalayo kwimpahla yokugqoka, i-hairstyles, i-manicure, ubuso, mhlawumbi uzama ukutsala ingqalelo enye ubuncinane. Izitsha ezintsha, izicathulo namanzi angasese - into yokuba umdlalo udlalwa kwamanye amasango.

2. Ngaphantsi kwesondo.

Lo mqondiso, ongenamnye, uya kunceda ukunqumka. Ukuba iqabane lakho lingenasithakazelo ekusebenzeni ngesondo nawe, mhlawumbi idibana neemfuno kunye nomnye. Ezinye iimpawu eziza kukuvumela ukuba uqaphele ukunyaniseka, kunokukho iintlobo ezintsha zeendawo zesini, apho yena, ngokuqiniseka okukhulu, ekucela ukuba uzame kunye. Lo mqondiso ubonisa ukuba umthandi wakho ufumene la mava embhedeni nomnye umfazi.

3. Kuyabonakala ixesha elide.

Qaphela ukuba uqaphele ngokukhawuleza iimpawu zakhe ezintsha. Umlingane wakho, mhlawumbi utshintshile, xa eshiya umsebenzi ngokukhawuleza, aze abuyele ekhaya ngokukhawuleza, kungekho ncazelo ekhethekileyo. Kwakhona ujonge ingqalelo ixesha elichitha ixesha kumaqela ahlangeneyo. Udinga ukuxhalaba xa, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ixesha elide, uphelalala ekhaya. Ekugqibeleni, qaphela xa ungenakuqhagamshelana naye ngefowuni, okanye akaphenduli kwimilayezo yakho ye-SMS eninzi. Ukuba wenza izizathu zokuzimela, ukuba usebenza kakhulu, kwaye akakwazi ukuphendula iifowuni kunye nemilayezo yombhalo, lo mkhuba ungumqondiso ombi.

4. Iingxelo ezifihlakeleyo kunye neendleko.

Umlingani wakho akasayi kuthenga izipho ezibizayo kwaye ahlawule iindleko zobusuku obuthathwe nentombi. Ukuyibamba ingabongelela kwii-invoyisi ezihlawulwa ngokukhululekile kwizidlo ezininzi kwiindawo zokudlela ezibiza. Ukunyamalala okungaqhelekanga kwemali kumakhadi-mboleko, kukuvumela ukuba ubone ukutshutshiswa, kwaye ubambelele nomthandi wakho kwishushu. Ukuba ufuna ukumbamba umntu omthandayo xa uhlambalaza, khangela ingeniso yakho kunye nengeniso kwikhadi, kwaye uqinisekise ukuba unokuzichaza ngokukhululekile. Ukuba uthe wahlala epakini xa egijima, kwaye ngelo xesha wahlawula isidlo sasemini kwisitoretya, ngoko unokuqiniseka ukuba wambamba ngamanga.

5. Ukufikelela kwikhompyutheni yakhe kwaye ifowuni ivaliwe.

Okuthandayo kuya kudlula kwimeko yeso sikrokre ukuba ngokukhawuleza uqaphele enye iphasiwedi kwikhompyutheni yasekhaya, imbali ecacileyo ye-browser kunye neenkcukacha ezifihliweyo. Oku kuya kukunceda uqaphele ukukhohlakele. Kutheni? Abantu abaninzi abanomdla othandana nabo bahlala bexhala xa bebizwa, kwaye baye kwelinye igumbi ukuthetha kwifowuni. Ukongeza, i-imeyile kunye ne-intanethi yimithombo yobungqina obuqinileyo. Ukuba iqabane lakho lifuna ukufihla izenzo zakhe, ukuguqula amaphasiwedi kukubonisa ukuba ufihla into evela kuwe.

6. Watshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo kuwe.

Ukuthanda kwakho ngokukhawuleza kwaqala ukukunxusa ukuba uhlale uxabana, ugxeke ukubonakala kwakho, ukutya okuphekiweyo kunye neengubo? Oku kuthetha ukuba uqale ukuzama ukuthelekisa kunye nentombi yakho entsha. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, qaphela nje xa, emva kokunyamekela okulandelayo malunga nomthandayo, iirase ezintle zivela endlwini yakho ngeveki. Oku kuyimpawu yokuba unengcamango yecala ngokuphathelele ukunyaniseka, okanye uyavuya kukuba ubudlelwane bakhe kwicala alukabikho.

7. Intuition yabasetyhini.

Nangona le mizekelo ingentla iyanelisekile, umbuzo uhleliyo: Indlela yokuqonda ukunyaniseka? Okokuqala, kholosa isidima sakho. Uyazi umlingane wakho ogqwesileyo, kunye neempawu zokuqala zenguqu ekuziphatheni kwakhe (ukulibaziseka kwiiyure, ukunyaniseka, ukwanda / ukunciphisa ukutya ngesondo, ukuhamba ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukungabikho kwekhaya ixesha elide) kufuneka kukuqaphele. Abaninzi abasetyhini bathi babona iimpawu zokungcatsha, kodwa bawahoxisa, okanye intanda ethandekayo yachaza yonke into. Endaweni yokulahlekelwa kuzo zonke izilumkiso, khuluma ngokuvulekileyo kunye nomlingane wakho malunga neemvakalelo zakho, kwaye mhlawumbi awuyi kuba nexhala malunga nobuhlobo bakho kwixesha elizayo.