Emva kwemibonakalo engalindelekanga yendoda yakho, ngandlela-thile wayengafuni ukulala naye. Iimvakalelo eziphikisanayo ngoku ziyintandokazi ... Nento enokuyenza: ingaba ikhawuleze ukuba isebenze, ibukeka phi na amehlo? Okanye uzama ukuhlaziya kwaye uqale ukuzisebenzisa ngokukhawuleza "kwimfihlo yakhe"? Ukunyaniseka nokuvuleka kwintsebenziswano - oku, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyamangalisa. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha inyaniso inokulimaza. Ziziphi izinto - ukuvuma okungenangqiqo, okumele kugwenywe? Makhe sizame ukukhetha oku kunye.
ISITHI 1. Ixesha elidlulileyo.
Emva kokuba ube buthathaka emva kokunyamezela kwakho, udade uthi: "Konke okufanayo, abafazi bathanda kum ngaphezu kwamadoda." Uhleka: "Uhlolisise?" Kwaye uva: "Empeleni kwakunjalo ..." Unemibuzo eninzi: kuthekani ukuba uceba ukubuyela kumntu oyintando yesini? Kuthekani ukuba uthe walala ngesondo?
NGE NTONI LOKUTHI? Ukuba iqabane lakho liyakuthandana ebhedeni, akufanele ukhathazeke kukuba uya kubaleka ukusuka kuwe ukuya kumfana omdala omhle odibana naye. Abantu abaninzi - 34% - bayabelana ngesondo. Phantse i-22% yabafana kwixesha elivisayo lifumana amava angqingili. Emva kwakho konke, ama-hormone ahlasela, kunye namantombazana ngelo xesha - izidalwa ezingenakuqondakala kwaye zingenakufikeleleka ... Amava obulili bobulili bobuhlobo obuqhelekileyo. Into ephambili kukuba intanda yakho ayifanele ikucele ukuba ukhule amadevu kwaye ungabizi uVasya ngexesha elithembekileyo.
KUFANELE UKENZANI? Ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakho. Ngaba uyayifuna le ndoda? Xoxa nomthandane wakho kwaye ufumane oko akucinga malunga neemvavanyo zakhe zangaphambili ngoku. Zama ukunyamezela.
UKUSEBENZISWA 2. Yeka indlela engafanelekanga ngayo!
Ukunyakaza kwakhe okukodwa akuyiyo izandi zomdla! Kubuhlungu xa usebenza kwi-caresses yomlomo. Okanye bubi nakakhulu: iyakucaphukisa ukukhala kwakho ngexesha le-orgasm, ivumba lakho alibi.
NGE NTONI LOKUTHI? Ukuba umntu uyaphikiswa yimvelo kunye novumba lomzimba wakho, ngoko ke, ngokucacileyo, u-romance usuphelile. Ukukhanga kwendalo kusekelwe kuwo. Kodwa ukuba ibuhlungu kwi-caresses yakho kwaye uhlala nawe-oku kukuphawu oluhle.
KUFANELE UKENZANI? Musa ukusila, kodwa mthabathe njengomcebisi. Qala iiklasi ezisebenzayo "Indlela yokuba ngumthandi ofanelekileyo." Makhe abonise ukuba uthinteka ntoni kuye, kwaye awunjalo.
UKUSEBENZA 3. Ingcamango ebhaliweyo!
Kuvela ukuba insizwa yakho ayikulwa nesini lesini. Kwaye ngoku uyathuthumela ngoluvo lokuba ngelinye ilanga uza kuzisa bonke oogxa bakho emsebenzini ukuya kulala lakho kanye. Okanye uvume ukuba uyakuthanda isondo esinzima kunye neentonga, iimbophu ezinobunzima kunye nokubetha kakhulu. Kwaye amaphupha okwenza konke oku ngasentla nawe. Ndiyabuza ukuba ngaba yakhe isifo?
NGE NTONI LOKUTHI? Abantu banokhetho oluhlukileyo. Kukho abo bafuna ukubethelela umnqweno wabo ngoncedo lwezenzo ezihlangeneyo. Xa seluselula, amava ngamaqela angamane abe ngumvuzo kwifashoni. Abanye basebenzisa isondo ngokubandezeleka okanye ukungeniswa. Iqabane lakho aliyonto ephikisayo kuze kube yinto enokunyanzela.
KUFANELE UKENZANI? Xoxa nabathandekayo bakho bonke "abanako" kwaye "bangabonakali". Ukuba awuyithandi imbono yokusondeza nabantu abaninzi, ndixelele. Zama oko ayenzayo. Ngokukhawuleza uya kuthanda xa bekuluma kumahlombe? Into ephambili kukuyeka ngexesha ukuba ufuna ukuyeka umdlalo.
UKUSEBENZA 4. Ngaba kukho ugqirha?
Xa ekuncenga ukuba ulale ngesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom, wafungela ukuba unayo ifolda kwideskiti yakhe kunye neziphumo zokuvavanya kakhulu. Kwaye ngoku ndiyeke ukukhupha engazange ndihambe kukubona ugqirha. Kutheni? Uyaqiniseka ukuba unempilo.
NGE NTONI LOKUTHI? Ngaba uvila kakhulu ukuvavanya uxolo lwakho lwengqondo? Uninzi lwazo zonke ezithandayo.
KUFANELE UKENZANI? Ukunikezela ngokuhlalutya. Yaye ucinge: ngaba ufuna umlingisi ozicinga yena ngokwakhe?