Abantwana abahlukile kwixesha lethu kuthiwa ngabantwana ba-Indigo. Baqala ukufunda kakade ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala. Phantse iminyaka emibili, ezintlanu banokuqulunqa inkqubo yecomputer, kwaye kwiminyaka elishumi elinesibini-ukuba bafumane imfundo yesibini. Abantwana be-Indigo bahlukile, amandla abo angaphezu kwamandla angabonakali ngokupheleleyo. Kukho malunga neenkulungwane ezikhethiweyo kunye nezipho ezivela kubantwana be-Indigo.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi aba bana bafundela kakhulu intuition. Ukuba ufuna, bangafunda ukufunda iingcamango, bayakwazi ukufunda nayiphi na ulwazi ngeekhilomitha eziliqela. Abantwana be-Indigo banokuqiqa ngezihloko zefilosofi nanini na ubudala, bathethe ngokuphila kwangaphambili. Abafundanga kwiimpazamo zabani na, abazenzeli nje. Abantwana be-Indigo bangena ngokukhawuleza ekuxoxeni nabantu abadala kwaye bayakulahla ngamabomu yonke imigaqo yobomi. I-Indigo abantwana isipho okanye isohlwayo?
Zeengqondo. Yiyiphi ekusebenziseni ekuqhutyweni kwezi zifundo, baxelele ukuba abantwana abanjalo babonakala baninzi. Oku kwenzeka ngokumalunga nezakhiwo ezikhethekileyo zengqondo, ubunako babo obudlula izizukulwana zangaphambili.
Ukucacisa ubunako bomntwana, ubuninzi bezobuchwepheshe bathuthukile, ngoncedo olunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana angasungulwa. Ukumisela izinga lokuphuhliswa kwalo, ukuze angathuthuli kwixesha elizayo kungeyomfuneko ukuba enze.
Ukumisela "indigo", unokuphendula imibuzo emininzi:
Usana, ozelwe nje, ngokukhawuleza lukhangeleke ngamehlo akho?
Xa ubelesa, ubheka ngaphi?
Xa umntwana esele yodwa, udlala kunye nomntu ongabonakaliyo?
Ukuze athathe isipuni esandleni sakhe, waqala kokubili ngakwesobunxele nangakwesokudla?
Ingaba umntwana wakho unganqanyulwa imizuzu embalwa?
Wathetha ngomva (iminyaka emi-2-4)?
Ukuphatha kakuhle izinto zombane, ikhompyutha, ifowuni?
Indlela yokuziphatha eklasini ihluke ngayo nafunda nabo?
Inkumbulo yakhe ikhethileyo. Ngaba unokulibala oko kwenzeke izolo?
Ngaba unako ukubhala ngezandla zombini?
Ukuba uphendule ewe ubuncinane imibuzo emihlanu, ke umntwana wakho uhlukile. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuvuya, umntwana we-Indigo akahlali ekholisa.
Abazali base-Indigo abantwana banokuvuyiswa, kodwa ngelo xesha bayaba novelwano. Abantwana abanjalo bahlala bephazamiseka, belibalekile kwaye bahlaziyekile. Abakwazi ukubonelelwa ngaphambili. Imeko, kwaye ngokukodwa abazali kufuneka bafunde ukuhlala nomntwana.
Ukuba akahlali ehleli ngomzuzu. Oku akuxhunyekanga nokukhuliswa okungalunganga komntwana, abantwana base-Indigo kuphela baqonda imeko yendalo ngendlela yabo. Bonke bayaziqonda kwi-fly, kwaye abanakuqonda ukuba kutheni abanye bengayiboni kwaye abayiyiqonda. Ngokukhawuleza ekufumaneni ulwazi olufunyenweyo, balahlekelwa ngumdla. Kwaye baqala ukukhangela ezinye imithombo yolwazi. Umsebenzi wakho kukukhokela umntwana ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ukuba umntwana uzijonga njengenkokeli. Uba nenkani kwaye ezinye iingcebiso zabantu azimthandi. Akunamsebenzi ukubeka uluvo lwalo kulo, kodwa umntu akanakuqhubeka malunga nalo. Kumntwana uthatha icala lakho, kufuneka umnike iziphakamiso ezilungileyo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa ingqondo ephakamileyo. Akakwazi ukunyamezela ubuxoki, umntwana uvakalelwa kukude. Ngoko ufanele uxoke kakhulu naye.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala ekhumbula ubomi obudlulileyo. Uthetha ngomsebenzi kulo mhlaba. Ungamhlekisi umntwana wakho, kwaye ungamthandi njengomenzi wezinto. Mamela amabali akhe malunga nobomi, uya kufunda ezininzi izinto ezithandayo.
Ukuba umntwana wenza izinto eziliqela ngexesha elifanayo. Nika umntwana inkululeko epheleleyo yentsebenzo, ekhangele kuloo mzuzu, ethanda kakhulu. Ingaba ngumba wobomi bakhe.
Awunalo ilungelo lokwenza impazamo. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela kumntwana zakhe iimpawu zakhe ukwenzela ukuba ngekamva akayi kwenza iimpazamo ekukhuliseni kwakhe. Abantwana be-Indigo bathuthukile kwaye banemilinganiselo yokuba bangakwazi ukuguqula iimbali kunye nabahlali. Konke kuxhomekeka kubazali, indlela abayifanelekileyo ngayo ukwakha ikhonkco kwintsebenziswano nomntwana.