Ziziphi iingoma ezithandayo?
Ndandithanda iindaba zeendoda malunga nabo bonke ababuthathaka nabacinezelekileyo. Ndiyithande kakhulu indaba yefilosofi malunga neNose yaseNtshontsho, malunga neNqwenyana encinane, malunga nabo bonke abaphosakeleyo, ababe nethamsanqa, ngenxa yokuba babonisa ezinye zeetalente zabo ezifihlakeleyo kwaye bangabonisa ukuba nabo bafuna indawo elangeni. Ndithanda kakhulu iCinderella, iThumbelina, ngokubanzi, abo "abathandi bonke abantu." Apha iindaba ezinje, kunye nezophelo zazo, zandivuyisa.
Kodwa wena unxulumene ne-heroine ye-story-hero?
Andizange ndijonge kumntu ukususela ebuntwaneni. Kuphela kwimigaqo yabo yobomi, kwindlela yabo yokuququzelela. Musa ukumangaliswa, njengomntwana, ndazi kakuhle iinjongo zokuzibeka. Inkcazelo yenkcubeko yinyani, kwaye, ngokwenene, ndaqala ukuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba ubomi abuyinyani.
Ngaba uzive uyingqayizivele?
Uyazi, andizive ndodwa apha, ukunyaniseka. Ndivakalelwa "okhethekileyo", kodwa kubonakala kum ukuba nayiphi na umntu oza kweli hlabathi akathinteli oku. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza ufumanisa oko ufuna ngokwenene ukukwenza, oku kuyingqayizivele kwangoko. Ngoko ke, ukufaneleka kwethu, ngokwenene, akunjalo nangengcamango yalo, kodwa ekukwazi ukuqonda into esiyiyo apha. Yonke into ilula kakhulu kwaye ngexesha elifanayo kunzima.
Iphupha le "nkwenkwezi" eliphuphayo?
Zonke zam amaphupha ngandlela-nye okanye enye idibene kwezinye izinto. Funda, fumana "indondo", uphumelele iziphumo ezithile zobugcisa. Ukuzihlaziya ngokwabo, ukwazi ngokwabo, ukuzithetha-konke oku kuhlanganiswe ekuqondeni kwam njengomntu. Ngokuphathelele "inkwenkwezi" ... Andiyithandi leli gama. Inkwenkwezi - oku xa ushiya indlu ngokuhlwa eCrimea kunye neenkwenkwezi zikhanya ngokugqithiseleyo zivela ezulwini (eKiev zibonakala zingabonakali).
Uyenza ingcamango yomntu othembekileyo. Ndixelele, ngaba usoloko unesiqiniseko sokuzithemba okanye ngaba ufanele uyithande kwaye uyayixabisa le ntliziyo?
Xa uyabubula kwaye uzixabise, uyaziphumla. Ndihlala nje "ndithandabuza" (i-hypochondria kwaye ngamanye amaxesha angakhuselekanga) abantu. Mna, ngokuchasene noko, ndizingcinezele, ndiphoqelele ukuba ndibeke ingozi, uthathe izigqibo ezithile, nokuba kukho "kodwa". Ngaphezu koko, ndiphindaphinda "nditshisa", "ndibethe", kodwa ngelo xesha ndafunda ukuhlala ngamaphutha am. Into oyibiza ngokuba yinto yokuzithemba, itholakala. Bathi umngcipheko unobangela obuhle.
Ngaba unomngcipheko?
Ukugembula, okugqithiseleyo, i-adventure (kusasa ukuqokelela, ngokuhlwa ukuza kwindawo ethile eNepal) - akusikho kum. Kodwa emsebenzini ndibeka ingozi.
Ukuba kufike kwi-intuition, umgangatho ubukwesifazana, ngoko umbuzo olandelayo uya kuba ngowomfazi: uthini ukuba kufuneka ukhokelwe ngumfazi okhetha iqabane lomntu?
Nkosi, ewe, ngothando! Andiyi kukunika iingcebiso ebomini bam: hamba khona, yenza, cela ipasipoti, jonga kwi-akhawunti yebhanki. Lo akusiyo umbuzo kum. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ibhinqa liza kulobu bomi ukuze luthande kwaye lithande, kwaye ke unako ukuhambisa iintaba!
Bonke abazali banqwenela abantwana babo uvuyo. Ziziphi iimpawu ozama ukuzikhulisa entombazaneni yakho ukuze ubone ukuba uyavuya kwixesha elizayo?
Kwimi, into eyintloko kukuba intombi yam ihlale ngumntu kunoma yiphi imeko. Sizama ukuhlaziya nokucamngca ngawo. Ndifuna ukuba abe ngumntu ocinga. "Ndicinga-ngoko ke," - watsho umdala uDescartes. Ndiphila ngokwalo mgaqo. Xa ucinga, xa uzaliswe umxholo, ngoko umxholo uqina ngakumbi kuwe, ngoko ukhululekile ukukhetha indlela yokwenza, indlela yokusebenza. Andizange ndiyithintele kwaye ayiyikuyichukumisa kulezi zigqibo okanye kulezi zikhundla ezibalulekileyo. Baya kuba nabo ngokwabo, ukuba ufunda ukucinga. Kuba, inkululeko yokucinga ibaluleke kakhulu.
Ngaba uyamnika inkululeko? Nangona akavumelani nawe kwaye umgxeka kwisigqibo esingalunganga? Ngaba ukwesaba ukuba uya kutshiswa?
Into ephambili kukuqhagamshelana kunye nokwethemba. Kukho ukuzithemba kolwalamano lwethu, ndiyesaba ukulahlekelwa. Kwaye nazo zonke ezinye iingxaki, ndiqinisekile ukuba siya kulawulo!
Ngona wesifazane onamandla kunamanye amaxesha ufuna kakhulu ukuziva ebuthathaka. Ngaba kubalulekile ukuba ube nomxholo wokhuseleko kwaye ngaba kukho iimeko xa zikushiye?
Ewe, kum inzwa yokhuseleko ibalulekile. Apha andizame ukuba yinto ekhethekileyo, andifuni! Kwaye ndifuna ukubuthathaka ngamanye amaxesha. Ngamanye amaxesha ndikhala, kwaye kwenzeka kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi bam. Kubonakala kum ukuba oku kubonakaliswa kwemvelo kwabo bonke abazijonga njengabafazi kwaye abazange balahlekelwe ngumfazi phakathi kwabo.
Kwimidiya, unesiqhwenga esihle sama-Masha-Ulybash. Magama anomdla. Ewe, mhlawumbi ndicinga ukuba ndiyethemba. Ndizama ukuvavanya nayiphi na imeko enzima ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga ukuphuma kuyo.
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