Ngoko, kulungele ukuqala, ngoko ububele bungenye yezinto ezibalaseleyo zobuntu. Enyanisweni, akulula ukuba nomusa kwaye akusiyo yonke into enomusa. Ngelishwa, ububele kwihlabathi lanamhlanje buzisa iingxaki. Abantu abanomusa kakhulu, zama ukuphatha ezininzi kunye ezininzi. Yingakho ububele bubonwa njengomqondiso wobuthathaka obunobuthathaka, engaqondi ukuba umntu olungileyo akwenzi oku ngenxa yokuba ubuthakathaka, kodwa ngenxa yokuba uyaxolisa kuwo wonke umntu. Enyanisweni, ububele bomntu luphawu lokuba umfana unako ukuvakalelwa ngokwenene. Akakwazi ukuthanda yena kuphela, kodwa abanye. Kananjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ububele bubonakalisa isibindi. Inyaniso kukuba abantu abalungileyo abakuthinteli ukungabi nabulungisa, ngoko ke, soloko nizama ukukhusela ababuthathaka kwaye nenza konke ukuphumeza lowo ulungile. Ngobuthakathaka bokuzalwa, umntu akaze akhuphe ukukhusela ababuthathaka kunye nokucasula. Uya kuzama ukufihla emva kweminye iminyango yabantu, ukuba kungekhona nje ukuhlupheka. Ngoko ke, ngohlobo olubuthathaka, akufanele nanini sibone ububele. Ngaphezu koko, umntu obuthathaka ngamanye amaxesha ungumntu okhohlisayo nomntu okhohlakeleyo ozama ukusinda ngandlela naziphi na kwaye ulungele ukuya kwinto nayiphi na ixesha elide kungekho mntu amthintelayo. Ukuba umntu unentliziyo entle, oku akuthethi ukuba ungumgqomo ongeke akhuphe intloko aze enze konke ayalayo. Ngokuchasene noko, abantu abalungileyo abahlali bezolile. Ububele abubaphepheli ukukhawuleza, ukufumana ubudlelwane babo, ukucaphuka kunye nentukuthelo. Indoda elungileyo ayiyi kubuhlungu mntu. Kodwa, oku akuthethi nakuyo yonke into yokuba uya kuhlala ethule xa ebona ukungabi nabulungisa okanye ukuba umntu akanakukhetha ukuthetha naye okanye kwiintsapho zakhe. Zininzi ngenxa yezizathu ezithile kubonakala ukuba indoda enhle ayisoze yakwazi ukunikela utshintsho. Ukucinga ngomntu onjalo, ngamnye umntu ngenxa yesinye isizathu umele umfana onqabileyo, onamabala oguqa ngokusuka kumoya oqaqambileyo njengomthi onqabileyo. Enyanisweni, le mbono ayiphutha ngokupheleleyo. Abakhi bezakhiwo kunye ne-weightlifters nabo banomusa. Kwaye, ukuba kungabonakali ngokubonakala kwabo, akuthethi ukuba abantu abanjalo bayayithiya ihlabathi lonke kwaye bazama ukukhubaza umntu, nokuba babulale. Ngokuphambene noko, bahlala bexhasa ubulungisa kwaye babonisa ubukrakra kuphela apho kuyimfuneko. Ngendlela, abantu abalungileyo bangabakhohlakele. Oku akusiyo into engekho nto. Ubugwenxa nobubele buya kufanana lula kumntu omnye. Bantu abanjalo babonisa ukuba inkohlakalo yabo ayisoloko ikhona kwaye ayinabo bonke abantu. Bayazi indlela yokuzikhusela, ukuze bangabakhubekisi abo bangenanto ityala. Kodwa, ngelixa ilityala liya kuhlala lihlwayelwa kuyo yonke inzima. Indoda enetyala phambi komfana onjalo ayisoze ayicinge ukuba, ngokwenene, uyinto enhle.
Enyanisweni, amantombazana anamaqela abalungileyo anenhlanhla ebomini. Inyani kukuba abantu abanomdla bahlale bexhalabele ngabathandekayo babo, bazame ukwenza into enomdla, banake ingqalelo kwiminqweno yabo nemibono yabo. Umntu olungileyo, abathandekayo kunye nezihlobo bahlala bebaluleke ngaphezu kwakhe. Ngoko ke, ukulungele ukuguqula iintaba nokuguqula ihlabathi, ukuba kuphela kulabo ababenabo, kwakumnandi, kulungile kwaye kukhululekile. Kubantu abalungileyo, ulonwabo lwabanye lubaluleke kakhulu. Ngabo bantu abakhusela abantu abangaqhelekanga kuma-hooligans baze bathumele oogogo babo kwizitalato. Benza oku ukuba bangazibandakanyi kunye nokubonakalisa into kumntu othile, kodwa ngenxa yokuba bayabuhlungu abantu. Benza ngokukhethekileyo kuphela ngobubele bomphefumlo kwaye akakaze, ungaceli lutho. Oku kuyimpawu eyahlukileyo yabantu abalungileyo-ukwenza into engenabugovu kwaye ungabi nomsindo xa ungafumani into efanayo. Kwakhona, indoda elungileyo ayiyi kuphakamisa isandla sayo intombazana kwaye ayiyi kumcaphukisa, ngaphandle kokuba iholele ekushiseni okumhlophe. Amadoda anjalo amadoda angamahle kunye nabahlobo abahle. Bahlala bephulaphula, zama ukunika iingcebiso. Uncedo nenkxaso. Abantu abanjalo abafaki indawo kwaye abayekeki kwiimeko ezinzima. Abakholelwa ekuhlekeleni kwaye abazithembi ngamahemuhemu. Ewe, ukuba zilungile ngokwenene, kwaye ungafihli phantsi kwesi sigqubuthelo. Kukho amadoda azenza intliziyo entle ukuphumelela intombazana. Abantu abancinci abancoma imvelo, bafake ama-kitten kunye namantombazana, bancoma abantwana kwaye bazama ukwenza into enhle. Kodwa, konke oku kuqhutyelwa ukubonisa. Enyanisweni, baqamba ngokuqhayisa, ukuze bafezekise injongo yabo. Ngoko ke, ungaze udibanise umntu olungileyo kunye nomntu ozama ukuba njalo, ukutsala intombazana.
Abantu abalungileyo kufuneka baxabiseke kwaye bangaze basebenzise ububele babo, ngenxa yokuba isimo sengqondo sidumaza ebomini baze bawaphule. Kungenzeka ukuba indoda elungileyo, emva koko, iya kufuna ukungalunganga kwaye ifune ngokuzithandela le mpawu. Ewe, akukho mntu unokungafuni ngokupheleleyo, kodwa abantu abaninzi banokuzifihla ububele babo. Kwaye kubuhlungu gqitha ukubheka, njengokuba umntu uyazithuthuma ngokwakhe kwaye uphathise umbono ngabanye ngomntu wakhe.
Yaye ukuba umntu osondelene nawe akakwazi ukwenza nto, unamahloni kwaye uyamoyika yonke into, akufanele umthi "unomusa." Akafanelanga. Uvele nje ephahlazeka kwaye kulula ukuba afake umntu ngaphantsi kweebhola kunokuzama ukulungisa imeko ngokwakhe. Abantu abanjalo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abanakho konke. Ababanakho amandla okwaneleyo, abangakhuseli ngokwabo. Kwaye abantu abalungileyo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abanobulumko kwaye nangona bahlala bathule, oku akubangelwa ukwesaba, kodwa ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukuxhamla amandla okuphila engafanelekanga.