Bathanda kakhulu ukuhleka, kodwa baye banqanda amahlaya. Kwakhona bacinga ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka enze into yakhe. Ukuba ufuna ukuzenza iinwele, ke akufanele ugijime ekhaya kwikheyili, kwaye oku kufuneka kwenziwe kuwe ngumgcini wezinwele. Abantu baseMerika bathanda ukuphumla. Bachitha ixesha lokuzilibazisa kwiipikniksi, ukuloba, yaye bahlala bevakashela imivalo kunye nee-pubs. Bahlala bezama ukubona uhlangothi olukhanyayo kuyo yonke into, nangona kungabikho. Ukuzama ukufumana into entle kuyo nayiphi na imeko.
Ukwazi njani umMerika uze umtsate?
Ngenxa yoko, okokuqala, kufuneka uthathe isinyathelo. Ngenxa yokuba aba bantu bayesaba ukuhamba kuqala, bayesaba ukuba banqatshelwe, kwaye amaMerika ayithandi ukunqotshwa. Okwesibini, ngenxa yokunyamekela okukhulu, kungcono "ukubamba" emsebenzini, kuba ngumsebenzi abawunika kakhulu ixesha. Ewe, ukuba awufuni ukujwayelana ngale ndlela, ungaya kwibhardi kusihlwa uze uqhelane nomphathi oye waphumla, kakuhle, okanye ubuncinci kunye ne-barman. Ukuze uqhelane naye, mnike ikhadi lakho lebhizinisi uze ubhale kuyo indawo nesikhathi sendibano. Uya kubona, uya kuza ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukuziphatha kwiintlanganiso kuyimfuneko ngokuzithemba, kuba amaMerika afana nabasetyhini abaphumeleleyo. Yilungiselele, ukuba isidlo kwivenkile yokudlela wonke umntu uya kuzihlawula. Kwaye nokuba uhlala kunye kunye nokuqashisa indlu, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhlawula sonke isiqingatha. Sixelele ngawe, kodwa, nakungasiphi na imeko, musa ukummqulela. Thetha malunga nendlela enhle ngayo yonke into! Ihlazo elininzi kunye neyona nto ibalulekileyo - mncumo oluninzi, ngoko kuya kuba lula ukumazi ne-American uze utshate.
Cwangcisa ixesha lakho lokuhambisa kunye, cwangcisa ukuya kwindawo athanda ukuyivakashela, umzekelo, uye kumdlalo weqela lakhe lebhola lebhola. Uyakuthanda, kuya kuba mnandi, kuba usondele kufuphi nephupha lakho ...
Ekubhedeni, ube naye ongazilindelekanga. Faka into yakho engcamango, umangaliswe, ngenxa yokuba wayenexakekile kwimizimba yakhe yemvilo, akahlukanga. Qala ukufudumala xa isasebenza. Mthumelele i-imeyile iincwadi ezithandwayo kwaye unamathisele iifoto zakho ezimbalwa kwisifundo esifanayo. Ekupheleni kweeyure zokusebenza ngaphandle kwesilumkiso, fikela eofisini kwaye ulale ngesondo kwiofisi yakhe. Ayikho into enjalo? Ngoko, yenze ntoni kwimoto kufuphi nendlu. Kwaye akufanelanga? Emva koko uzame ekhaya ukuba ube nomdla kakhulu kwihlabathi kwaye ungakhohlwa ukuhlobisa yonke into egumbini lokulala (amakhandlela, i-champagne), ukupheka ukhilimu, i-strawberries, ngokuqhelekileyo, yenza umntu wamaphupha akho avuyiswe kakhulu ngeli xesha! Ewe, ngaba uAmerica owalindelwe ixesha elide? Ngoku, lindele ukunikezelwa kwesandla nentliziyo. Uninzi kunokwenzeka, kuya kuba yintando kunye nesipho esihle. Kodwa nangona uvumelekile ukujonga imeko yakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqhubeka uhlawula ngokwabo, banezizathu ezinjalo.
Kodwa apha uza kuba nabantwana kuphela xa okhethiweyo wakho eyi-100% eqinisekile ukuba uya kukwazi ukubonelela ngexesha elizayo kwintsapho yakho iminyaka emininzi ezayo. Kwaye ngoku, ngoku unentsapho yaseMerika ngokutyelela iipikniksi kunye nemigca. Vuyiswa! Uqaphele iphupha waza watshata nomMerika.
Ndingayenza ntoni ukuba ufuna ukugqiba konke oku? Indlela yokufumana umyeni ohlukanisile? Ukwenza oku, udinga ukumvusa ngandlela-thile ukuze uhlasele, uhlale ugxininisa iimpazamo zakhe, kwaye ugxininise ukungaphumeleli kwakhe, kuba abantu baseMerika ngabantu, ukusuka ebuntwaneni, bafundiswa ukuba yonke into ihlala iphelele kubo. Abayikunyamezela ukugxekwa, kwaye ke, ngendlela, ngoko-anti-depressants kunye neengqondo zeengqondo zifuna kakhulu eMelika. Ngoku kuyithuba lakho lokukhetha igosa. Ukuqesha isicatshulwa esihle, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba iqabane lakho liya kufuna ukwabelana ngesahlulo sepropati yakho kunye kunye nawe. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuzama ngazo zonke iindlela zokususa kuwe ukugqibela. Yiba nethemba kwaye ungayeki, ngoko uya kuphumelela ukunqoba!