Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, kwimeko yokuthandana, kuyafaneleka ukugcina ingqondo engqondweni. Ukubonakaliswa kobubele kumntu othandweni kunzima ukungaqapheli.
Inyaniso yokuba indoda yakho inothando nawe, iya kuthetha imiqondiso embalwa.
Uyakhangwa kuwe . Ukukhanga ngesondo kuyisimboli sokuqala esibonisa isihawu kuwe. Ukuba ufuna wena kunye neseli, amathuba okuba uthando luya kulandela emva kokuba uvelwano luyanda.
Indoda yindoda . Njengabasetyhini, indoda ethandwayo kufuneka iveze ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nomlingane. Ukuba uyaphawula ukuba ngaphezu kokukhangela ngesondo, umntu wakho ukhangeleka ukuba achithe ixesha elininzi kunye nawe, uyavuyisa ukuphulaphula amabali akho kwaye akafihli kuwe ubomi bakhe - oku kukubonakalisa ukunyameka kwindoda ethandwayo. Unokuqiniseka ukuba awukho nje inkosikazi.
Zonke iingcango zivulekile kuwe . Amadoda athambekele ekukhuseleni ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ngaphandle kweyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo. Xa umntu ethanda, uya kufuna ukukuxelela iimfihlelo zakhe, uvule ikhefu lentsimbi yobomi bakhe kunye nendawo.
Kukho enye indlela . Ngaba ulungele ukuyeka imikhwa ongeyonto ngokukhululekile? Ulungele ukungafuni ukudibana nabahlobo ebhafini. Ukuze usebenzise ukuhlwa kunye nawe?
Emva koko , unokukwazi ukuzola, nakweyiphi imeko yokulwa, uya kuhlala ephulaphule kwaye uya kudibana ukuze afumane isisombululo sokwenza izinto.
Kodwa, ukuba uqaphela ukuba ulwalamano lwakho ngumdlalo owodwa-ndlela, kwaye akalungele ukulungiselela idini, ngoko kukufanelekile ukucinga malunga nokuba ufuna ubuhlobo obunjalo.
Ukubonakaliswa kobubele kumntu othandwayo ngumnqweno wokunyamekela . Kuphela musa ukuba nexhala, kuba lo ngumnqweno omhle wokutshabalalisa ngokulula. Yilungiselele ukunyamekela kunye nokunyamekela ukubuyisela. Yaye uhlala ucinga ngamathuba omntu wakho, ungabi mfuneko kakhulu.
Ukuba umntu uyakuthanda, akayi kukuvumela ukuba ukhale ngenxa yezenzo zakhe. Akayi kubacaphukisa, akayi kubingcatsha. Ewe, asixubushe ngeengxabano ezincinane ezizibonakalisa izibini ezithandanayo.
Ukuba umntu avumela ukunyanzela kuwe, ukungcatsha, oko kuthetha oku, okokuqala, ngokungathandwa nguye. Musa ukudukiswa yinto yokuba emva kwesinye isenzo esichukumisayo, yena, njengenqana, ecinezele ebusuku ebhedini.
Kufanelekile ukucinga ngekamva lakho kunye. Emva koko, ngokuqhubekayo, kubi ngakumbi kuya kuba.
Ukuba ufuna ukugcina uthando lwakho, zama ukungaxabani malunga nangaphandle. Amadoda asabela kwiinyembezi zabesetyhini kuphela okokuqala, ngoko uhlaziyo lwakho luya kukhokelela ekubeni uya kukhathala kwaye anqume ukuhamba.
Ngaba ufuna ukuthandwa? Okokuqala, thandana nawe. Lo mgaqo usebenza ngexesha lonke. Hlonipha kwaye uzixabise, ungahlaziswa phambi komntu, gcina ukuzithemba kwakho. Kwaye ke, indoda yakho iya kukuphatha ngezandla. Wena, njengexhoba esibingelelweni sothando, awunakufunwa ngabani na.
Kwaye, ungesabi ukuhlala wodwa kwaye ulahlekelwe yile ndoda, ukuba isimo sengqondo sakho sikubonisa kuphela ukuba akukho uthando kuwe entliziyweni yakhe.
Ewe, ekuhlaleni kobudlelwane bothando, kunzima kakhulu ukususa iiglasi ezinemibala ebomvu kwaye ujonge iqabane lakho ngokuchanekileyo. Kodwa, khumbula ukuba kuyimfuneko. Ukuba awuyiqondi into endiyithandayo umntu, kwixesha elizayo, unokuzibethelela iinyembezi kunye nosizi. Ukuqhawula ubudlelwane ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa kuya kuba lula kwiindawo zabo.