Abazali-ootitshala
Ewe, mhlawumbi, okokuqala, kufuneka uqale uphendule umbuzo malunga nesitshixo kunye nomxholo wemfundo yasekhaya, ukuze uqonde uhlobo luni lomntwana oluya kuba luhle kakhulu.
Ingcamango yemfundo yasekhaya, okokuqala, ibonisa ukuba umntwana ufundiswa ngabazali ngokwabo. Ewe, kukho inzuzo eninzi kulo. Ngokomzekelo, umama okanye utata angazicwangcisa icebo, azakhe ukuze umntwana anomdla. Ekufundeni ekhaya, ngabazali kuphela abakhokela inkqubo. Akukho mntu uphawula kubo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuze uqeqeshe ngunyana okanye intombi yakho, kufuneka ukwazi ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo amandla abo. Khumbula ukuba umntwana akayi kufumana imfundo efanelekileyo xa uqala ukugqithisa iziphumo zakhe. Ewe, abantwana badinga indumiso kunye nenkxaso, kodwa akufuneki ukuba bathethe malunga noko kungekhona. Ingundoqo yemfundo yasemakhaya kukuba abazali kufuneka bathathe yonke imisebenzi yomfundisi. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukunyanzelisa, ukufaneleka kuzo zonke izikhokelo. Kubalulekile ukucinga malunga neminyaka emininzi oya kuba nako ukufundisa umntwana ngokwakho. Ukuba isitokethi solwazi ikuvumela ukuba ufundise kwiklasi eligqibeleleyo, uze udide. Kodwa, ukuba unako ukumnika imfundo eprayimari kuphela, kufuneka uqikelele. Inyaniso yokuba umntwana uya kuba nzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba angene kwiqela eliseleyo. Kakade ke, abadlali bokuqala nabo banzima. Kodwa bonke bahamba ngokulinganayo. Bonke kufuneka baqhelane, bafunde ukuthetha kunye njalo njalo. Kodwa xa umntwana efika esikolweni kwibanga lesihlanu, engenalo izakhono zokunxibelelana nabafundi ofunda nabo, kunokuba nzima kakhulu kuye kwiqela elitsha.
Uqeqesho lonke luphezu kwamahlombe abazali
Kwakhona, ungakulibali ukuba ukuba ukhetha uhlobo lokufunda esikolweni, umntwana uya kufuneka adlulisele phantse sonke ixesha samahhala. Xa umntwana evela esikolweni, apho athola imfundo emgangathweni, abazali bafuna ukumnceda enze umsebenzi wabo wesikolo. Kule meko, umthwalo ophindwe kabini okanye kathathu uwela kumahlombe kamama okanye uyise. Ngoko ke, imfundo yasekhaya iyakwenziwa kuphela kwiintsapho apho omnye wabazali ehlala endlwini. Inyaniso kukuba umntwana, oqhelekileyo kwimeko yendawo, akayi kuhlala "kwintsimbi kwintsimbi", njengoko kwenzeka esikolweni. Emva koko, akayena mfundisi oqinileyo, ngubani ongenza ukungena embi kwidayari yakhe, kodwa umama wakhe othandekayo okanye uyise oyintanda. Ngoko ulungele ukungabikho, ukukhwaza, ukuthuka, umnqweno wokuhlala. Kufuneka ube nomonde omningi kunye neetalente zokufundisa ukuba umntwana afunde ixesha elininzi njengoko akwenza esikolweni. Ukuba wena ngokwakho uqala 'ukuthatha isikhundla' kwaye uhlehlisele into ethile ngomso, ngoko ke kwimfundo enjalo akukho mntu uya kuba ngcono. Emva koko, umxholo wemfundo ekhaya kukuba umntwana ufumana ulwazi oluninzi kunesikolo, kwaye uxinzelelo oluncinci.
Ngendlela, abanye abantwana abavumelani nokufunda esikolweni. Kwaye akuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lokuphuhlisa kunye nobunzulu. Zinezinto ezinjalo nje. Abafana banokusebenza kwaye banomdla kuphela kwiqela, kwaye baphulaphula kuphela isikolo esikolweni. Ngoko ke, ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni nto kwaye akafuni ukufundisa nawe iminyaka emininzi, ngoko kukufanele ukulibale ngemfundo yasekhaya. Inyaniso kukuba isikolo senza umxholo othi "kufuneka", okwenzeka ekhaya akubonakali ngumntwana ngamnye.
Ukungabi nxibelelwano kwiqela
Kwaye kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukukhathazeka kwengqondo. Ewe, kunjalo, wonke umntu ufuna ukukhusela umntwana wakhe kumava. Ngoko ke, soyika kakhulu ukuba utitshala akayi kumphatha ngendlela eyiyo, akayi kumqonda, akayi kuba nako ukufundisa ukuze umntwana angayiqonda loo nto. Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, umntwana emva koko kufuneka afunde ukuhlala kwikomiti. Nangona ugqiba isikolo, ufunda ekhaya, ufanele afunde ngokusisigxina eyunivesithi. Kwaye kukho iingxaki zokunxibelelana. Ewe, eneneni, izikolo ezikolweni zinezinto ezininzi ezingalunganga, kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, wonke umntu kufuneka afunde indlela yokulwa neengcamango zawo kwaye avumele indawo yokujonga. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani umntwana ukuba angabikho kwiqela, nguye ocebisayo kunye nokufundisa ukulwa, ukuthetha, kuba ngabahlobo, kulo mxholo othile wemfundo yesikolo. Mhlawumbi abanye abazali babenamava amabi esikolweni abandakanya ootitshala nabafunda nabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abanjalo abafuni ukuba abantwana babo bahlupheke. Nangona kunjalo, unokuzama ukufumana isikolo eso, ngokuboni kwakho, siya kuhambelana nomntwana ongcono.
Ngoko ke, ukuba udweba umgca, isitshixo kunye nomxholo wemfundo esekelwe kwikhaya kukuba abazali banokukhetha uhlobo lokubonisa, ixesha leeklasi, kwaye banethuba lokuzibandakanya kakhulu kwezo zifundo ezinganikiweyo kumntwana. Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufuneka bazinikele ixesha elininzi kule nto, yibani nesineke, uvavanye ulwazi ngokwaneleyo kwaye unako ukufundisa. Ngoko ke, ukuba ungeyilo lo xanduva kwaye ucinge ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kunqunyulwa ebantwini, imfundo yasekhaya ingakuhambelana nawe.