Ubani amawaka eemoto ezakhiweyo? Ubani na ama-penitori akhiwe kwiparadesi enkulu yehlabathi? Ewe, ngubani, ekupheleni, athengisa umhlaba ngeNyanga? Kwa madoda. Ziyabanjwa ngombono wokubambisana. Kuhlekisa gqitha ukuba awunayo inxaxheba. Khangela, abo bancintisanayo, benza izinto ezinqabileyo kunye neziqheno.
Kukho inqaku elithi "uvila luqhuba inkqubela phambili yobugcisa." Oku kuchazwa yinyaniso yokuba zonke iimoto, i-coffee grinders, i-washing machine, iikhomputha, njl. zadalwa ngumntu ukuze le mimangaliso yokulungelelanisa yayizalisekisa umsebenzi wethu kuthi. Kwaye ukubonakalisa okuyingqayizivele. Bonke abo baye benza inkqubela kuyo nayiphi na imboni, bembatha isithsaba somqhubi. Kodwa oku akubalulekanga kuye.
Kwaye okubalulekileyo kukuba baya kuba nomona ngaye, balingane naye baze balwele okufanayo. Kakade. Cinga ukuba kutheni indoda eneminyaka ephakathi, ifumana imoto eninzi, inkosikazi encinci kunye nentonga yezihlalo kwintlalo yezopolitiko? Ngokuqhelekileyo, imoto kufuneka ibe yinkampani yezoshishino, ibhokhwe yenkosikazi kufuneka ibe ubuncinane kabini inkulu njengaloo mnkosikazi osondelene naye, kwaye isihlalo kufuneka sinqunywe ngezinto ezibiza kakhulu. Kwaye ngoku akunjalo umda. Indoda iya kujikeleza-ijikeleze, kodwa ukufezekisa izinto eziphezulu nangaphezulu. Emva koko uza kuziqinisekisa. Yaye loo madoda angenanto ivakalelwa njani? Ziyabonakala ngokucacileyo. Sibahlangabeza imihla ngemihla kwisitalato. Jonga kubo. Ubuso obunqambileyo, obunomthi obomvu, amehlo enenkani ekhangele phantsi, ezama ukukwenza okungenani ukuphahla kwemincili.
Ibhinqa kuzo zonke iimeko ayinayo indima yokugqibela. Unokuxhasa indoda, inokuyihlazisa. Ukuze ugweme ukukhankanya indima "engabalulekanga" yabasetyhini, oku kunokuphikiswa ngokulula. Ukususela kwimbali kuyacaca ukuba kuphela ngokufihlakeleyo kwakhe, ukuxhomekeka, kuphela amandla akhe, umfazi wenza iinguqulelo kwiindawo ezininzi kunye namazwe. Ukuba ulawula amandla akho, unokufumana ihlabathi, ngezandla zabantu. Kwaye ngelo xesha, baya kuziqhayisa. Banobuqili obuqinileyo. Kodwa umdlalo awuyena mdlalo omnye. Ukuxhaphaza amadoda, kufuneka ukwazi ukunambisa imeko. Ubugwenxa akusiyo ihambo lomfazi. Qaphela, yiyiphi indima enikezwa kwiingxelo zamantombazana kwiFox? Nguye kuphela ummeli wesifazane apho. Akazange akha phambi kwakhe zonke izilo zaseYurophu naseAfrika, kwaye akazange abanike imiyalelo. Kwaye ndamkela ngobuqili kunye nobubele. Kwaye ngoku kuyimfuneko. Oku akufanele kululibale. Umgangatho onamandla - kwaye unamandla. Amandla ilungelo lomntu. Futhi ungathathi indawo yomnye umntu. Kwaye sifanele sifunde ukusebenzisa uhlobo oluthile luvuze ngokukhululekile.
Ibhinqa ngumdali wolonwabo. Ekulweni ukuphakama kwamadoda, umfazi unokudlala indima ebalulekileyo. Kwi-"yesondo esomeleleyo" ngexesha lokuhlaselwa kolukhuseleko kukhuselo. Emva koko, zingaphi iintsapho zatshatyalaliswa yile nkanuko yokugqwesa! Ngoko yintoni na indawo kule mihlanga thina, bafazi?
Indlela yokugcina indoda ethandekayo? Unokukunceda njani intanda yakho? Indlela yokufumana iminyulo yendoda ethandekayo? Kwaye mhlawumbi kungekhona kumthandayo, kodwa wakhe. Yonke intombazana kunye nomfazi bafuna ukuba yiloo nto abhala imibongo kwaye bahlele ukulwa. Masiqale namhlanje.
Ewe, ngoko. Imfazwe yokugqwesa ikhona kwi-subconscious. Kwindawo ethile ngexesha elinye lafika i-mammoth enkulu, enye inomona impumelelo yakhe, kwaye umzabalazo wokuba "ukhulu nangcono" waqala. Ngendlela, ngexesha lethu, kunokwenzeka ukulandelela ukuba kukho i-pathology okanye yonke into ehamba ngokwemvelo. Sidinga ukujonga kuphela ingcambu, oko kukuthi ubuhlobo benkwenkwana nomama. Okumangalisa ngokwaneleyo, le mikhosi nemibingelelo zifakwa kumama. Njalo. Ukuba, ukusuka kumama, ukuthanda umntu ozayo, athole nto encinci, okanye akazange amkele nonke, kwixesha elizayo linokuchaphazela izenzo zobuqhetseba. Uyakwazi ukuzithenga izinto ngaphandle kokukwazi ukwenza oko. Konke oku kwenziwa ukwenzela ukufumana lo thando. Abafana abathandwa ebuntwaneni njengomntwana, benze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo ebomini babo abadala. Uvakalelo lwezobambiswano lubonakaliswa kuzo, kodwa aluyi pathologically. Abayi kuthenga "ngaphezulu nangaphezulu". Inokwenzeka ukuba, kuya kuba yinto enye, kodwa into eya kumangalisa wonke umntu. Kuvela apha ukuba iingcinga ezintle ziphume, ngendlela yomshini okhawuleza ukuya kwi-300 km kwiimitha eziyi-8. h.
Amadoda anemithetho emininzi. Bazenzele omnye nomnye, ukwenzela ukuthintela abachasi babo ukuba bazalisekise. Ngulo mlo. Ingaba kukho ikhowudi yokugqoka oku? Khawucinge nje, esitratweni ukufudumala kobushushu. Unokuva isandi senhliziyo yakho. Kwaye abakhuseli bethu bahamba ngokumnyama (okanye kwiimeko ezimbi, ubumnyama obomvu), ijacket kunye neebhulukhwe zokusebenza. Ukucima amanqabana ebunzini lakhe, uya kubuthwa ngokukratshi lo myalelo wesilisa. Ukusebenzisa amaqhinga amancinci amabhinqa, unokufumana into oyifunayo kwizesondo eziqinileyo, ngaphandle kwama-scandals, iinyembezi kunye namahlazo. Nangona kuthethwa ngxabano ngamanye amaxesha kuncedo.
1. Ngoko, apha weza. Ulambile, ukhathele kakhulu kule mihlanga yesihloko, kwaye apha ulapha. Inqabileyo, inomdla, inomtsalane omnandi, apho ufuna ukuyidiliza. Yondla, umbeke phantsi uze uqale "ukuhlambalaza" ngezwi elimnene, indlela enhle ngayo. Xa eguqula i-candy yakho, kwaye ingqondo yakhe iphelelwe yindlela yakho, ungaqala ukufaka iimfuno zakho. Ukuze ungamyiki, ungacinezeli. Qhubekisa ingoma yakho yokudibanisa malunga nobuhle bakhe, kwaye phakathi kweminqweno yakhe.
2. Sifuna indoda ukuba ikhululeke nathi. Esi siqinisekiso esinamandla kunye nesiqiniseko esingenakuqiniseka ukuba akayi kuhamba. Bonke abantu bayamnandi (kuzo zonke iinjongo). Bayafuna ukutya okulungileyo, ubulili obuhle kunye nodumo oluhle. Mdumise rhoqo. Kulo luya kwenza njengeshukela kwiesilwanyana. Uya kuziva ukuba ungumfazi ococekileyo, kuba unobulumko, uzukise isidima sakhe. Ewe, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kuhamba naphi na. Uya kuba khona, apho "umbingeleli ushushu".
3. Bonke abantu bafuna ukwazi ukuba "uyona mkhulu-kakhulu." Ngoko kufuneka umxelele oko. "Wena unamandla kunabo bonke, unesibindi, unobulumko", njl. Ngamehlo uya kukuxelela ukuba akayidingi le ngqungquthela, kodwa ndikholelwe, uhlala efuna ukwazi ukuba nguye owona mhle.
4. Ngamanye amaxesha, unokufuna ukuthulula umphefumlo wakho. Babenayo ngaphandle kwemibonakalo yokomoya, kodwa ngohlobo lomtsalane wamagama angenakulinganiswa. Ukuba uyaphazamisa okanye uthi unomdla kuyo, usengozini yokuba yintlungu. Mamela ukuphela. Nangona akufuneki ukuphulaphula. Into ephambili maxa wambi ibonakala kwamehlo akho kwaye ngokukhawuleza ugxotha intloko yakho. Ukuba ufuna ukuba abe kwi-leash yakho, kufuneka ukwazi ukukholisa intlungu yakhe. Uya kukuqwalasela njengonxibelelwano olungcono kwihlabathi.
5. Ncumoze njalo kuye. Amadoda athande abafazi abathobileyo. Loo ntokazi, ngokombono wabo, unokuphakamisa umoya kunye nokuphelisa ukungaphumeleli. Yaye uya kujonga ngakumbi.
6. Njalo umxelele ukuba "nguye-kakhulu". Nantoni na eyenzekayo, yinto engcono.
7. Yaye, ke, kufuneka ubonakale uphelele. Oku kunako ukusetyenziswa. Chaza kuye xa ufuna ukuthenga enye ibhola leqhumiso, oko kukuthi, ukuba ulungele kuye.
Ukuba usebenzise ezi zinto zingenakunzima kwezakhono zokuziphatha, uya kuba nokwakha ubuhlobo obuhle kakhulu kunye neqabane lakho. Unako ukuhlala umfumana into oyifunayo. Khumbulani umyalelo kaThixo: "Yenzani kubantu njengokuba nithanda, ukuba bayenze kuwe." Ukuba ufuna ukusebenzisa le migaqo ngenjongo enobungozi, inokubuyela kuwe.
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