Indlela yokwazi umlingiswa womntu ngemikhwa yakhe nokuziphatha

Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda amaninzi kubhinqa ahlala engummangaliso. Kodwa ngoncedo lweengcebiso ezilula kufuneka ufunde iimfihlo zakhe eziqhelekileyo kwaye, ngaphezu koko, ngexesha elifutshane. Zonke ezo zenzo umntu azingacingi ngazo, kwixesha elincinci xa engenzi nto kumfazi, unokuthetha okuninzi ngaye. Yiba nje ukunyamekela, kwaye uya kuqonda indlela yokuqonda umlingiswa womntu ngemikhwa yakhe nokuziphatha.

Imidlalo ethandwa ngumntu

Ukuba intando yakho ikhetha imidlalo enye, njengokubhukuda, ukubhukuda, njl., Ngoko uyathanda ukuchitha ixesha yedwa kwaye unandiphe inkululeko yakhe nokuzimela. La madoda anjengezemidlalo enkulu (ibhola lebhola, ihockey, ibhaskball, njl.) Bathambekele ekuncintiseni nasekukhuphiseni. Kodwa ukuba abakhethiweyo abathandanga imidlalo kuyo yonke, ngoko ke ungumcabango wamahhala, kwaye ngoko ke, unomdla kakhulu.

Ubude bomhlobo phakathi komntu kunye nenkampani yakhe

Ngokumalunga nalawo madoda anobungane kunye nenkampani ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-10, sinokuthi izinto zabo ezinamandla zinyanisekile, zinyanisekile kwaye zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zikhona. Ngoko ke, yiba nomonde ngokwaneleyo, kuba unokufuna ixesha lokuba ufumane ithemba lakhe. Ungesabi ukuzisa umntu kwiintsapho okanye ngabahlobo bakhe, ngokukhawuleza uguqulele kwiimeko ezintsha kwaye unokuthetha ngokulula nabantu abangabazi.

Ikhadi lesikweletu okanye imali

Abo bantu abathanda ukubonisa ikhadi labo leplastiki baphinda banqwenela ngokukhawuleza isimo sezenhlalakahle. Amadoda anjalo anokuba nobuqili okanye ukuzithemba. Kukho nawuphi na, uya kufeza injongo yakhe. Ukuba umntu uhlawulwa ngemali, ngoko ke uyazimela kwaye azimeleyo. Kodwa ukuba isikhwama sommeli wesilisa asinalutho, ngoko uxhomekeke kwabanye kwaye ulindele ukunyamekela.

Imikhwa emibi yabantu

Ngokweendlela zomntu, umntu unokugweba umlingiswa wakhe. Ngoko, umntu othanda ukugembula uthanda ukuthatha ingozi. Kodwa kuphela ukuxhomekeka kwakhe ngokugqithiseleyo kukugqithiseleyo. Abantu ababhemayo baxhomekeke kwixhala kunye nexhala. Kwaye abo bantu abathanda ukusela, bahlala befihla ukungabi nokuqinisekiswa kwabo ngokusela.

Indlela yokuthetha yomntu

Abo bantu abakhetha ukubhalela i-imeyile esikhundleni seefowuni zefowuni "ziinqununu ezinzima." Bakhetha le ndlela yokunxibelelana, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba bazilungiselela ngamabomu iingcinga zabo rhoqo, okanye ngenxa yokuba bafihla intloko yabo. Ukuba abakhethiweyo bakho bakhetha ukunxibelelana ngeSMS, ufuna ukuba uqaphele njalo, kwaye nawuphi na umzuzu unokuqiniseka ukuba unayo. Kodwa abo bantu abakhetha ukufowunela iifowuni badala, kodwa abayikiyo ubudlelwane obusondeleyo.

Iingubo zakho, zixhasayo okhethiweyo

I-Nenovye T-shirt kunye neejazi ze-jeans ezifakwa phezulu kwi-swimsuit, njengendoda engaphezulu kwekhumba elincane? Indoda enjalo ithandwa kwabasetyhini nabahlwempuzekileyo. Ukuba umntu uya kumncoma kwintombazana ethanda ukugqoka kwiingubo ezivela kubaqulunqi abadumileyo, ukuhlonipha kubaluleke kakhulu kuye. Amadoda athetha abafazi abangaphantsi kwezesondo okanye abafazi be-vamps, ngale ndlela, bafuna ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwabo. Ngomfazi onjalo baya kuyanconywa kwaye, ngexesha elifanayo, banomona.

Ukuziphatha komntu kwiqela

Ukuziphatha komntu kumcimbi, naye, unokufunda okuningi. Ukuba umntu akanako ukuphumla kude kube nokuphela ngexesha leqela kunye nabahlobo, yena, mhlawumbi, unesidima, unamahloni kwaye unamahloni. Musa ukulindela kumntu onjalo izenzo ezinokuthandana, izinto ezingalindelekanga, ngesondo kwindawo kawonkewonke. Indoda ehlekisayo nomphefumlo kwinkampani kunye nomphefumlo wayo, inesidingo soloko sigxininiso, kwaye ngenxa yoko, iminqweno yowesifazane kwindawo yakhe yesibini. Kungenzeka ukuba, xa ukhetha ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe okanye abanye, uya kukhetha ukhetho lwesibini.

Udidi lomqhubi womnxeba

Indoda, ihlala igubha phakathi kweemoto, kwaye isoloko izama ukuphuma kwezinye iimoto ngelixa iqalekisa abantu abaqhubiyo, ebomini nasebudlelwaneni. Ukuba ukhethiweyo wakho ngexesha logaxekile "jam" ukhululile, ngoko uyakwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe.

Isikhundla samadoda ngesondo

Unokufumana kwakhona uhlobo lomlingane wakho ngokubhekiselele kwisondo. Ukuba umntu okhethiweyo uyabiza ukuba ulale ngesondo nanini na emini kwaye naphi na, ngoko mhlawumbi uqinisekile ukuba ufuna isondo okanye ulwalamano olusekelwe ekuhanjisweni kweendima zemveli zamadoda nabasetyhini. Abo bantu balindele isicwangciso sokuqala esivela kubafazi, ngokuqinisekileyo, bafuna ukuzihlaziya. Ukongezelela, unokukhathazeka ngokuzithemba emva kokulahla kwesondo ngaphambili.

Ixesha lemini, elikhethwe ngumntu ngesondo

Amadoda, okhethwe ngokwesini sasekuseni, asebenze ngamandla, angene ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba umntu okhethiweyo uthanda ubulili bobusuku, mhlawumbi uyingqingili yothando. Indoda enjalo inokuba yinto engcono kakhulu yokwabelana ngesondo, kodwa ixesha elide, lincinci linikezelwa kuwe.