Ungaqalisa izifundo zokuqala ekhaya. Kwaye isifundo sokuqala ukufundisa umntwana indlela yokuphefumula ngokufanelekileyo. Zibeke wena okanye umntwana entendeni yento elula kakhulu: icandelo lephepha, iphepha. Buza umntwana ukuba athabathe umoya omncinci emlonyeni wakhe, aze aphefumle umlomo, ngokubethelela emlonyeni, ukuze uvuthele into entendeni yesandla sakho. Unokuzenza kwisitya sokuhlambela. Gcwalisa i-tub ngamanzi, uphonsa amathoyizi ambalwa kuwo kwaye kunye kunye nosana, uthathe umoya ophefumulayo, uphefumle kuwo, ukuze bahambe. Kwaye unako ukubeka amathoyizi aphantsi kwi-tub ukuze bangavukeli phezulu. Ngokubambisana nomntwana, ngokuqhelekileyo zonke izivivinyo zenziwa ngcono kunye, vala amehlo akho, uthathe umoya okhulu emlonyeni wakho ufake intloko yakho emanzini. Vula amehlo akho kwaye uqokelele amathoyizi alala phantsi kwebhu. Ukuzivocavoca okunjalo ekubhukuda ngamanzi, ngaphantsi kwamanzi anamehlo avulekileyo.
Jonga ukuba umntwana akasaphuzi namanzi ngexesha lomdlalo. Kodwa ukuba le nto yenzeke, thola ngokukhawuleza, cwaka, cima, ungagwinyi umntwana, ugxume emhlane wakhe. Ngale nyathelo uya kumthusa nje, kwaye ungamthobeli. Ukuba ibhagi ivumela, ubeke umntwana emhlane wakhe, ebhahleni ezaliswe ngamanzi, izandla zentsana mazibe zihamba kunye nesiqu, i-chin ephakanyisiwe. Kule ndawo, ngaphandle kokuguqa imilenze yakho, cela umntwana ukuba aphonse amanzi ngamasokisi. Ngelo xesha, bamba intloko.
Umsebenzi omnye: umntwana uthatha umoya ophefumlelweyo kwaye, ngokuphefumula, uphupha emanzini imizuzwana embalwa, emva koko uphuma kwaye aphephe. Zama ukutyelela idama lokubhukuda kunye nomntwana wakho rhoqo, kwaye ehlobo uhamba olwandle. Ixesha elifanelekileyo kakhulu lokubhukuda ngentsasa. Unokudada ngeyure nesiqingatha emva kokutya. Khumbula, awukwazi ukubhukuda kwisisu esingenalutho nangaphambi kokulala, kuba ukubhukuda ngumthwalo omkhulu ngokomzimba. Musa ukumgxotha umntwana emanzini, enethemba lokuba uya kunkwantya kwaye azithulule. Oku uya kuthusa, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kutshaya umnqweno wokubhukuda nomntwana. Unokwesaba amanzi.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba adide kwiminyaka emihlanu? Ukufundisa okuqinisekileyo kokubhukuda kulo nyaka kuqeqesho ngohlobo lomdlalo. Kukho imidlalo emininzi emanzini. Umzekelo, umntwana uthatha umoya ophefumulayo, uphonsa ngaphantsi kwamanzi, aguqe amadolo ezandleni zakhe kwaye abe nesimo esifana nesantya, abe phantsi kwamanzi imizuzwana embalwa. Omnye umsebenzo: kwakhona, ukuphefumula okunzulu kunye nomntwana ulala phantsi emanzini, ebhaptiza ubuso bakhe emanzini, elula imilenze kunye nezandla kumacala, elele emanzini imizuzwana embalwa. Abantwana bathanda ukudlala emanzini ngebhola, unokumema umntwana ukuba acacise ibhola ngezandla zakhe aze alula izandla zakhe. Kule ndawo, bhukuda, ngelixa usebenza kuphela ngeenyawo zakho.
Zininzi iindlela zokudada. Abantwana bafunda kangangoko ukugebha nomvundla, kuba ngale ndlela zombini izandla nezandla zisebenza ngokufanayo, Enyanisweni, indlela efanayo yokuhamba njengokuhamba, ukukhahlela. Abantwana abafunda indlela yokubhukuda-krol, bafunde ezinye iindlela zokubhukuda: isifuba, ukubhukuda emacaleni abo, njl. Xa ugebha nge-crawl, umntwana kufuneka aphathwe ebusweni bamanzi ngokunciphisa ubuso bakhe emanzini. Ukuphefumula, kufuneka ujike ikhanda lakho kwicala. Imilenze ilungile, ishintshana kwaye ayixinyi, umntwana uhamba kunye neenyawo zakhe phezulu. Xa intshukumo iphakanyisiwe - umlenze uqonde, phantsi - umlenze uguqa ngamadolo. Kufuneka ziboniswe kuphela izithende emanzini. Ukuguqa kwemilenze incinci. Intshukumo ebalulekileyo, xa uqubha kunye nekhwela, ukuhamba kwezandla. Ukuhambisa izandla kufuneka kuguqulwe: owokuqala, omnye. Iminwe yezandla ndawonye, i-brush ifakwe kwisimo sesinqanawa. Unokuzama ukuqhuba ukuqhuba ngokutsha kwindawo elunxwemeni. Umntwana uphakamisa ingalo enye, okwesibini kwikota. Ngokuthobezela phantsi isandla sakhe phantsi, enye ingalo, igobe ngokukhawuleza kwinqongqelo, idonsa iphinde iphakamise, iqondise. Emanzini, kukho ukunyuka okufanayo. Ngako oko kuyimfuneko ukuphefumula ngokuchanekileyo. Xa isandla siwela phantsi - ukuphuma kwomoya, isandla sikhuphukela phezulu - ukukhuphaza, ngelixa ikhanda liphendukele kwicala elibhekiselele kwingalo ephakanyisiweyo. Imilenze kufuneka isebenze ngokukhawuleza kunezandla. Xa ufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlambe khumbula ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala angangeniswa xa efudumele kungekho ngaphezu kwemizuzu eyi-15. Ukuba umlomo womntwana uphendukile okwesibhakabhaka, ulusu luba "i-goose", ngokukhawuleza kufuneka ulukhuphe ngaphandle kwamanzi, usule omile, ugqoke, unike isiphuzo seti efudumeleyo. Ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo unomntwana ovuyokileyo, u-agile umntwana waba luvila, engabonakaliyo emva kokubhukuda, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukunciphisa iiklasi zexesha. Ukwandisa umthwalo kancane kancane. Musa ukuvumela umntwana ukuba angene ngaphakathi emanzini kunonqeni. Ungamshiyi umntwana wedwa emanzini, ulawulo oludala lufanele luhlale luhlala, nokuba ucinga ukuba umntwana uyashukuma kakuhle.