Kutheni sifuna abathandi?

Kungekude kudlulileyo, izifundo zobudlelwane kwiintsapho zanamhlanje zibonakalisa ukutyekela okukrakrayo: indoda nomfazi bayeke ukuthetha - ixesha lokunxibelelana kwabo ngemini ngu-10-12 imizuzu. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo?


Wonke umntu ugijima, ugijima, ugijima ...

Ubunzima bomphefumlo wobomi, xa iqabane ngalinye lijongene neminye imisebenzi, isisombululo esingeke sarhoxiswe emva koko, iigigabytes zolwazi olutsha zibonakala zifuna ukuba ziphinde zenziwe kwakhona kwaye zifunwe, kukho imfuneko yokunxibelelana nabantu abafunekayo kodwa abangekhoyoko, ukuziphatha ngokuhambelana nesimo ... konke oku kukhokelela kwinto yokuba ubudlelwane banamhlanje phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi kwintsapho abanakukwazi ukumelana nokutshabalaliswa kobomi kwimigacities.

Ukukhangela umoya wohlobo

Kodwa imfuneko yokuba umntu osondeleyo apheli, yingakho umnqweno wokufumana umphefumlo womphefumlo uvela. Kubonakala ngathi kukho ukuphikisana ebusweni: akukho xesha lokuba umfazi (umyeni), kukho umntwana onothando? Ngelishwa, ezi ziyinyani zobomi banamhlanje kwizixeko ezinkulu. Kuba ngumhlali we-metropolis, intsapho iphelile ukuba ibe yindawo engokwemvelo kwaye iyinyanzeliso, yinto enye into efuna ukuyenza ebomini. Uninzi lwabantu lufuna i-outlet. Ngaphezu koko, ukubonakala kweWebhu yeWebhu yehlabathi kunye nokuphakama kwayo kwandisa ngokulula indlela yokufumana umntu osondeleyo emoyeni. Yonke into iye yafika kude kangangokuba ubudlelwane obuyindoda kunye nowesifazane bakha kwi-intanethi baqala ukwahlukana ngohlobo oluhlukeneyo lobudlelwane, beyithiwa yintsapho ebonakalayo.

Ukuhlaselwa ngokomzwelo njengento ebalulekileyo

Iingcali zengqondo ziye zafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba isizathu sisekelwe kwintlalo yanamhlanje, ifuna ukukhangela omnye umntu endifuna naye ukwakha ubudlelwane. Nangona ukuba umtshato osele ukho konke ukwaneliseka okanye kunelisekile, isidingo sokuthandana kwicala liphezulu kakhulu. Ngoko ke, kukho izinto ezinqamlekileyo okanye ezidibeneyo ngokufanayo nomanyano osemthethweni. Ngexesha elifanayo akukhathazeki nokuba ngaba bathandwa bafumaneke kwihlabathi (okwenene okanye okwenene), kuba ingongoma yeengqondo ayifaki umehluko phakathi kwabo. Emva kwakho konke, ukwaneliseka kweemfuno ezifanayo kunye nokufunwa okufanayo: ukuqinisekiswa kobodwa, ukhetho, umnqweno wokuthakazelisa, ukuqonda .... Ngelishwa, ifomathi yoqhagamshelwano oluqhelekileyo, olusebenzayo kwiintsapho ezininzi, alubonakali ukuba khona kweengoma zothando, inokwenzeka yokuba ukwabelana ngeemvakalelo ezinzulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abatshatiweyo abanalo ngcamango malunga naloo nto (kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abanalo mfuneko) ukuba banokubelana ngemfihlelo yabo kunye nemiphefumlo yabo okanye baxelele ngokubhekiselele kwizinto ezinokuthi zichazwe kalula kubathandi.

Kodwa umntu ngamnye ufuna imfesane, uvelwano kunye nokuqonda okufanayo, kwaye umtshato unomdla ekulahlekelweni kwezinto eziyinkimbinkimbi. Le mibalelwano ekunxibelelaneni kwabatshatileyo iyancipha okanye i-sovsemchezayut. Ihlala yindlela kuphela yobomi. "Ndifanele ndipheke ngodli? Thatha udoti! I-Zaberideetey evela esikolweni (umyezo). "... Nangona kunjalo, imeko ibambelele kwiinkcazo ezinjalo ngenxa yokuba omnye umfazi owenza umxhwele, ongenakukwazi ukuvakalelwa ngokwenene, kubomi bokuba ubomi bwanamhlanje ngumbulali oyintloko womoya wokuthandana kwintsapho. Yilapho kukho abathandi be-intanethi okanye bengokoqobo, kuba ukuvisisana ngokomzwelo nomnye umntu kuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo.

"Umfazi wesibini" uyisiphumo sokuphumelela nokuhle?

Kwaye oko kwenza ukuba abatshatileyo bengaqabane, abafazi baqiniseke ukuba "ngabafazi besibini". Ngokuqhelekileyo abanalo amandla okutshintsha into ebakhoyo: umsebenzi, umnqweno oqhubekayo wokuphucula (ngengqondo, ngokwenyama, ngokuziphatha) ubenzela ukuba bahambe kwii-training, iindibano, i-gyms, i-saly beauty, imibukiso, iziganeko zentlalo ... kwaye akumangalisi ukuba ngeli nqanaba Ubomi ekupheleni kosuku abaphupha kuphela into eyodwa-ukuphumla. Ukudala intsapho ivele ingenazo iimpahla zangaphakathi. Kodwa imfuneko yokuba uzive uthandwa kwaye uthande kakhulu ungeke ulahleke, kwaye ngoko umfazi uyavuma indima yomthandi.

Yintoni oyenzayo?

Kakotnestis kwinto yokuba indoda (umfazi) yayithandayo? Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zingagqithwanga kwihlombe, musa ukukhawuleza ukuhoxisa kwaye ungabandakanyeki ekuzithobeni. Mhlawumbi oku kulwalamano oluvela kwezinye iindawo eziza kunceda intsapho yakho ihlale ihlala. Mhlawumbi yena (orion) ngoncedo lwaloo mnye uqobo uyagcwalisa isistim sakho somntu kule ndlela ekhethekileyo. Kubalulekile ukufumana isizathu sokunyanzelisa umntu ukuba afune enye inyaniso. Kwaye uqale unxibelelwano ngokwawo, ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-12, kwaye mhlawumbi ke akuyi kuba nomnqweno wokuba wabelane ngcamango nomnye umntu, hamba ngomnye komnye umntu, thintela uze umanga omnye umntu ...