Imiphumo yokuqhuba utywala rhoqo kwi-neuropsychological child's is a horror. Ukususela kwinjongo yengqondo, abantwana bahlakulela ama-psychopathic, iifom zeendlela zokuziphatha. Ubunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana onjalo kwixesha elizayo uza kuba ngumntu olwaphulo-mthetho okanye umntu ogula ngengqondo ophezulu kunokuba ngabanye abantwana. Yilokho utywala obukhokela abazali, kutheni bangabandezeleka kuphela, kodwa babo abantwana nabazukulu. Ungakulibali ukuba utshatywala luzuze ilifa kwaye amathuba okuba uphuze utywala kubantwana kuya kuba phezulu - ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Yiyiphi ingcamango yokusela utywala? Oku kuyimiphunga ebuhlungu yotywala, ekhokelela kwimiphumo emibi kubo bobabini kunye nabantu abakujikelezile. Utywala luyabonwa njengentsholongwane yentsapho, kuba akuchaphazeli kuphela utywala ngokwakhe, kodwa kunye namanye amalungu entsapho, ngamanye amaxesha angaphezu kwakhe. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukutywala utywala akudluli mntu nabangenacala. Impembelelo yotywala kumntwana inezinye iifom, inokulimaza i-biologically, xa kwenzeka ukuba abazali bathathe utywala ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana. Kwakhona, ingozi engenakukhunjulwa kumntwana ibangela ingqondo yengqondo, ibangela ukukhathazeka kwengqondo kunye nokuziphatha, okukhokelela ekubeni uxinezeleke kunye noxinzelelo lwengqondo.
Mhlawumbi, abaninzi babonakala bengekho kwimiphumo enjalo, kwaye bona ngokwabo abazibongi njengotywala. Oku akunjalo, nangona "unxilisayo" wokugqibela, njengoko sibabiza, akaziqondi ngokwakhe. Ayikho into efana nokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala, kuba ukuba uthetha "ukusetyenziswa kakubi", oko kukuthi, yintoni imiphumo emibi, ngoko kwimeko yotywala, asikwazi ukufumana enye intsingiselo eya kuthetha "ukusetyenziswa kakuhle" ". Utywala bulimaza naluphi na ubungakanani balo, kwaye akukho nto efana nesantya sokusetyenziswa kwayo, kukho inzululwazi yentlalo yokuba ngeeholide unako ukusela utywala, kwaye unako ukusela. Ukusebenzisa utywala nakwixabiso elincinci, usuqhelise umntwana wakho. Ukuba elinye lamalungu entsapho lixhatshazwa utywala, imeko kwintsapho iya kuba yinto engenakwenzeka, ngenxa yokuba utshatshazo lushintsha umntu ngokwakhe, lubangela ukuba uhlamvu lwakhe lubi. Kukho ukungquzulwano, iingxabano, izikratshi, ukunyaniseka kunye nogonyamelo ngabazali. Oku kuya kubakhokelela ekusetyenzisweni kwengqondo kuphela, kodwa nakwimeko yokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yabantwana. Umntwana akakwazi ukuhlakulela nokusebenza, ukuthanda nokwazi ngokwakhe kwimeko apho bobabini okanye omnye wabazali baxhatshazwa utywala kunye nokutshintsha phantsi kwefuthe lakhe.
Kukho iimeko xa abantu abanomdla wokudakwa ngokweqile "banabantwana abaqhelekileyo". Ngako oko, ezinye izidakwa, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, zikholelwa enenhlanhla kunye nelokuba ukuba, ngokwenene, banabantwana abaqhelekileyo, kwaye ke, ukusela utywala akazichaphazeli naliphi na indlela. "Kutheni ndingasayi kusela, ukuba ndiyazi ukuba abahlobo bam okanye abahlobo banabantwana abaqhelekileyo, akukho nto eyoyikisayo iya kwenzeka kubo," abanye bacinga. Kodwa oku akusikho ubungqina bokungabi naluphi utywala, kufuneka siqwalasele nokuba kukho into ebonakalayo kunye nezinye izinto. Ukongezelela, aba "bantwana abaqhelekileyo" ngexesha lokukhula ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva baya kubonisa ukuphulwa kunye neengxaki ezinzulu kwiimeko zengqondo kunye nemibandela.
Utywala lwabazali lukhokelela kwiingxaki ze-somatic, izifo ezahlukeneyo. Kwizibalo zethu zelizwe zibonisa ukuba abantwana besizukulwana ngasinye bazalwa bengenakukwazi ukusebenza, umsebenzi wengqondo, ukufundisisa, bacinga ukuba bangaphezu kwesizukulwana esidlulileyo, kwaye iziganeko ezingapheliyo kunye neemeko zentsholongwane zenzeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Kwaye konke oku kuchazwa yinto yokuba utywala kunye nesizukulwana ngasinye siyaziwayo, kwaye ukusetyenziswa kwayo kuyinto evamile. Siya kungcwatywa elwandle loluntu lwezentlalo, ngenxa yokutywala, kwaye thina asiyikubulala kuphela ubomi bethu, kodwa kunye nempilo yabantwana bethu besikhathi esizayo. Ngokuba ukuzonwabisa okuqhubekayo kunye namahlaya kufihlwe ikamva elimnyama kwezizukulwana zethu, ukuthotywa komntu. Abantu bayazibulala kunye nabantwana babo ngaphakathi, kwaye into eyoyikisayo apha yindlela yabo yokuzingca kunye neengqondo-uphuhliso lwentlalo. Kule nto sinokuthi ama-40-60 ekhulwini kwabantwana benxila baxhamla kwi-oligophrenia kunye nokulibala kwengqondo. Abantwana bavavanya kakuhle imeko, abakwazi ukuhlalutya ngokufanelekileyo. Iimvakalelo zingenangqiqo, izenzo azihlali zingabonakali. Imiphumo efana nayo ingachazwa ngokuphuculwa kancinci kwenkqubo yesantya. Ukuba sithetha ngemiphumo-engqondweni - abantwana bezonxilisayo banomdla kakhulu, bahlale bexhala kakhulu, bathambekele ekuhlanganiseni iimvakalelo ezimbi.
Ukuphuhliswa kwe-neuropsychological kunye nempilo yengane ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni unentsapho yokusetyenziswa kotywala. Ukusebenzisa utywala, ungacingi nje ngowe, kodwa nangabantwana bakho bokamva. Cinga ngento yokuba wena kunye nomnye umntu uya kuba netyala leengxaki zabo, ngaba unokunyamezela lo mthwalo ubomi bakho bonke? Emva kwakho konke, ngamanye amaxesha umele ufune ukucinga nokuyeka, uqokelele amandla akho, ilizwe, izalamane kunye nabantwana besikhathi esizayo.