Iintshukumo zokuqala zesisu esisezantsi esiswini

Ukunyuka kokuqala komntwana kuqala kubo bonke abafazi abakhulelweyo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: umntu onyangeni ezine, umntu oneminyaka emihlanu. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukunyuka komntwana okunjalo kungabangela ukuba unomdla ongenamdla kumama wesikhathi esizayo, ngokokuqala babuthakathaka kakhulu, bengabonakali, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha bafumana ukuqhubeka kwabo. Zifana nokuhamba kwentlanzi e-aquarium, ihambisa iimfesane zayo, ichukumise iindonga ze-aquarium, i.e. sakho sisisu. Kwaye kuthi ukufuduka komntwana kufana nobungqina bomoya, obuqhutyelwa kwiindonga. Ziyafumaneka kwindawo esezantsi kwesisu. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, umama nomntwana okokuqala baziva beqhagamshelana, kunye nokuqala kokuthetha. Umama wesikhathi esizayo, ezi zivakalelo zikhokelela ekunandiseni into enokuzichaza. Umsebenzi womntwana wangaphakathi awuyi kukukhathaza. Uya kuthula phantsi, njengokungathi ulele ebuthongweni, ukusuka kwisigqi sakho semini, ngoko ngoko uzenze uzive. Ngokugqithiseleyo umfazi okhulelweyo wahamba, ngakumbi umntwana wagxotha ngaphakathi. Kodwa ukuba intombazana iyancipha, yenza uhlezi okanye uhlale ulala, kwaye umntwana ukhawuleze uqhube imilenze yakhe, uqhube umlenze kwisisu. Iigundane, iindlovu, yonke into iya kwizenzo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzeka ebusuku. Ingakumbi iphendulela ngokukhawuleza isiqhamo kwisitya osidlayo, umzekelo, ityhokolethi. Ukutya okunokutya kunokunokubangela ukuba umntwana angaboni kakuhle. Ngako oko, kunokwenzeka ukubiza umntwana ukuba ahambe. Yidla into emnandi, kwaye uza kubona ukuba umntwana uza kusabela njani kwinqwelo ekhoyo. Kodwa ngokutya okumnandi, ukutya okunesonka kunye notywala kukulungele ukukhawuleza, xa ufunde ngokukhulelwa kwakho. Ngelishwa, uxinzelelo kunye namava achaphazela ukuhamba komntwana ngaphakathi. Uziva u-adrenaline engena egazini likaMama, kwaye uqala ukuphazamiseka.

Yenza nini umsebenzi womntwana ekufikelelekeni kwindawo ephezulu?
Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzeka phakathi kweeveki ezingama-24 no-28. Kwaye emva kweveki ezingama-28 zomsebenzi ufumana ukuhlala isigxina. Amaxesha okuphumla nokuhamba komntwana aguqulwa. Ngokubanzi, soloko ucinga ngobuntu bomntwana. Ngamanye amaxesha ngumntwana ozolileyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unganasiphelo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvakalelwa ngokubetha isibindi sakho, xa uphantsi komzimba uza kubona i-tubercle ehlukileyo kwindawo yesibindi. Ngoko musa ukwesaba ukungahambi kwemfudu yomntwana. Unokuphinde ubale ukuba zininzi iintshukumo ngosuku lwentsana. Kufuneka ubale yonke into, nayiphi na imbonakalo yokuhamba komntwana. Kwiimitha ezili-10 kufuneka ujikeleze ukunyuka kwe-10 ngokuqhelekileyo. Ukuba oku akuzange kusebenze, kufuneka uhlalise, utshise ubisi olufudumele kunye nobusi, uze ubale kwakhona. Ukuba ungeke ubale, oku kungathetha ukuba ube neengxaki kwi-fetus, kufuneka uxelele ngokukhawuleza ugqirha wezilwanyana malunga nalo.

Ukuba umntwana uphakanyiswa ngamandla, njani ukuphendula?
Kwenzeka ukuba umntwana uyanyanzeliswa kakhulu, kwaye kubonakala ngathi le ntshukumo emlonyeni wesibeleko okanye umbhobho awuzange kwenzeke ngaphambili, kwaye uyothuswa. Ungakhathazeki! Umntwana ukhula kwaye uqina ngakumbi ngelixesha lokukhula lokukhula. Ngoko ke, umntu unokunyamezela intlungu, okanye utshintshe isikhundla somzimba. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukugula kwesibongo kunceda, njengento yokugula kwesantya esandula. Isiqhamo sishiya ibhalansi yayo kwaye siyeka ukukhaba.

Ukuba umntwana uphonswa kuyo yonke indawo, ngaba amawele?
Akunjalo rhoqo ukunyuka kwe-fetus kuthetha ngokukhulelwa okubanzi. Ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, kunokwenziwa kuphela ngumgulane wezilwanyana. Kwaye ezinokusola ezinokuthi zivele ngenxa yokunyuka kweengxaki zomntwana ngezithende, iintambo kunye namadolo. Emva kweveki ezingama-34 zokunyakaza umntwana uya kulungiswa ngakumbi, kuba umbele uya kunciphisa ukuhamba kwakhe ngaphakathi.