Yenza nini umsebenzi womntwana ekufikelelekeni kwindawo ephezulu?
Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzeka phakathi kweeveki ezingama-24 no-28. Kwaye emva kweveki ezingama-28 zomsebenzi ufumana ukuhlala isigxina. Amaxesha okuphumla nokuhamba komntwana aguqulwa. Ngokubanzi, soloko ucinga ngobuntu bomntwana. Ngamanye amaxesha ngumntwana ozolileyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unganasiphelo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvakalelwa ngokubetha isibindi sakho, xa uphantsi komzimba uza kubona i-tubercle ehlukileyo kwindawo yesibindi. Ngoko musa ukwesaba ukungahambi kwemfudu yomntwana. Unokuphinde ubale ukuba zininzi iintshukumo ngosuku lwentsana. Kufuneka ubale yonke into, nayiphi na imbonakalo yokuhamba komntwana. Kwiimitha ezili-10 kufuneka ujikeleze ukunyuka kwe-10 ngokuqhelekileyo. Ukuba oku akuzange kusebenze, kufuneka uhlalise, utshise ubisi olufudumele kunye nobusi, uze ubale kwakhona. Ukuba ungeke ubale, oku kungathetha ukuba ube neengxaki kwi-fetus, kufuneka uxelele ngokukhawuleza ugqirha wezilwanyana malunga nalo.
Ukuba umntwana uphakanyiswa ngamandla, njani ukuphendula?
Kwenzeka ukuba umntwana uyanyanzeliswa kakhulu, kwaye kubonakala ngathi le ntshukumo emlonyeni wesibeleko okanye umbhobho awuzange kwenzeke ngaphambili, kwaye uyothuswa. Ungakhathazeki! Umntwana ukhula kwaye uqina ngakumbi ngelixesha lokukhula lokukhula. Ngoko ke, umntu unokunyamezela intlungu, okanye utshintshe isikhundla somzimba. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukugula kwesibongo kunceda, njengento yokugula kwesantya esandula. Isiqhamo sishiya ibhalansi yayo kwaye siyeka ukukhaba.
Ukuba umntwana uphonswa kuyo yonke indawo, ngaba amawele?
Akunjalo rhoqo ukunyuka kwe-fetus kuthetha ngokukhulelwa okubanzi. Ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, kunokwenziwa kuphela ngumgulane wezilwanyana. Kwaye ezinokusola ezinokuthi zivele ngenxa yokunyuka kweengxaki zomntwana ngezithende, iintambo kunye namadolo. Emva kweveki ezingama-34 zokunyakaza umntwana uya kulungiswa ngakumbi, kuba umbele uya kunciphisa ukuhamba kwakhe ngaphakathi.