Ngaphambili, kwakucatshangwa ngokwaneleyo ukuba abazali abadingeki baphazamise kwaye bathathe inxaxheba kwimidlalo yabantwana, njengoko abantwana beqala ukudlala bona. Nangona kunjalo, eqinisweni, oku akunjalo nakwimeko. Uninzi lwa bantwana alukwazi ukudlala ngokwabo, kuba bengazi ukuba njani. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, akuqhelekanga kubazali kunye nabanonophelo bee-kindergartens ukuba bave izikhalazo ezinokukhawuleza ngokukrakra umntwana nangona amathoyizi enomdla kakhulu kunye nemibala, kwaye akwaziyo ukuba ayenze ntoni naye. Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukufundisa umntwana ukuba adlale?
Impendulo ingaba yinto engacacile: kuyimfuneko. Izifundo ezenziwe ngabafundi bezengqondo zibonisa ukuba umntwana ngokwakhe akayi kuqalisa ukudlala, umsebenzi wakhe wokudlala uza kubonakala phantsi kolawulo lwabazali, xa kuthengwa imidlalo edibeneyo nabo. Nguye omdala onokuyichazela umntwana ukuba athathe ithoyilo, yintoni enokuyenza ngayo, kwaye ibonisa iinjongo zomdlalo.
Kukuphi ukuqala ukufunda ukufunda umdlali webhokhwe? Ukuqala umntwana kufuneka ube nomdla. Unokubeka isicatshulwa esincinane phambi kwakhe, umzekelo, yondla idonsa, uyithabathe ukuhamba, ugibele ihashe, uhlambe kwaye uyibeke embhedeni. Ukuba inkunzi inomdla wokuthanda okanye inkcazo yefestile, ngoko unokuyifaka. Ungalibali ukuba imidlalo kunye nomntwana akufanele iphenduke ibe yimisebenzi. Musa ukucinga ukuba kuya kukwanela ukuba ubonise umntwana ukuba asebenze njani. Ukucetyiswa ukuba uphinde uyenze le nyathelo kuye, awuyi kufezekisa ukuba umntwana uthathwa ngumdlalo. Ukufezekisa le miphumo, umntu omdala kufuneka athathwe, ubonise iimvakalelo zangempela eziza kuba nomdla kumntwana.
Ngethuba lomdlalo, zama ukuhamba ngokusuka kwisenzo esinye ukuya kwesinye, usebenzise izinto zokucwangcisa. Umzekelo, "uMaska ulambile. Ukuze uyondle, kufuneka upheke iphariji. Masiqale sipheke i-porridge, size sondle iMaska. " Kwaye kunye kunye nomntwana ulungiselela iphariji ye-doll yaseMas, uze uyondle kunye. Ngoko umntwana uya kuba nokuqonda ukuba ezi zenzo zihambelana, kwaye ukusuka kwesenzo esinye sesibini silandela.
Ngethuba lo mdlalo weekhabhi, umntwana ngokuqhelekileyo uyazigxina ngezinye. Zama ukumchazela ukuba umntu unokuyakha indlu inja okanye enze i-crib ye doll.
Kukulungele ukuqala ukufundisa imidlalo yezingane kunye nezifundo ezifana neyona yangempela. Ekuphuculeni imidlalo kumabantwana, kufuneka uqale uqalise izinto zokutshintsha. Ngokomzekelo, ngexesha lomdlalo onododoli ofuna ukuwondla iinqathi zakhe. Khangela phakathi kwamanye amathoyizi, nangona akukho. Umntwana uya kukujonga ngokukhawuleza. Fumana nayiphi into enomxholo kwaye uthe ngovuyo: "Nantsi irotiji efunyenweyo!". Yizisa idonsa emlonyeni wakho uze uthi: "Yidla, Masha, i-carrot enhle kwaye inomnandi!". Njengomthetho, umntwana uyamangalisa kwaye uyonwabile, kodwa ukhawuleza ukuphinda zonke izenzo zakho.
Xa umntwana ephendulela unyaka, unokungena ngokuthe ngcembe kwizinto zemidlalo zokuyila, ezifaka isandla ekuphuhliseni ukucinga, ukucinga, ukukwazi ukulungelelanisa iifom zezinto ezahlukeneyo. Inzuzo enkulu inokuzisa iiseti ezahlukeneyo zokwakha. Xa umntwana ekhubeka ngokudlala ngendlela angayenza ngayo, ungammema ukuba akhe indlu inja, ifenitshala kunye nomshini wokwenza idoli ukusuka kwiikhabhi. Qalisa kwaye ufike ngamabali ahlukeneyo kwimiba efanayo. Akukhuthazwa ukwakha izakhiwo ezinkulu kunye ezinobunzima, ekubeni umntwana unako ukhathala ngumdlalo onjalo aze alahlekelwe intsingiselo yakhe. Akudingeki ukuba usebenzise ezininzi izinto ezahlukeneyo zomakhi, nje ezimbini okanye ezintathu, umzekelo umzekelo we-parallelepiped, i-cube kunye ne-prism. Umntwana akayi kuqonda amagama anzululwazi zezi zihloko, abayifunayo. Kwanele ukuba ubabiza ngokufana nezinto eziqhelekileyo eziqhelekileyo: ititena, i-cube, njl.
Ekupheleni kokudala, kucetyiswa ukuba uqalise izinto zokuziphatha kwimidlalo. Okokuthi, xa umntwana enza njalo, uyazibonakalisa njengomntu ohlukileyo kuye, umzekelo, utata, unina, ugqirha, njl. Kwiminyaka emibini ubudala, umntwana usenokungeniswa ngokuthe ngcembe kwezinye izikhundla zokudlala. Ngoko, ukubukela umdlalo wakhe, unokuthi: "Katya, uyondla intombi yakho njengomama!". La magama aya kuvumela intombazana ukuba ibhekise kwizenzo zakhe ngokungafaniyo.