Okokuqala, fundisa umntwana ukuba aphulaphule: ilizwi lakho elithulileyo nelizolileyo, izandi zesitalato, amahlathi, imilambo. Ukuhlala ebhentshini epakini elifanayo, unako ukubeka ingqalelo kwiimvuthu ekugqithweni kweebhayisikili ezihamba ngendleleni, ukubetha kwezithende, ukubetha inja, ukugubungela ikati ... Umntwana kufuneka ave ukukhwaza kweentaka, ukuvakala komoya kwiintsika zemithi, ukugquma kwamagqabi, umthi womthi, umkhonkwane wamaxoxo. Ukuba i-crumb isakhulumi kakuhle, kunye nesigama sakhe sincinci, dwelisa izandi ezivakalayo kwaye zichaze kwimibono enemibuzo! Nifumane umfanekiso webhayisekile ekhaya. Oku kuya kuba yinyathelo lokuqala ekuphuculeni izakhono zokuthetha.
Imigomo yokudlala
Ukubiza intetho yomntwana, simele sikhumbule ukuba le nkqubo isekelwe kwimvakalelo emihle kuphela. Ungamphoqeleli umntwana ukuba athethe, esebenzisa izibongozo ezinjengokuthi: "Ewe, yibize!" Ufanele ufune ukusho into kwaye uzibize yena. Abantu abadala kufuneka babonise umonde kunye nokucinga, "yenze imeko." Kufuneka sicinge ukuba inkqubo ye-nervous child is not strong. Ngoko ke, imidlalo, ngakumbi uqeqesho, kufuneka ihlale imizuzu eyi-10-20 (kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala). Ukukhathala komntwana kunokugwetywa ngokuziphatha kwakhe - i-whims, ukwenqaba ukulandela imiyalelo nokuthatha inxaxheba kumdlalo. Misa umdlalo uze ubuyele kuwo kamva.
Ibhola elincinci
Ngaba unqwenele ukuya elwandle? Sebenzisa yonke imizuzu endleleni yokuzonwabisa kunye nokufunda: funda ibhali, funda incwadi yesithombe, yenza umunwe ngomntwana. Abaninzi bayazi ukuba ukudlala ngesanti kususa ukukhathazeka kwengqondo, kunceda ukuphumla, kusebenze ingqondo. Ngoko ke, abazali benza ngokuhlakanipha, bengathathi nje iimpahla endleleni yabo, kodwa kunye neebhakethi, sovochki, spatulas. Ukunxibelelana kwabantwana kunye nesihlabathi - ukuthululela, ukufakela imodeli, poshlepyvanie iintendelezo zesanti ezimanzi-kukukhuthaza ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi. Ukunyakaza kweminwe kusebenze amaziko okuthetha kwi-cortex ye-cerebral. Kukho isiqalo esikude, amaziko aqala ukusebenza kumgangatho oqhelekileyo, kwaye umntwana unentetho. Ukukhawuleza ukubonakala kwayo nokuthatha inxaxheba yakho. Ukuba ilwandle elincinci, ilitye elifudumalayo - umfanisi omkhulu weminwe yomntwana. Yichitha itye elifudumele entendeni, iminwe yeemvuthu, uhlambulule iimfestile zazo ngamacwecwe. Ngoku-umntwana ngokwakhe "uhlamba" iindwangu phakathi kweentende zezandla zakhe, ukhathele, kukuvumela ukuzanyazanyiswa ngezandla eziliqela ngezandla zezandla ezikhululekile, kwaye emva kwexesha unokubonisa i-crane, okokuqala ubonisa ukuba i-crumb indlela yokwakheka kwesinye isalathisi kunye nesicatshulwa somnwe wesandla sokunene ibambe iqhosha elifanelekileyo kwaye likhokele ngqo kwibhakethi. Umsebenzi ofanayo kunye nesithupha ufanele ujikelele kunye neminye iminwe yesandla (ngakwesobunxele nakwesobunxele) Ngoku ke vumela zonke izinto ziphinda ziphindaphinda iimvuthu, kwaye uhamba nomdlalo ngamazwi athando.Umntwana ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu uqala kuphela kwimidlalo edibeneyo apha.
Abahlobo Abakhulu
Abafazi ba namhlanje (kunye ngamanye amaxesha!) Musa ukucinga ubomi babo ngaphandle kwemoto. Bavuma ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba baphumule, behleli evili okanye basebenza egaraji. Ngaba ucinga ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emithathu ukuya kwisixhenxe angeke akwazi ukufikelela kule holide? Uphosakele! Akayi kuphazamisa ukuba uyamnika i-bolt enkulu kwaye umcele ukuba ajike i-nut efanelekileyo (washer) kuyo. Ixesha lokuba uqale injini: ubaba usemotweni kwaye umntwana ukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza: "R-rr ..." Ngoku ngoku - endleleni! Dita ukhuselwe ngokusesikweni kwisitulo sabantwana? Emva koko ungamnika umsebenzi: "Biza yonke into uya kuphawula ngaphandle kwewindow, andinakukhangela, ndibona kuphela indlela! " Umntwana uya kuthokoza ngokukhawuleza ukuluhlu lweempawu kunye nemibala yeemoto, iziganeko zendlela kunye nezinto ezibonwayo. Ngaba akunakwenzeka ukulungisa isichazamazwi nokuphosa isandi? Ukuncintisana nomsebenzi kwaye usebenzise umbala webala lomqhubi wexesha elizayo: "Shayela kuphela imbala eluhlaza (imbala ebomvu, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka)." Nangona umntwana oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala, kunzima kakhulu ukudibanisa iinombolo kunye nezibizo! Nazi iimeko ezintle kakhulu zokwandisa isigama kunye nokusebenza kwinkqubo yokusetyenziswa kwegrama umntwana anganika ukuphumla okuhlangeneyo kwigaraji okanye kwimoto.
Ukukhangela amagama!
Iinjongo ezifanayo zihanjiswa ngamanye imidlalo: "Khangela izinto ezijikelezayo," "Khumbula amagama amnandi," "Nguwaphi amagama afihliweyo ehlathini (emlanjeni, emanzini)?" "Khangela usawoti (omnandi, omuncu, onobukrakra, ococekileyo, omnandi) magama ". Ukukhethwa kwamagama kunye nencazelo echaseneyo kuya kuvuyisa umdlalo "Ngokuchaseneyo." Utsho igama, kwaye umntwana uthabatha enye ngentsingiselo echaseneyo.