Xa umntu esengumncinci omncinci kwaye omncinci, umnqophiso wokufunda iincwadi uwela kumahlombe kwabazali bakhe. Indima ebalulekileyo kule nkqubo idlala ngokufunda iincwadi kubantwana ebusuku.
Abantwana kunye neencwadi
Ngoku, malunga nokuzalwa, umntwana uhamba kunye nencwadi. Ekuqaleni, ziincwadi zeeplastiki ezinemifanekiso elula, iincwadi ezibalabala zekhadibhodi, ngoko ke iincwadi eziqhelekileyo ezinefonti enkulu, kunye neencwadi zokudala eziphambili ezinefayile eprintiweyo eneemifanekiso emfutshane.
Kumntwana kunye nencwadi iqhubekile ukuhamba kunye nobomi bonke, kufuneka usebenze kuyo. Khuthaza uthando lwencwadi ukususela ebuntwaneni bokuqala: uthenge iincwadi kumntwana, iimbongo ezifundwayo, iimvumi ze-nurseries, iindumiso. Vumela ukutyelela iincwadi zokuthenga kunye nokuthenga iincwadi ezintsha kuza kuba yeholide yentsapho kunye nesithethe.
Ukuba unomprojekti omdala wefilimu kunye neefrimu zefilimu, eli lixesha elihle lokufaka umntwana wakho uthando lokufunda. Ndizikhumbule mna ukuba mna nabazali bam besilulela ishidi elimhlophe kumakhethini, baphuma izibane baze baxhamla kwihlabathi elithambileyo lokubukela nokufunda iifilimu zezingane kunye neenganekwane.
Musa ukulibala malunga nenkcubeko yokuphatha le ncwadi! Ukuthintela nayiphi na indlela yo "calulo" le ncwadi: Musa ukuvumela ukuba udwebe iincwadi, uchithe iincwadi uze uziphose phantsi, ufundise umntwana ukuba agcine zonke iincwadi ngokulandelelana, ebonisa umzekelo wakhe wokuziphatha encwadini.
Kutheni sifunda iincwadi kubantwana ebusuku?
Umntwana nomama, umntwana kunye nobawo - oku kukuxhamla komntwana kunye nabazali, enikezelwe ngendalo. Uqhagamshelwano olusondeleyo, zomzimba kunye nengqondo, phakathi koomama nomntwana wakhe kulungiswe ngexesha lokuncelisa, kwaye ubuthongo obusana obumnandi bubulungelwe ngeli xesha ngumama wamamala. Ilizwi likaMama, elimnene nelomthonyama, lihamba nomntwana ukususela ekuqaleni kwexesha lobomi bakhe. Emva kokupheliswa kokuncelisa kwaye xa ingoma yeLlalaby iphela, abazali abaninzi bayakulibala ngokugcina uxhulumano olunzulu phakathi kwabo nomntwana. Izwi likaMama lidla ngokuqala ukuthatha indawo yombono wekhathuni, kwaye igama lomzali onobubele, lincinane liba isipho esinqabileyo. Uqhagamshelwano nomntwana luphendulela ngokuyinhloko kulwimi lwemiyalelo kunye nokuthintela: "hlamba izandla", "udlale", "jonga imifanekiso" ... Ubomi bomsebenzi obushukumisayo kunye neemeko zobomi banamhlanje bahlukanisa abazali kunye nabantwana babo komnye. Ngoko ke, abazali abazilumko nabathandekayo bafanele baqonde ukunxibelelana nomntwana, okuvumela ukuqinisa ubudlelwane nomntwana.
Nanku kuza kuza kunceda ukufunda iincwadi kubantwana ebusuku? Kutheni ubusuku? Apha ungakwazi ukubona izizathu ezininzi zexesha elikhethiweyo elifanelekileyo lokufunda:
- Ixesha ngaphambi kokuba kulala ixesha apho wonke umntu sele ekhululekile kwiinkxalabo zemihla ngemihla. Ngako oko, le yithuba elikhethwe ngempumelelo kwimihla yokudala umoya othembekileyo phakathi kwabazali kunye nomntwana, luhlobo lwesithethe sentsapho olunikezelwe kwisizathu esivakalayo, ukunxibelelana, ukubonakaliswa kokubambisana nothando nokuvisisana.
- Ukufunda kubantwana ngobusuku kukuqhubeka kwe-lullaby, eyazalisekisa umsebenzi wokuqhawula, kodwa ngokudala kudlulele kwelinye, phezulu, inyathelo.
- Ngombulelo wokufunda iincwadi zobusuku ngabazali, umntwana ulele kakuhle kwaye alele ngephupha elimnandi, ngenxa yemvakalelo efunyenweyo.
- Umoya wasemanzini ngokwawo uyancipha, ngoko ukufunda iincwadi ngelo xesha kwenza kube lula ukuqonda oko kuvezwe kwaye kuncedisa ekwakheni iimvakalelo ezintle, kwaye ngenxa yoko - amaphupha amnandi.
Uthando lokufunda
Abazali abaninzi bayakhalaza ukuba umntwana wabo akafuni ukufunda iincwadi, ukulibala ngexesha elifanayo ukuba uthando lokufunda lufanele kwaye lufanele lufundiswe. Ukufunda iincwadi kubantwana ngobusuku kuyindlela efanelekileyo nefanelekileyo yokudala uthando kwiincwadi kwixesha elizayo. Kuphela ngoku, ukuba ilahlekile ithuba, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kubamba. Ngako oko, ukufunda iincwadi kubalulekile xa umntwana ngokwakhe engakwazi ukufunda okuningi.
Iingxelo zefeyibhile zobusuku okanye unyango lwengqondo
"Inkohlakalo yamanga, kodwa isichaso kuyo, isifundo kubazalwana abalungileyo", - yakhunjulwa ngokukhawuleza kwingcamango yeenganekwane. Ukufunda abantwana ngeengxelo zobomi bobusuku yindlela efanelekileyo yokukhupha nokulala. Ulwaphulo lwamaqhinga e-Fairy luzibonakalise kakuhle kumaxesha amandulo. Ukufunda ibali lefestile kuyisisityebi esihle sokwenza i-psyche kunye nokuqonda kwehlabathi malunga nomntwana, sisixhobo esibalulekileyo ekuphuhlisweni kwangaphambili, kunye nento ebalulekileyo yomsebenzi wemfundo.
Ukufunda iindaba zeenkcukacha, ukuxoxa ngezenzo kunye nezenzo zamagosa asebenzayo, kunye nokucabangela ukuqhubeka kwamabali kuncedisa ukuphuhliswa kobulumko kwengqondo yomntwana. Ulwaphulo lwetale ubusuku buyisibhambathiso sokulala kakuhle komntwana ongenasiphelo. Into ephambili kukuba ufunde ukuthabatha inkunzi kunye nokumenza abe nomdla kwiva.
Imithetho yokufunda iincwadi kubantwana
Ukuze ufunde ukuzisa kunye nenzuzo yangempela, umntu kufuneka alandele imithetho elula kodwa ebalulekileyo:
- Ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni ukuphulaphula, ngoko akudingeki ukuba uyinyanzele, njengoko oku akunakukwenza okulungileyo. Ukufunda ngokubhaliweyo kweencwadi kufuneka kuvelise uvuyo olukhulu, kwaye kungabi ngumthwalo ongenakubekezeleka.
- Musa ukusebenzisa kakubi ixesha! Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abancinci bephakathi kweminyaka enye ukuya kweyithathu bafunda umyinge wemaminithi elineshumi, kwiminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemihlanu - imizuzu eyi-15-20 ngomqolo. Ndifuna ukuphawula ukuba ezi ziyingqinisiso eziphakathi, kodwa kungengamanani. Kufuneka ulungelelanise neemfuno zomntwana wakho.
- Ukufunda incwadi yomntwana ebusuku kufanele kube yinto evuyisayo. Ukuba uzenza ufunde ukuzalisekisa isicwangciso sohla ngemihla, oku akuyi kuzisa umntwana wakho. Kuyaziwa ukuba umntwana unentlonelo kwiimvakalelo zabazali bakhe, ngoko ukufunda incwadi kufuneka kwenzeke ngeemeko ezintle kwaye kufuneka kuvelise injabulo enkulu.
- Xa ukhetha iincwadi, khokelwa ziintetho zomntwana wakho.
- Ungakhethi iincwadi ezibuhlungu ezinomdla.
- Ukufunda zonke iincwadi zentsuku kumntwana wakho, unika isandla ekwandiseni ulwazi lwakhe nesigama.
- Kunconywa ukuba ufunde iincwadi ngabazali bobabini, obangela ukuba kube nokuqhagamshelana okufutshane kwengqondo kunye nomama kunye noyise.
- Funda le ncwadi ngokukhawuleza, ngokucacileyo, uzame kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabalinganiswa kunye nemeko.
- Ungayifaki indawo yokufunda ngokubukhoma kunye "neencwadi ezilalelwayo" ezingenampilo.
Ngoko, esikhundleni se-lullaby
Xa ixesha leellabi liphelile, xa umncinci sele esele mdala kwaye andincedisi kakhulu ekubunjweni nasekuhlanganisweni kokuthintana okufutshane kumnxeba "ongumama-onyana", inkqubo yokufunda iincwadi kubantwana idlala. Ukunika unxibelelwano olunjalo lomntwana nomntwana wakho kuphela kwimini engama-20 ukuya kwimizuzu engama-30 ngosuku, uhlwayela ingqolowa yohlobo olucocekileyo noluthembekileyo nomntwana wakho kwikamva elikude.