Indlela yokudonsa umntwana kude kwikhompyutha

Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokubanzi kwabantwana abaneemidlalo zeekhompyutheni ezixhalaba ngabazali, kunye noogqirha kunye nootitshala. Umntwana uyeka ukutya, ukusela nokuthetha - akayi kufikelela kuyo, akanalo zonke izilo ezibuleweyo. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo kunye nendlela 'yokudonsa' umntwana kwiseskrini yamehlo?


Ukuqonda oko ikhompyutha ekhangayo kubantwana, kuyafaneleka ukuqala ngokwakho. Ukuphelelwa ngumlinganiselo wesonka sohla ngemihla, asikwazi ukuthobela ingqalelo unyana wethu okanye intombi, kodwa kubaluleke ngaphezu kwesi sinkwa. Ngaphandle kokulinda ukunxibelelana nabantu abaphilayo, umntwana uphendukela kwisimo esiphilayo, esichaphazelekayo kubazali kuba ihlala ilungele ukuba "yenze inkampani".

Isantya esi saziyo esenzeka kakhulu kunesivinini sokuqonda, sithetha, imigaqo yesiRashiya, kunye nemidlalo yekhomputha kunye namagama angabonakaliyo "AmaHlathi" kunye nokuthi "Ukunqotshwa kweMelika" kukungena ngokugqithiseleyo ebomini bomntwana wakho. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza uyifumana kwideskiti kwakhona "I-Course Informatics Course", musa ukukhawuleza ujabule: uhlobo oluthile lweencwadi zezifundo lusetyenziswa ukuba lube yindawo yokutshiza itiye.

Mhlawumbi, omnye wabazali uyaziqhayisa ngethemba lokuba, ukwenza abahlobo kunye nekhomputha, kwikamva uza kuba ngumprofeti onobuchule.

Ngenanto: kude nayo. zonke iitalente ezincinci zikwazi ukunikela ngokuzikhethela ukuzonwabisa ngokuphathelele iiklasi, nokuba kukho ikhompyutha.

Nkosi yehlabathi

Imidlalo yekhompyutha inikezela ngomntwana ithuba lokuba yinto engasayi kuba nayo ebomini: amandla okukhokela kunye nokukhokela kweso siganeko. Ukhula kakhulu emehlweni akhe, kuba kungekhona nje ngokuthatha inxaxheba kumdlalo wezemidlalo, kodwa ngolawulo olupheleleyo.

Indlela inkqubo eya kuqhubela phambili ixhomekeke kuphela kwiminqweno yeqhosha lebhokisi. Umdlalo uba ngumlinganiso wobomi boqobo, apho incinci ixhomekeke kumntwana. Njengengeniso yengqondo, utshintsho lweendima luyimfuneko kunoma yimuphi umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uneminyaka engakanani.

Ukongezelela, iifayile eziphezulu zeempawu zinika umntwana ingqiqo ye-100% yenyaniso. Kodwa eminye imigaqo yomdlalo wekhomputha, umzekelo, isisombululo esisingathayo nayiphi na imibuzo ngomgca wokuzenzekelayo, inokunika umntwana ingcamango yokuba lo mzekelo wokuziphatha usebenza ebomini.

Kakade, iqondo lokumkelwa kunye nokuzinza kwengqondo kubo bonke abantwana lihlukile, kodwa kunengqiqo kuba abazali bambi banomdla kumxholo weemidlalo. Inxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu kukuphulaphula ibali ngokuzinikezela ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nekratshi ngokuqonda okumangalisayo kunye nentsha, ukufaka ngokukhawuleza kwingxoxo nabo ngamagama afana ne-warcraft kunye ne-counter-strike.

Ukulwa akunamsebenzi

Enyanisweni, asikwazi ukuphepha kule nto yokuzonwabisa kubantwana bethu. Ikhompyutheni ifike ebomini bethu kwaye iya kuhlala kuyo, nokuba siyayithanda okanye ayiyi. Imimoya embi, imvula kunye ne-slush, kwakhona, musa ukusinika uvuyo olukhethekileyo, kodwa sithatha i-ambulera size sihambe sitrato. Ngenxa yoko isigqibo: ukuzabalaza akunakuncedo, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukulawula.

Omnye wabahlobo bam, ekuphelelweni kweengxabano, waqala ukuthatha imouse naye ukuba asebenze. Le yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma, kuba umntwana unokuhlala ehamba kumhlobo onomzali ongenako ukukwazi ukwenza izinto ezinje. Omnye umhlobo wam, intatheli, akasishiyi umntwana kunye nethuba lokuhlala kwikhompyutha ixesha elide - uhlale ehleli emva kwakhe.

Zama ukunika unyana wakho okanye intombi ethile imiyalelo eyenzekayo kuye, umzekelo, malunga nendlu, emva koko unembeza othulile (ukuba unesiqiniseko sokuba khona kwayo), unokuhlala phantsi kumdlalo. Ukuba ugogo wakho uphila, uya kubeka iliso kwinkqubo ngeveki.

Kodwa musa ukuthembela kakhulu kwi-consciousness, kwaye ekuqaleni, xa uthenge ikhomputha, musa ukukhangela kwi-monitor efanelekileyo: iingxaki zombono ziza kubiza. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahlawule ngamehlo, umzekelo, gxuma kwaye uphendule abafundi kuqala kwiindlela ezihlukeneyo, uze ukhuphuke uze uhla. Ukuhlawula umva - emva koko konke, ukuhlala kwithuba, apho umntwana ehlala khona iiyure, "yimeko ehlaselayo".

Funda, umzekelo, ukusetyenziswa "ikati inomsindo": ukuma kuzo zonke iine, zinciphisa intloko xa ujikeleza umva wakho, hlala njalo malunga nemizuzwana emi-5 ukuya kwimizuzu engama-5 ukuya kwimizuzu engama-5 ukuya kwimizuzu, uze uphakamise intloko yakho uze uyibuyise kakuhle. Phinda uphuke, kodwa kungekho ngaphantsi kwama-5-6 amaxesha.

Ikhofu okanye umhlobo omhle

Ngoku masicinge ukuba sifeze umsebenzi obunzima kakhulu - kwithuba elithile salikrazula umntwana esikrinini. Kuhleli ukuba sicinge ngoko sinokukunika umntwana ngokubuyisela. Masijamelane nayo: akukho phantse yezemidlalo ekhululekile.

Mhlawumbi isitrato? Kodwa isitrato apho thina esinomphefumlo ozolileyo sibavumela abazali bakhe ukuba bangabikho. Kwaye "kwiintsuku ezindala" kwakungenakufana neZiko leNgcwazana leMasideni, namhlanje liye latshutshisa ngakumbi kwaye liyabulala - kungekhona kwintsingiselo, kodwa ngentsingiselo ecacileyo yegama.

Akumangalisi ukuba abaninzi bethu bathanda ukuba abantwana bachitha ixesha elingakumbi ekhaya: vumela umntwana ahlale kwikhompyutheni engcono kunama-paddles ngokusebenzisa amasango. Isangqa sivaliwe?

Ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ukusebenza kule nqaku, ndagqiba kwelokufumana ulwazi oluvela emlonyeni wokuqala: Ndabuza unyana wam oneminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu ukuba ngaphandle kokuphela kwehlabathi wayenokumnqumla ekunxibelelaneni nezilwanyana. Umbuzo wabamba umntwana ngokumangalisa, kwaye wathi kufuneka acinge. Kodwa umyeni, umxhasi weendlela zezemfundo yamatritari, waphendula ngokukhawuleza: "I-cuff."

Ingcamango yokuba kungenzeka ukusebenzisa amandla asemzimbeni ayicaphukisa indodana yakhe, kodwa yakhawuleza inkqubo yokucinga. "Izifundo kunye nezinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi," waguqa, wajonga phantsi. Ndandidla iinyembezi zentlungu! Kodwa, ukugweba ngokuqikelelwa koyikekayo kwidayari, izifundo sele zingaphambili kuqala.

Ndayifuna inyaniso, kungakhathaliseki ukuba buhlungu kangakanani. Ndiyathanda ukuba andizange ndiyenze-enye indlela eya kwikhompyutheni yayisithuthuthu! Ngaloo busuku, unyana wam wenyuka kum ngamazwi athi: "Mama, ndiyazi ukuba ndiyakuthatha indawo yekhompuyutha -zihlobo ezilungileyo!" Mhlawumbi, le nto iyona ndlela ikhetele ...

Isiqwenga se-gingerbread asinakulimaza

Shayela umntwana ngencoko eyimfihlo. Ungamxinzezeli - uya kusebenza ngenhlanhla. Kungcono ukumnceda ukuba aqaphele ukuba yonke into ineemida ezinengqiqo, ukuba ungamvumeli ukuba enze oko akuthandayo, kodwa nje ufuna ukuba angabandakanyeki kuphela kule nto. Mxelele ukuba unoyolo lokuba unomdla wokuzonwabisa (nangona ukuba akunjalo ngokwenene), kodwa kukho izinto ezininzi ezithandekayo kwihlabathi.

Mhlawumbi uza kufumana iimfuno zakho kunye kunye nokuqonda oko umntwana wakho akuthandayo. Ngokomzekelo, kwingxoxo kunye noNikita oneminyaka eyi-14 ubudala, kwavela ukuba le nkwenkwe iphosa ukwazi imoto, eyamangalisa uyise, inomdla-mlilo onolwazi: wayengabonakali uthando olukhulu lwekhnoloji kumntwana wakhe.

Kodwa abazali baphulaphule, kwaye ukususela ngaloo ndlela, kwigalaji kayise, uNicita akachitha ixesha elingaphantsi kwelokulandela umlindi. Kwaye omnye umtshini wekhompyutheni wathunyelwa ehlobo ... kwiinkampu zekhompyutha. Unina wenkwenkwe wagqiba ekubeni ubuncinane bayiya kumfundisa ukuba aqonde umatshini onzima okanye ongeyinto yokudlala. Kodwa umntwana osemva "uzalisekile umsebenzi" kwaye akafundile kuphela ukulungiselela inkqubo, kodwa wafumana nomhlobo ohlalayo, ohlala khona.

Inqaku kumntwana okwenza isigqibo sokugqibela, ngokuqinisekileyo, siya kuhlala naye kwaye ungathandabuzeki kuyo yonke into echanekileyo yokukhetha kwakhe. Ingqungquthela ye-gingerbread ayizange imonakalise nabani na, kwaye isibhobho ebomini bakhe sininzi.

"Londoloza imiphefumlo yethu!"

Nangona kunjalo, uMtyholi akayikwesabisa njengoko epeyinwe. Ikhompyutheni iqhuma kwinto efana nenkukhu, enoba phantse sonke sasiyilwelwe ngumntwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mnandi kakhulu kule nto, kodwa akukho mntu usenako ukutshintsha ikhondo lemvelo leemeko. Nangona kunjalo, ngamandla ethu ukwenza eso sifo sihambe ngaphandle kweengxaki. Kwaye, nantoni na into ongayithethayo, kuya kuthatha ixesha kunye nomonde, esihlala sisweleyo.

Yilowo nalowo wabazali makakhethe. Sisoloko sifuna ukutshintsha iindawo ezizungezile (kwaye kulula kangakanani ukubeka iimbulumathi kubantwana!), Kwaye baninzi banqwenela ukutshintsha. Siye sazixhamla kwaye sinokufumana izizathu eziliwaka zezi. Kodwa akukho mithwalo yobomi kulungele ukuguqulwa kwethu ibe yimishini yokufumana imali. Kwaye inyaniso yokuba imoto yaba yinto engcono kakhulu yokubanxibelelana nabantwana abaninzi, sisiphoso sethu. Ngenxa yokuba ingxaki yekhompuyutha inxalenye yengxaki "yooyise nabantwana."

Sonke sifanele sicinge malunga nokuba kutheni abantwana nabaninzi bakhetha ukunyaniseka kwenyaniso kunye nokubuyisela uxhulumaniso oluqhagamshelwano kunye noqhagamshelwano. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba umntwana uloyiko ukuba anqatshelwe kwaye akaqondiswanga kwaye unxibelelwano olungqinileyo luba yithuba elilodwa lokungahlali linye? Ngaba sikwazi ukudala indlela engokoqobo kule "non-volatile" kunye nonxibelelwano olungenangqondo?

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba sithatha kuphela iimpazamo zomntwana ngokunyanisekileyo njengethu, kwaye siyaziqonda njengoko kunjalo. Thina, bazali, sikhohliwe ukuba nathi ngokwethu singabalingani kwimidlalo, kunye nezixhobo zokufundisa ezibonakalayo. Ngokuchanekileyo, ukhokelo olululo malunga nesihloko esithi "Ubomi."