Ngaba kufanelekile ukufunda umdwebo womntwana?
Kukho amanqaku embono kulo mbandela. Okokuqala, sinokuthi bonke abantwana banamacwecwe abanobuchule, kuba bayazi ukudala! Bawubhenca oko bakuvakalelwa, kungekhona into ehamba ngayo. Kwaye ukuba unika umntwana ukuba abe sesikolweni, unokutshabalalisa lo mdali kuyo. Esikolo baya kufundisa indlela yokuyibeka, kuba ukudweba kunemithetho kunye nobuchule, kodwa umntwana uya kutshabalalisa lo mdali. Into emele yenziweyo ukunika umntwana izixhobo eziyimfuneko ekudwebeni kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ayisebenzise njani - iipende, ipensela, amanqaku, njl., Kufunekakile ukuchazela umntwana ukuba iindonga kunye nekhaphethi akufanele zifakwe peyinti, kuba oku kukho isiqephu samaphepha.
Enye inguqu ukuthumela umntwana wakho ezandleni zengcali. Kodwa ngaba kufuneka kwenziwe le nto? Kwiziko lobugcisa kukho inkqubo yoqeqesho oluthile, kodwa akusoloko ilungele umntu onikeziweyo, emva koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba intsana ayiyi kufezekiswa ngempumelelo ngokusebenzisa icebo eliphuhlisiwe. Ukuyila kukucinga komntu, indlela yokudala kunye nombono wakhe wento eyenzekayo, kwaye esikolweni umntwana akayi kuba nemvakalelo yakhe, uya kubhala kuphela oko kufuneka ukuba.
Kukho umzekelo omnye umama owabelane naye umnika umntwana kwisikolo sabaculi. Iingcali zazizintle kakhulu, abaninzi bamdumisa njengomculi wenene. Kwisifundo sokuqala wathi ukudweba umntwana indlu encinane, isifundo esilandelayo sinye, kuphela ixesha lonyaka kufuneka libe yintsasa. Kwimisebenzi nganye kwakufuneka ukuba udibanise indlu enye, kodwa kuphela ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo kunye neminyaka. Xa umntwana sele esele atyhile, wancoma ukuba enze utshintsho kwaye wathi kwakunokwenzeka ukudweba umzila, kwaye ukukhwela kwayo kwafika ngehashe. Uthisha akayithandanga lesi siphakamiso, njengoko kuvele, baya kubamba abantu emva kweminyaka emithathu yoqeqesho.
Ngoko kutheni umnciphisa umntwana wakho? Ngaba uya kuvuyela ezi zifundo? Emva koko, uya kuhlala ebonisa indlela kunye nokokuyiyo. Kwaye kuthekani ngobuchule? Naliphi na umntwana kufuneka aqeqeshwe kumatshini okudweba. Kodwa ukuba umntwana unendlela yakhe, mhlawumbi akufanele kukhishwe kwi-studio yobugcisa. Kukulungele ukufumana utitshala ongenakuzibeka iingcamango zakhe kumntwana, kodwa uvule amehlo akhe kwihlabathi. Inkosi kufuneka ibone umntwana kuwo wonke amehlo ize imncede ukuba ikhule kwinqanaba lokudala, fundisa umculo ukudala nokuba ngumdali wangempela. Umntwana kufuneka abe nomphefumleli wakhe kunye nootitshala.
Umbuzo oyintloko: ukunika umntwana ubugcisa okanye ukufundisa ekhaya?
Ingane ithanda ukudweba kakhulu kwaye uyayithanda. Imidwebo ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ngoko kufuneka uqale ukuqeqesha umntwana wakho. Kodwa kufuneka uzinike esikolweni?
Ukwenza isikolo kubaculi akulula. Lo msebenzi omkhulu kunye noqeqesho olunzulu. Kuya kubakho ezimbini okanye kathathu ngeveki ukuthabatha umntwana eklasini, kwaye zihlala malunga nama-3-4 iiyure. Indlela yokufundisa eyahlukileyo kwizikolo ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye umntwana udla ukwenza izinto ezininzi ngokuthi "Andifuni." Ngaphazamisekanga, uya kukraba yonke into kwishedyuli kwaye enze enye imisebenzi yasekhaya.
Ukuba umntwana unomdla kakhulu ekudwebeni aze azibone kwixesha elizayo, enxulumene nalo msebenzi, ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka anikezelwe esikolweni. Emva kwesiqingatha sonyaka woqeqesho, ungabona iziphumo zomntwana. Ukongeza kweso sikolo kukho ezinye iiklasi. Unokubhenela kwiinkonzo zezifundo zobugcisa ezahlukeneyo, izibonda zokudala abantwana, kukho ezinye iqoqo eziza kunceda umntwana akhule ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ukuze ukhethe i-studio ye-studio efanelekileyo, izinto ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo zibalulekile:
- Fundisisa zonke izinto malunga nomfundisi kunye nale studio yobugcisa. Kufanelekile ukuthetha nootitshala ngabanye. Kuyafaneleka ukubuza ukuba zithini iindlela ootitshala abasebenzisa ngazo, ukuba iiklasi ziqhutyelwe njani kwaye zimele zilindele ntoni kumntwana kwixesha elizayo. Ukuba umculi wonke uhamba nge-nasamotec, kuya kuba njalo, kwaye ungamniki umntwana ezandleni zakhe. Le yithuba nje nemali.
- Kuyafaneleka ukufunda umsebenzi wabafundi be-studio. Ngokuqhelekileyo banokugweba izinto ezinokulindela ukusuka kwiklasi baze babone isitayela esiqhelekileyo somyalelo. Emva koko wenze isigqibo sokuba ufuna umntwana ukuba abe ngenye yazo. Lo ngumsebenzi onzima kunokuba usombulula ubuninzi ebomini bomntwana wakho. Nangona umsebenzi wabafundi wenza kakuhle kwaye awukwazi ukuxelela iteknoloji yokuba basengabantwana, oku kubonisa kuphela ukudideka kootitshala. Ubeka ubuchule bakhe kubantwana. Siyazi kakuhle imifanekiso emininzi yabafundi babaculi abadumile ... Kodwa emva koko, wonke umntu kufuneka abe ne-special twist. Kuyafana nokupenda. Wonke umntwana kufuneka abe nomsebenzi wakhe wokudweba.
Ukuba ulungile ekudwebeni, ngoko kutheni ungafundisi abantwana bakho ukuba badonse? Ukuba awukwazi ukuqala, ungafunda izinto zokuqeqesha zabaculi abancinci. Ngoku kukho iincwadi ezininzi ezinomdla eziza kunceda kule sifundo. Abazali banokufundisa amaqabane abo izinto ezinomsebenzi ngakumbi kunomntu ongaziwayo. Iiklasi zaseKhaya zihlala zihamba nge-bang. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukugcina impahla kunye nezinto eziyimfuneko (iphepha, iipende, iibhothi, njl.) Kwaye uqale uqeqesho lwakho lwasekhaya!
Kukho ukuphazamiseka apha. Emva koko, akuyi kubakho iqela labantwana elenza abantwana, yingako abazali abaninzi bathumela umntwana wabo esikolweni. Emva koko, apho unokufumana abahlobo bakhe ngezinto ezithandwayo. Ngoko ngamnye umzali makanqume oko kubalulekile kumntwana wabo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba uphuhliso lwamacebo aluthinteli mntu ebomini!