Movement
Uhambo luphila! Kwaye ngomntwana - oku kusemzimbeni wendalo. Ngethuba ukhangele iikhathuni / ukuhanjiswa, inkqubo ye-muscular isekweni (esiqingqiweyo). Yaye ihlala kuyo de kube umntwana ehleli phambi kwesikrini esibhakabhaka. Kule ndawo, izibilini zomzimba kunye nezibhloko zingabonakala, kwaye ukuba umntwana ubukela ngokusesikweni iTV kwi-posture engafanelekanga okanye i-TV kunye "nesitulo" kungekho isimo somzimba, umntwana usemngciphekweni kunye nokuphuhliswa okuqhelekileyo kwenkqubo ye-osseous. Kwaye ungamangaleli ngoko-scoliosis yindlalifa yakho kumfundisi wesikolo, owambeka kwindawo engafanelekanga. Umphumo wesibini wesigxina seembono ezinde ixesha elide linokubangela uxolo kunye nokugwenxa. Ngoko inkqubo ye-nervous iyenzela ukunyanzeliswa kokunyanzeliswa komsebenzi okwandisiweyo. Okanye, ngokulandelelana, emva kwetelesi yesithuba esithile, umntwana uyathinteka ngempendulo - oku kubangelwa utshintsho kwi-consciousness, trance.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Ukuba ukutshintshwa, ngokwenene, okuthakazelisayo, ikhefu rhoqo kwiintengiso (kuthatha ikota yesasazo!) Ingasetyenziselwa njengemoto yokuyeka. Dlala kunye nomntwana okanye umnike ezinye iindwendwe zendlu. Oku kuya kunciphisa ukuxhatshazwa kwemisipha.
Intetho
Ixesha elongezelelwe kwi "bhokisi", ngaphantsi kwelokuba lixubane nabazali, abahlobo, izilwanyana. Abantwana abachitha iiyure ezingaphezu kweesithathu ngosuku malunga neTV, oogqirha bathi ukulibazisa ukuphuhlisa intetho. Isizathu kukuba, bakholelwa, ukuba ingqondo yengqondo yomntwana xa ibukela ukusasaza ijoliswe ngakumbi ekugqibeleni kunokuba ibhengezwe. Uphando olutsha luye lwabonisa ukuba kulula ukuba abantwana bafumane oko bakuvile kunokuba babone. Ukuba umntwana oneminyaka eyi-1000 ubudala ubukela iTV ngeyure enye imihla, umngcipheko wokukhathazeka kweememiselo ukwanda ngo-10%, bathi abantwana baseMelika babantwana. Ngokwezibalo, abantwana abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-mibini bachitha kwi-TV ngaphezu kweeyure ezili-10 ngeveki! Kwama-20% ekuhloliseni iimvumba ezinyangeni zenyanga ezithoba, abazali babo basebenzisa iTV njengomntwana, oogqirha bafumana ukulibaziseka ekuphuculeni ngokomzimba. Ukuba i-TV ayifuni, abaninzi abantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 bahlehla emva kokuphuhliswa kwabo kunyaka wonke, oko kukuthi, bathetha njengabantwana abaneminyaka emibili ubudala, kwaye ukuphuhliswa kwabo okuqhubekayo kusengcupheni.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Ukuba ukhangelekile, ngoko usebenzisa. Ngamanye amaxesha, cela umntwana ukuba abuyisele umxholo wefilimu aze axoxe ngezinto abathandayo kwaye oko kwakungekho. Ukuba umntwana usaphinda izivakalisi zentengiso, ungakuphazamisi-oku kugalela ekuphuhlisweni kwezixhobo zokuthetha. Kodwa qiniseka ukucacisa oko kuthetha ntoni: "I-pussy yakho yayiyithenge i-Whiskas, kwaye ukuba iyinyani."
Umbono
Xa sibheke into yangempela, izihlunu zamehlo ziqeqeshwe rhoqo, njengokungathi "ukuziva" into. Ngomabonakude, ngenye indlela. I-paradox yokujonga i-telephoto: umfanekiso kwiskrini ihamba, kunye nemizimba yegazi - akukho! Kwi-telescopes, izazinzulu ziphawula ukuhla kweemisebenzi kweso.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Fundisa abantwana ukuba balise into ababeyibonayo kwithempyuthele ye-TV. Ukuba umntwana ubona ibhola esikrinini, mnike ungokoqobo, makhe ahlolisise aze azive ekuphuhliseni imbonakalo yendawo kunye nombala. Thatha umntwana kwiseksi okanye kwi-zoo emva kokubukela ukusasazwa ngezilwanyana, ukwenzela ukuba ingqondo yomntwana ijikelezwe, yintoni i-tiger eyiyo ngokwenene kwaye yintoni imibala eyayinemibala yendalo.
Ukugonywa
Xa ubukele ukutshatyalaliswa okuthakazelisayo kumntwana, iinkqubo zokunciphisa umzimba zinciphisa i-90%. Yingakho "ithelevishini" abantwana bahlala benokuphazamiseka emsebenzini wegciwane lesisu. Kwinqanaba leengqondo, ukuphazamiseka kwezifo kukuphazanyiswa koonxibelelwano kunye nehlabathi langaphandle, ngoko ungamangaliswa ukuba iTV inenkathazo yokunxibelelana. " Ukongezelela, ngelixa libukele iTV, iindawo ezibizwa ngokuba zilambile zivuliwe, ezivusa ukutya. Kodwa! Ukutya into eyenziwa ngumbukeli, kunye namaziko obuchopho, enoxanduva lokuzilalisa, ukugqithisa (emva koko sonke sigxininiswe kwiTV), ngenxa yoko umntu udla ngokuphindwe kathathu. Inkokhelo eyongezelelweyo ye-kilo yokuhlanganiswa kwamamenyu amabini: umbukeli kunye nokutya.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Nqanda ngokukhawuleza abantwana ukuba badle phambi kweTV. Futhi musa ukubeka umzekelo ombi. Chaza kumntwana uhlobo lwalo "alukwazi."
Ikhono lokwenza izigqibo
Ubomi bokwenene, umntu omncinci ufunda oku kumdlalo - ukhetha indima yogqirha okanye unina, uyise okanye umama, ufanisa imeko zezobomi kwaye ufumana izicombululo. Ngomabonwakude uhlukile: umntwana ubukela ubudlelwane bebalinganiswa befilimu okanye i-cartoon, kodwa unqatshelwe ithuba lokukhetha - zonke sele zigqibile kuye kwaye zinikezela ngomkhiqizo ogqityiweyo. Ukongeza, ukusuka kwisikrini ngesimo seetoto ezingenakubungozi, abantwana bangakwazi ukufana nokubuyisela ixabiso lentshukumo yabantu. Ukuhlalutya iimbasa zeStrek eyaziwayo, izazinzulu zithetha ukuba le cartoon ibumba kubantwana abangaboniyo obubi bokuziphatha kwamadoda nabasetyhini. Umbutho, omele uhlale egorha, obuthathaka kwaye obuthathaka kwi-cartoon, ububele kunye nobuntombi balinde umthendeleko, kwaye uguquka ukuze abe namandla kwaye akhaliphe (khumbula umcimbi xa ikosikazi iphosa iintshaba ekunene nasekhohlo).
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Ngokuqhelekileyo kunika umntwana ithuba lokuthetha "ngokuphila". Ukunikela ukudlala egcekeni okanye ukuxelela imeko awayebenayo nabahlobo bakhe, cela malunga nesigqibo sakhe. Hlaziya kunye nomntwana, ingaba amaqhawe amacembe enza kakuhle kwaye kutheni.
Uloyiko nokunyaniseka
Nangona intsapho igcina ingxelo yeemiboniso zikamabonwakude, thobela ingqalelo engenamacala, ibonakala iifilimu. Ngokwezibalo, lo mdwebo weemifanekiso uhlawula ngaphezu kwengxenye yazo zonke iziganeko zobundlobongela (57%). Ukuba umntwana uyabonwa rhoqo kwiTV, ukuphuhliswa kwakhe kwemvakalelo kuphulwa, kunye nokukwazi ukubonisa imfesane novelwano. Abantwana abanjalo esikolweni bavame ukugqithwa njengama-hooligans, kwaye kwiminyaka yabo yeshumi elivisayo banokubeka umngcipheko wokuwa emlandweni wezobugebengu. Umfundi ngamnye wesithathu obona umboniso wesiganeko kwiTV, uvakalelwa ngoloyiko (ayisoloko ebonakalayo!) Kuhlala imizuzu emininzi, kunye neeyure - umntwana onjalo unokubandezeleka ngenxa yeengxaki zegazi, ukungazinzi, ukuxhalabisa.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Jonga i-TV kusengaphambili ukukhusela umntwana kwiinkqubo ezingafunekiyo. Ngokufanelekileyo, abantwana abaneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-7-8 ubudala banokungaboni iiprogram ezithetha ngeemeko ezimbi. Kodwa ukuba umntwana ebona oko, yakha umqondo wokhuselo: hlalani eduze kwakho, nxubile. Xa uxoxa ngezinto ezazibonwayo, cacisa oko kwenzekayo kwesikrini, gxi ninisa oko kwenziwa ukwenzela ukugcina abantu.
Ukuvakalelwa kwexesha
Iziphumo zeziphumo zophando eziqhutyelwe zibonise ukuba ukuba umntwana uchitha ixesha elide phambi kweTV, ukujonga kwakhe ixesha lokunciphisa umzuzu - umzuzu wakhe wokuzimela ungaphezu kwemizuzwana engama-60 de ukulahlekelwa ngqondo nexesha lokulahleka kweqiniso. Ukongezelela, ixesha lithelevishini licebile kakhulu, linamandla, iziganeko zilandelana ngesantya esikhulu, ngexesha elifutshane siphila ubomi obuninzi - "ngokwabo nangaloo mntu." Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimpilo yethelevishini ecacileyo kuyayilinga, kwaye inyaniso iyabuhlungu xa kuthelekiswa nayo. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni kuxhomekeke kwi-tele. EYurophu, ngoku i-5-6% yabantwana abanokuthathwa njengexhomekeke kwi-tele-dependence, bachitha kwi-screen ye-blue kwi-5 iiyure ngosuku.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Dose ixesha elichithwe kwiTV.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu abanamkeli kwiTV. Umonakalo ovela ekubukeni kule minyaka mkhulu! Abantwana 3-6 iminyaka - engekho ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-20 ngosuku. Ukwahlula apho okwenene, kwaye apho kucinga khona, abantwana banzima iminyaka engama-7. Abantwana besikolo 6-11 iminyaka-engaphantsi kwemizuzu engama-40. Ngeli xesha, isimo sengqondo sento ebonwayo senziwa, ukujonga ngokubalulekileyo abantu abathengisa abantu.
Xoxa nabantwana ngezenzo zamaqhawe e-movie. Abaselula (iminyaka eyi-11-14) - ukuya kweyure eli-1. 14-18 iminyaka iiyure ezingama--2. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhethwa kweegesi. Myekele umntwana ukuba athethe ukhetho lwenkqubo okanye ifilimu, yabelane nabazali oko bamkhanga okanye oko akufundileyo ngokujonga. Ixesha elisetyenziselwe ukubukwa kunye kunye nengxoxo yento ebonwayo ibaluleke kakhulu.