Kubazali, eli xesha alisoloko lulula. Bobabini ngemali nangokomzwelo. Iindleko zeklasi lokuqala zibalulekile, kuba kufuneka uthenge yonke into, kwiincwadi ukuya kwizicathulo. Ngokweengqondo, abazali bafuna ukulungelelanisa nesiqulatho sesikolo, asiyi kusebenzela iholide yabo yokuphela kweveki, ukuba i-kindergarten ingahlawulwa, ngoko isikolo ngaphandle kwesizathu akufanele sinyanzeliswe. Ekubeni isihloko esinye sinokuqwalaselwa njengesifundo esinye, kwaye ukuba usiqhekeza, yonke inkqubo inokuyeka. Ngoko ke, ngamnye umntu omdala naye kufuneka aqonde ukuba isigaba esitsha ebomini babo sele siqalile.
Kuthetha ukuthini kwisikolo sokuqala esikolweni? Abantwana abangaqhelekanga, ootitshala kunye neeklasi ezininzi, ezivela okokuqala okokuqala akukho nto isebenza. Kukulungile xa umntwana engena kwiklasi apho kukho abantwana abenaye kwi-kindergarten, okanye umhlobo ohlala kuyo. Kodwa xa umntu omncinci othukile ewela kwisimo esingaqhelekanga, ulahlekile. Ekuqaleni umntwana ufuna inkxaso. Abazali bafanele bakhuthaze baze badumise umntwana wabo, ukuze umnqweno wokufunda ungalahleki. Ootitshala, inkxaso, ukuba into engacacile kumntwana, uchaze ngesineke. Akukho mzekelo ongavelanga ilizwi lomntwana, oku kungakhokelela ekubeni umntwana uvala ngokwayo kwaye umnqweno wokufunda uya kulahla.
Inketho enhle kubazali abaxakekile kukuba liqela lelanga elide. Ngokuqhelekileyo, emva kwesiqingatha seyure, ukuba umntwana engathatyathwa emva kweemfundo, umfundi uhlala esongeziweyo, nangona ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bavumelana ngoku kwangaphambili.
Isizathu esihle ekuhambeni okude esikolweni, ukusebenza komsebenzi wesikolo phantsi kolawulo lwabafundisi, xa bengayiqondi isihloko esithile, utitshala uya kuchaza kwindawo. Emva kokugqiba yonke imisebenzi, kunokwenzeka ukuba udlale kunye noontanga bakho.
Kwimabanga aphezulu, sele sele sele kukhethwe ukhetho kwiindidi. Impendulo ebalulekileyo yemfundo yesikolo kukukwahlukana phakathi kwabantwana ngokubhekiselele kwisimo sabo kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Mhlawumbi, ngale ndlela kwakulula xa kwakukho ifom yesikolo. Ubundlobongela esikolweni baba njalo, kwaye isimo sengqondo esinobudlova sabonakala kwintombi kunye namakhwenkwe.
Yintoni ekhuthaza abaselula? Kutheni abantu abatsha banomdla ngoku? Mhlawumbi, ngokuba ngoku yonke iitshini zeTV zisasaza iifilimu ezinokutsha kunye neeprogram ezikhuthaza ixabiso eliphambili, imali kunye namandla. Kwaye ngoko, abantwana abaselula bayasungulwa kwimijikelezo ethile, bafumana udumo phakathi kwabahlobo babo.
Imidlalo yekhompyutha igcwele ubundlobongela. Batsho ngokugqithiseleyo igazi nokubulala, abo baselula baqala ukudibanisa ubomi obunjani kunye nekhoyo. Kwaye bacinga ukuba yonke into ayifuni.
Ukuze ugweme oku, ukususela ekuqaleni qalisa umdla kumntwana, bhala phantsi kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo kunye namacandelo. Makhe azame ukuzikhethela ngokwakhe, musa ukunyanzelisa uluvo lwakhe nantoni na, kungenjalo akuyi kuba naluphi na umqondo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana akhethe umsebenzi ngokwakhe kunye nokuphucula izakhono zakhe kule ndawo. Ndikholelwe, umntwana onomdla kwizinto ezinzulu, akafuni ukuchitha ulwazi lwakhe kunye nezakhono kwizinto ezintle, njengento yokunyelisa abaontanga.
Nika abantwana bakho ixesha elide, kaninzi bathi uthanda.