Umgibe woqalayo
Ukulungiswa kwe-newbie ukucinga ngendlela yokuvavanya njengesivivinywa imeko eqhelekileyo, apho abanye abalawuli kunye nabasemagunyeni abasebenzisa. Olu luhlobo luvavanyo lolwazi, nangona ngamanye amaxesha lungafana. Jonga oogxa bakho: ukuba basebenza ngendlela eqhelekileyo kwaye bangathwali iibhegi zokulala nabo eofisini, i-"katorga" yakho iya kuphelisa. Ukuba ngaba dnyuyut kwaye bachitha ubusuku kunye nawe - kuninzi ukucinga ngako: kukufanelekile ukutshintsha zonke zakho zobuqu, uluntu kunye nantoni na onayo ubomi ubomi obuthile. Xa uqhuba umsebenzi wokusinda, zama ukubonisa ubungcali obuninzi: ungaqhagamshelani nabo oogxa bancedisa uncedo, sombulula yonke imiba kunye nomntu oninike umsebenzi. Imibuzo yakho engapheliyo iyakunciphisa ukuzithemba kuwe kwaye idale ingcinga yokuba awukho ndawo. Futhi uqaphele ngezicelo zabalingane: musa ukuthatha umsebenzi womnye umntu, ngokukhawuleza wenqabe into engeyona inxalenye yemisebenzi yakho. Ngaphandle koko, ubeka umngcipheko weendlela zokuqhuba malunga neqela lonke. Isixhobo sakho esiyimfihlo ekuloleni indawo kwiqela liyabonwa.
Ixesha leNkqubo
Ngokuhambelana nomthetho waseRashiya, ixesha lexesha lesilingo akufanele lidlule iinyanga ezintathu. Ukungabikho kwemicimbi - iintloko zeemibutho, iingxelo-mali kunye nabaphathi babo, kunye neentloko zamasebe kunye namaofisi okumela (ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu). Ukongeza, umqeshi akanalo ilungelo lokunika ithuba lokuqesha abafazi abakhulelweyo, abatsha abaneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-18, kunye nabaqeqeshi abatsha abangena kulo msebenzi. Ungesabi ukuba ekuqaleni awuyi kuhlawulwa: mhlawumbi, oku kukuphendula ngokukhusela kweqela kumntu omtsha. Ukuba awunakunikelwa, qwaba umzuzu ofanelekileyo uze uze kuwe, faka isandla sakho, umomotheka. Zive ukhululekile ukuzisa ikheke kunye neziqhamo kwaye ube neqela leti. Ukuba uhlala uzinzile, ungazenzeli njengento engabonakaliyo kakhulu-iya kukhangeleka kwaye ayiqhelekanga. Ukuba uvele nje ushukunywe ngumzwelo - zithi: kuya kutsala abantu kuwe. Unganqikazi ukubuza malunga namasiko kunye nezithethe zeqela: umzekelo, njani iholide igubha okanye apho ihamba khona ngokutya kwamasemini? Imibuzo enjalo yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqalisa ingxoxo kunye nokuseka uqhagamshelwano. Musa ukuphepha iingxabano zengcali: kaninzi abazalwanga yinyaniso kuphela, kodwa kunye neengcamango ezinomdla kunye nezisombululo zokudala. Zive ukhululekile ukubonisa ingcamango yakho, kodwa qaphela indlela oyenzayo ngayo. Ungafaki uxinzelelo kubantu osebenza nabo imini kunye nemini, njengoko inkxaso kunye nentlonipho yabo kubalulekile kwimpumelelo yakho. Funda ukukhetha ixesha elifanelekileyo ukubonisa ingcamango yakho kumbono weengcamango; Ungalibali ukuqiniseka ukuba isebenza, kwaye uyamkela iingcamango zabanye. Isicwangciso sakho ekuxoxeni nomphathi ukulungisa. Mphathwe njengomxhasi, unomdla, kodwa ubaluleke kakhulu. Ukufunda ngokucophelela iindlela zakhe zokunxibelelana kunye nesitayela: ukuba uthetha ngokuthe ngqo kwaye ngoqobo-ngaphandle kweencwadi zakho kunye neengxelo zonke iingoma kunye neenkcazelo, kuphela kubaluleke kakhulu nakwiindawo. Uyakuthanda ukusasaza ingcamango malunga neekhilomitha zephepha-engeza izibilini kunye nemvakalelo, uhlalutye kakuhle into nganye. Faka amagama ngamazwi awayewasebenzisa ngumphathi. Thetha nomphathi ngolwimi lwakhe - kunye nexabiso ongeke ube nalo emehlweni akhe.
Iimfihlelo zeempumelelo ezivela ku-Este Lauder, umfazi owawakhe umbuso:
- Akukho mpu melelo ngaphandle komsebenzi oqhubekayo, ukungabikho kokulala nokuqwalasela ngokufutshane iinkcukacha.
- Ukuba awukho emoyeni, ungabhali. Ndifunde le mithetho emininzi edlulileyo. Ukuba ubhala into, la magama aya kubuyiselwa.
- Ubambe iinyosi ezininzi zobusi. Nangona ulaka lwakho lulungile, ungabhubhisi ubudlelwane, ungabhidli ubudlelwane, ngakumbi iibhizinisi.
- Gcina engqondweni umfanekiso ocacileyo wento ofuna. Ukususela ekuqaleni ndayazi ukuba ndifuna ukuba phakathi kwabakhiqizi bezonyango ezithengisa kakhulu. Thabatha ingqalelo kumncintiswano. Yiba nomdla kwezinye iimbono zabantu kwaye uzame ukuzibona ngcono.
- Funda ukuthi cha. Umkhwa wokuphendula rhoqo "ewe" ngumnqweno womntwana wokuhlala ukholisa wonke umntu.
- Yithembele izilwanyana zakho. Ndabona ukuba "iinyaniso" zihlala zikhokelela endleleni engalunganga.
- Qiniseka. Oku akuthethi ukuba yintlonelo okanye inkohlakalo. Unokuba ngumfazi kwaye unzima.
- Ukwahlula kwaye ulawule. Kufuneka kubekho umntu omnye phezulu ophethe igama lokugcina eligunyazisiweyo. Imfihlelo yokuphuhlisa ishishini ilula: ungena kwimarike kunye nemveliso engcono. Eyona nto ibhetele.
Ukubonakala kwakho kuthatha indima ebalulekileyo: ukuba inkampani ibonisa ikhowudi yokugqoka, ngoko intandokazi yesigqoko sakho sambatho sinamathethelo angqongqo, ulungelelwano olungathathi hlangothi kunye nokukhanya, okungaqhelekanga. Kwaye nangona usebenza phakathi kwezidalwa ezingabambeleli kule migangatho, zibandakanya iimpahla ezingcolileyo, iingubo ezimfutshane, i-decollete kunye nemibala eqaqambileyo. Ngaba ufuna ukubonwa ngokwaneleyo? Iingxaki zengxabano azikwazi ukunqandwa, kodwa ezininzi zazo ziba zigqibo. Umphathi wakho wayefuna ukuphosa ulwaphulo oluninzi, kwaye wawela phantsi kwengalo yakho? Into ephambili, gcina umsindo. Emva kancinci, xa isiphepho siphelile, uya kuba nelithuba lokuthula kwaye uxoxe ngokuzimeleyo le meko uze ucacise ukuba ukuziphatha okunjalo kwixesha elizayo akuvumelekanga. Ndikholelwe: ukuba umphathi wonke uqeqesho kwaye unelisekile, uya kuphulaphula kwaye akayi kuvumela eli lizayo.
Emva kokuba ufumene umsebenzi wesibonelelo, musa ukukhawuleza ungene kwimigca engaziwayo, kodwa okokuqala, funda umqeshi wakho. Funda iKhowudi yeMisebenzi, nangona kubonakala kunzima kuwe. Uya kwenza ezininzi zokufumanisa: umzekelo, kufuneka ufake isicelo somshuwalense kunye nenkontileka yengqesho kunye nawe ukususela ngosuku lokuqala lomsebenzi, nangona ubude bexesha lovavanyo. Yaye ukuba ukuba ukhulelwe, awukwazi ukugxothwa phantsi kweyiphi na imeko, de kube umntwana eneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Qaphela abo baqashi abanomsebenzi wokuvavanywa bacelwa ukuba babhale isicwangciso soshishino okanye bavelise ingcamango yomcimbi. Kubonakala ukuba, bavele baphuma ngaphandle kweengcinga, kwaye banquma ukukusebenzisa mahhala. Iphothifoliyo bubungqina obaneleyo bokubaluleka kwakho okungenakuqhathaniswa. Ukuba ukhangele umsebenzi osisigxina, ungahlali kwiikhontrakthi zengqesho eziqeshwe ngokukhawuleza: zishiya ilungelo lokuba umqeshi akushiye ngaphandle kwengcaciso emva kokuphela kwekota. Umbuzo wesimo sakho sengqondo kufuneka uqikelele: oku kuthetha ukuba umhla osebenzayo uya kudlulela rhoqo kwiiyure eziyi-8. Ingongoma emfuno yomviwa "ukunyanzeliswa kwengcinezelo" - kungekhona amagama angenanto. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba ngumsebenzi wokuqokelela, apho izibonda kunye neentlogue zingaguquki kwaye kukho umoya ongathandekiyo. Kwaye u-bossical boss. Ukuba unikezelwa ukuba ungene kwisilingo esingaqhelekanga sengqondo ngaphambi kokuya emsebenzini, oku kufuneka kukuqaphele: kwiimeko ezininzi ezi nantoni na enxulumene nobuchule bakho nobuchule bakho. Ngokulula, ngaloo ndlela, umqeshi uchaza ubuthakathaka bakho, obuya kukusebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo. Musa ukuhlala kwindawo ebizwa ngokuthi "ukuqeqeshwa kwamahhala" - uya kuba ngumsebenzi ongenakuhlawulwa. Kuyafana nokwenza iintlawulo kwiqela lakho "iphakheji yokuqala" kunye nezibonelelo ezifanayo. Qaphela: ungcamisi!