Abantwana bazalwa benomdla wabo, iinjongo, iimfuno. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uchaze ngokucacileyo zonke izinto eziphambili. Qaphela ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzama nzima kangakanani, awukwazi ukufaka umntwana esikhundleni sontanga. Nangona unethuba lokushiya umntwana wakho kunye nogogo nomkhulu, ngenxa yobudala bakho, abayi kukwazi ukuzonwabisa kumntwana ukuba anikezele ukunyaniseka kwakhe, kwaye afundise ngamasu anamhlanje. Ekubeni yonke into ishintshile ngokuphawulekayo kwanaxesha lobuncinci bethu, sithini ntoni ngesizukulwana esikhulileyo.
Ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana wakho unoluntu , ujabulela ukudlala nabantwana kunye nengqondo eyithandayo, ngoko kufuneka uqikelele ngokumalunga nomntwana wakho kunye noluntu olufanelekileyo. Ukuba usenqume ukunika umntwana inkulisa, kufuneka ulungise umntwana ngokuthe ngcembe.
Okokuqala, zama ukunamathela kwi-regime , eya kuba se-kindergarten, ekhaya. Ukutya kwasekuseni, isidlo sasemini, ukulala ngexesha elithile, i-mid-day snack, kunye nesidlo sakusasa kufana neyakho. Oku kuya kunceda ukulungelelanisa ngakumbi kumyezo. Isinyathelo esilandelayo, kusengaphambili, uqalise umntwana kumkhathaleli kunye namannies, ukwenzela ukuba ngosuku lokuqala umntwana afikelele kubantu abangaqhelekanga kuye. Xa kufika ixesha lokutyelela i-kindergarten, umntwana oqhelekileyo ngokuthe ngcembe, iintsuku zokuqala, ushiye ihafu yeeyure, ukuphulaphula indlela umntwana aziphatha ngayo kwiqela, ukuba akukho ukukhala kunye neenkwenkwezi, qhubela phambili ukutyelela, kodwa imihla ngemihla iqhubekeka imizuzu elishumi. Ukuba umntwana uyakhala, zama ukuhlala naye ngeli xesha, makabe edlala, kodwa ngelo xesha uya kukwazi ukuba umama usekufuphi.
Kancinci ungacinga ukuba uxhomekeke ekuhambeni imizuzu embalwa, umzekelo, "Ndifuna ukuhamba ngomzuzu, fowuna, ngoku ndiya kuza." Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana omncinci uya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo ekungabikho kwakho. Ewe, kulo mzekelo, ukusetyenziswa kwintsimi kuya kulibaziseka, kodwa oku kungcono kunokukhathazeka kwengqondo yengane.
Kukho ezininzi iingxabano ekuthandweni kwontanga. Okokuqala, umntwana ufunda ukunxibelelana, kuba i-kindergarten imodeli yoluntu. Ufunda ukukhetha ukuba ngubani ofuna ukuba ngabahlobo bakhe, kwaye ngubani owaziyo nje. Okwesibini, iiklasi ezenziwa ngabafundisi bezakhono, ukuphuhlisa izakhono zezithuthi ezifanelekileyo, ingqwalasela, ukucinga. Kwimibutho ephezulu kunye namalungiselelo, abantwana sele belungiselela isikolo, kwifom edlalwayo kunye nokufikeleleka babonisa ileta kunye nokufunda. Kuyaziwa ukuba abantwana abanamhlanje bayathanda ukudlala, kwaye bafundise into ethile, kubalulekile ukuba banomdla, ngulo msebenzi wootitshala. Indlela echanekileyo kumntwana ngamnye, inika umphumo, umntu oqinileyo nobunzima.
Nangona wena ngokwakho ufundisa umntwana wakho , akukho siqinisekiso sokuba ukhethe indlela efanelekileyo yokufundisa. Umama uyazi into enhle kumntwana, utsho. Ewe, nawuphi na umama oziva kwinqanaba elingaphantsi kwengqondo yengqondo yengane. Kodwa ucingo ngokuchasene nezinto ezingabonakaliyo "ezingalunganga", kulo mzekelo, nje u-egoism, ukuhlukaniswa ngokucacileyo kwihlabathi. Kwixesha elizayo, umntwana uya kungena kuwo angakulungelekanga aze adideke. Ndiya kuhlala ndilapho, kwakhona uya kuthetha. Kodwa awukwazi ukukhusela umntwana wakho esikolweni, emsebenzini. Ngokungafani nokuba awukuthandi, kodwa ngamnye umntwana kufuneka adlulise ukulungelelanisa kuluntu, kwaye unokuqiniseka ukuba unokukwazi ukuzimela.