Nayiphi na iholide, nangona iqaqambile kwaye ivuya ngokwayo, ayikwazi ukuba yinto enjalo, ukuba ayilunganga ngexesha layo. Unokuzilungiselela, kodwa indlela yokuphakamisa nokugcina umoya wokudibanisa? Akuyimfuneko ukuqonda izakhono zomqhubi we-toastmaster, ukwanele ukuba ube nempikiswano emincinci emnandi okanye imidlalo ehambelana nayo nayiphi na into ebumbeneyo ukuze ithathe le nto ezandleni zakho kwaye "ilula" uluntu ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
Imincintiswano emihle yoNyaka weNtsha
Kukho imincintiswano eyahlukeneyo eya kuhambelana ngokupheleleyo nenxalenye ebalulekileyo yoNyaka woNyaka omtsha. Kodwa, ukhetha enye okanye enye, umntu akanakukungaziboni iminyaka okanye ubunzima besigaba, kwaye isondo ayiyona indima ebalulekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, uluhlu olukhuselekileyo lukhuphiswano. Ewe, kukho imincintiswano apho abaninzi abaphulaphuli, i-merrier.
Ngokwenza oko, iimincintiswano ezimnandi ezibanjelwe kumaqela amashishini azikho nje ukuhlawulwa kwezinto ezintle kunye namandla, nazo zininzi ezinkumbulo ezintle, kuba amazwi anjalo aqala ukuhlala ubomi babo, bahlala bekhunjulwa emva kwexesha kwaye babuyele ngokukhawuleza kwixesha elimnandi nelovuyo.
Imincintiswano emihle yoNyaka omtsha - "iDokotela waseSly"
Abalinganiswa:
Abahlali:
- Abantu abangaphantsi kwe-3, ubuninzi abuphelelanga.
Ingundoqo yale mpikiswano yokuzonwabisa yile ndlela ilandelayo, umongikazi uguqula "ugulane" ugqirha ukuze ahlolwe. Ugqirha, esebenzisa izixhobo zonyango (ezi zilandelayo zingabona zihluke kakhulu, ukusuka kwi tonometer okanye i-malleus ukuya kwizixhobo zonyango), uqhuba uviwo. Ngokuqinisekileyo zonke izigulane ugqirha ucela ihlombe lasekhohlo ngesandla sakhe sasekhohlo. Ekuphenduleni, kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezivakalisi, umzekelo: "Ewe kulula!", "Oo, wam Thixo!", "Andikwazi ukuyifumana.", "Hayi, yintoni na?". Ukuhlawula ingqalelo ekhethekileyo, ugqirha ugqiba uviwo, kwaye unikeza icebiso "eluncedo" eliya kumisela umntu njengomntu kwaye akukho nto iya kumcaphukisa.
Umncedisi osebenzayo Umongikazi, ngexesha leemviwo zonke, ubhala ngokucophelela igama lomguli kunye neempendulo ezichazayo. Nangona wonke umntu, ubhala ukuxilongwa okunikezelwa isigulane. Ukhuphiswano olungakumbi olungenangqiqo luya kubakho xa uluntu luyahlukahluka ngazo zonke iindlela. Abantu abaxhamlileyo baya kuthatha inxaxheba kumncintiswano, amazwi ahlukeneyo aya kusiva.
Emva kokuba uviwo lugqityiwe, umongikazi uthumela ugqirha kwiirekhodi ezithunyelwa ngokubonisa ngendlela elandelwe umgca.
- Ngobusuku bomtshato, u-Anna (igama lomntu athatha inxaxheba) wathi: "Ewe kulula!".
- Ngobusuku bomtshato u-Ivan (igama lomntu othabatha inxaxheba) wathi: "Hayi, uyifumane kwaye yintoni na?".
Nangona "isigulane" sathintela ihlombe, akayi kumshiya ingqalelo, kuba ngobusuku bemitshato, "wayedlwengula."
