Indlela yokufumana umntu wamaphupha akho kwi-intanethi?

Iindaba malunga nendlela amantombazana atyelela ngayo umtshato kwiinkosana, abaye bafumana inethiwekhi, ngokwaneleyo. Ukuba uthe wagqiba ekubeni ulandele umzekelo wabo kwaye ufake iprofayili yakho kwisiza sokuthandana, qaphela kwaye wenze isilumkiso - iziphambeko kunye ne-maniacs zaneleyo yonke indawo.


Iprofayili yakho.
Nqabile njengoko kubonakala ngathi, kodwa bhala ngawe kuphela inyaniso. Ukuba ufuna ubuhlobo bokwenene obuqinileyo, buxoki ukususela ekuqaleni kwenanto. Ngoko ke, cacisa ubudala bakho, ubude nobukhulu. Ewe, kakuhle, unokunciphisa ubunzima, kuba ude ufumana ukukhangela, ubunzima bakho bunciphisa kakhulu - ukusuka kwintlalo enjalo.
Iifaka kwindawo ephakamileyo. Amantombazana amaninzi enza iimpazamo ezimbini - zibeka imifanekiso ethathwa yifowuni rhoqo. Akuyi kubhena. Abanye basasaza iifoto ezintle kakhulu, ezicwangciswa ngokucophelela kwaye zilungiswe kwi "Photoshop". Kwintlanganiso, amadoda ayifumananga ngokufanayo phakathi kwentombazana ehlala echasene neyoyikrazula kwiskrini, ngoko ulwalamano lubophelelwe ngokukhawuleza. Khetha into ithetha. Vumela imifanekiso ibe yi-studio, kodwa iinwele, iimpahla kunye nokwenza-ngokuqhelekileyo. Musa ukubheka ngathi uzimisele ukukhipha udoti, kodwa akudingeki ukuba wenze iseshoni yesithombe "yokumkela kunye nenkosikazi."

Zixelele malunga neenkcukacha ezininzi njengoko kunokwenzeka, kodwa kuphela ezo ezingakugxekayo kwaye aziyi kukuvumela ukubala ngaphambi kokuba ufuna. Ngoko ke, ungacacisi idilesi, indawo yomsebenzi kunye nefowuni. Isixeko, umsebenzi, imfundo - yanele.
Zama ukuchaza ngokuchanekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuba ngubani ofunayo: indoda, umthandi, umxhasi, umgcini? Chaza ubude obunqwenelayo, ubunzima, ukhetho - nantoni na into oyibonayo. Kule nqanaba, uhlunga ezinye zezo zingazi phantsi kweenkcazo zakho. Kodwa, ngelo xesha, akudingeki ubeke imida ecacileyo kakhulu, uyazi ukuba iinkosana azikho?
Eyona nto, ukuba unako ukudala ukucinga kakuhle kwakho. Intombazana enomdla ongenomdla, kodwa ukwazi ixabiso lento oyifunayo.

Uluhlu.
Abaqalayo bahlala beqaphela, ngokukodwa ngokutsha okutsha. Ngoko ke, ekuqaleni uya kuphazamiseka.
Zama ukugxeka bonke abantu abafuna ukuziqhelanisa. Ungathembeli abo abangabonakali ubuso babo. Iphrofayli ngaphandle kwesitayile yinkampu yokulinganisa, ngaphesheya konke into ingaba nayiphi na into.
Zama ukubuza imibuzo ephakamileyo enokubakho. Vumela umviwa ukuba athethe intetho ngaye ngokwakhe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Musa ukubuza malunga nokuba ufumana phi, ngaphandle kokuba ufuna umxhasi.
Yazi ukuba umntu ubhala ngeempazamo ezininzi, ungumntu wesinye isizwe okanye uyisidenge. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafakazela ukuba ulwaphulo-mthetho luyakuchaphazela ukufunda kwethu. Ngaphandle kokungaqhelekanga, lo mgaqo usebenza. Indoda enobuchule iyayiqonda ngokulula imithetho elula yokusetyenziswa kwegrama.
Musa ukuhambela kwiindawo ezinokuzithemba, kwiinkampani ezingaqhelekanga kuwe. Kucace ngokucacileyo into evumelekileyo phakathi kwakho, kwaye yintoni engekho, ubona njani ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane kunye noko ulindele ntoni. Ngaphandle koko, usengozini yokulala ebhedeni lomnye ubusuku obunye.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uthanda umntu kangakanani, ungathembi. Ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kunabo bantu babantu abahle kakhulu nabangendawo - khumbula oku. Unxibelelwano luyingozi kakhulu ukuba lube ngumngcolisi, ngoko uzama ukujonga konke okusemandleni okuhlola nokuqwalasela izinto ezincinci. Ukuba kukho into ekukhathazayo, kungcono ukuyeka intlanganiso kunokuzisola.
Musa ukulibala malunga ne-inshurensi. Xelela izalamane zakho apho kwaye uya kuhamba nani xa kufuneka ubuyele. Abahlobo banokushiya nenombolo yakhe yefowuni mhlawumbi. Vumela umhlobo wakho akubizele ngezikhathi ezithile. Kukulungeleka kuba unako ukusinda ngokukhawuleza ukusuka kumhla, uzenza ngathi ubiza emsebenzini xa kukho into engalunganga.

I-intanethi yilothothi enkulu, ilahlekelwa apha ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye amabali avuyayo atshisa umdla. Yilungele, ukuba ngomhla esikhundleni senkampani yeBelaeraos kuya kuba nekopi yeShekrek. Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba ininzi yamadoda axhomekeke kwiindawo zokutshata zitshatile okanye zifuna ubudlelwane obungabophelanga, zimbalwa kuphela ezinzulu malunga nokukhangela njengoko unjalo. Ngoko ke, ukukhungatheka akunakwenzeka. Makube yindlela enye yokufumana umntu othandekayo, enye inketho, kungekhona ithemba lokugqibela, ngoko unalo ithuba lokulahlekelwa kwiwebhu kwaye uphuma ngaphandle ngaphandle kwelahleko okanye ngomvuzo.