Abazali, abanabantwana babo ukusuka kwimihla yokuqala yesikolo esikolweni benza umsebenzi wabo wesikolo ngokwabo, bachanekanga njengabo baqhelisa abantwana babo. Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba enze umsebenzi wesikolo? Uya kufunda ngale nto kwinqaku lethu.
Abazali kufuneka bancede umntwana omncinci wesikolo kunye nombutho wendawo yokusebenzela, ukuqulunqa inkqubo yansuku zonke nokugqiba ukulandelelana kwezifundo zokupheka. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ekuqaleni umntwana wakho uya kwenza iimpazamo kunye neebhloko. Oku kubangelwa kukuba akafundile indlela yokuhambisa ingqalelo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukhathala. Yiya xa wenza umsebenzi wesikolo sokuqala, umvuselele, uchaze ukuba umntwana akayiqondi into okanye ayikhohliwe, kodwa musa ukwenza umsebenzi kuye.
Ngexesha elide, kuya kuba nelungelo lokuba khona xa uqhuba izifundo kwaye ukhangele ukuchaneka kwemisebenzi.
Injabulo enkulu ibonwa ngumdlali wokuqala, xa esikolweni baqala ukumbeka amabanga. Kuhle xa ufumana "ezintlanu". Kubalulekile ukuxoxa nomntwana ukuba akudingeki ukuba ubonise amabakala akho kwaye uxoxe kuphela nalabo abalungileyo ekufundeni. Ukuvavanya ngumvuzo womsebenzi okhutheleyo.
Ukuba uqikelelo ekuqaleni alukho phezulu njengoko singathanda, sifuna ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni isizathu salo mcimbi wezemicimbi. Ngokuqhelekileyo izizathu zokungaphumeleli kokuqala komntwana zincinci, ukungacaciswanga kunye nokungalindelekanga. Sebenzisana nendodana okanye intombi yakho ekhaya kwaye uya kubona ukuba isantya somsebenzi siya kukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, ukuxininisa kuya kwanda, ukubhala ngesandla kuya kuphucula. Dumisani umntwana ngenxa yemizamo yabo, menze akholwe ngamandla abo.
Kwimeko xa umntwana ejongene nobunzima ixesha elide kunye neengcebiso zothisha azincedi, funani iingcebiso kumcebisi wengqondo.
Kwaye ngoku siza kuxubusha indlela yokwenza umkhwa womntwana wokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo.
Kungcono ukuhlala kwizifundo kwiyure nesiqingatha emva kokubuya esikolweni. Umntwana kufuneka abe nexesha lokuphumla esikolweni. Abantwana ababhalisile kwisibini yokutshintshwa bayacetyiswa ukuba benze umsebenzi wabo wesikolo ekuseni.
Abazali abaninzi banqwenela kumntwana ukuba akavuki etafileni aze aqalane nayo yonke imisebenzi. Oku akufanele kwenziwe. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 unokuqhubeka ngokubandakanyeka kwimitha eyi-15-20, ekupheleni kwesikolo esiprayimari - imizuzu engama-30-40. Ixesha lokuphuka limizuzu emi-5. Unako, umzekelo, udlale le mizuzu emihlanu ngomntwana.
Umsebenzi wesikolo owongezelelweyo ukunika umntwana akuyimfuneko. Kwanele kwaye abo babuza utitshala.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 bakhawuleza bakhathala. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana wakho waya kwibanga lokuqala kwi-6 ubudala, ungaqhubeki naluphi na uqeqesho ekhaya. Vumela umntwana ukuba adlale, atye, atyebe okanye adize.
Nanku kufika umzuzu xa umntwana ehleli etafileni waza wathatha incwadana. Umama okanye ubaba-wokuqala-mgcini-mzuzu ngeli xesha kufuneka abe khona. Landela ukuba umntwana akaphazamiseki kwizifundo. Amazwi omzali akufanele aphazamise naye. Ukubuyisela ingqalelo yomfundi kumsebenzi unokuba ngumqondiso okanye isikhumbuzo.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukukhumbuza ukuba umntwana akazange abhale emasimini, wehlise inani elifunekayo leeseli xa ushukuthela kumzekelo omtsha.
Ngokuhamba kwexesha, nciphise umlinganiselo wokulawula: kuya kukwanela ukuba uhlale eceleni komntwana kuphela imizuzu embalwa yokuqala, ngelixa ulungiselela yonke into kwiiklasi. Ngethuba eliza kuthethwa ngalo ngumntwana, eze kuye ezimbalwa izihlandlo: yima ecaleni uze uphinde uhambe. Umfundi ophumelele kwisikolo sokuqala kufuneka ufunde ngokuzimeleyo izifundo. Umsebenzi wabazali kukuhlola.
Amanqaku aphantsi okungahambelani kakuhle, iibhloko kwi-notebook, isilathiso esinzulu kumntwana. Tshela umntwana wakho ukuba uyacaphukisa kwaye unethemba lokuba amanqaku kwiphepha liza kuchaneka ngakumbi.
Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba umntwana uyazi izinto eziphathekayo, kodwa ezixhalabisa ngoko ke zifumana amanqaku amabi ngeempendulo zomlomo. Mkhuthaze, khuthaze ukholo lwakho ngamandla. Yaye bonke baya kuvela!
Kukho imeko apho uphawu lubekwe ngephutha. Utitshala akanakuqonda oko umntwana wayefuna ukuthetha. Kakade, oku akubi, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuxoxa ngeziganeko ezinjalo.
"Iingqungquthela" akuyiyo inhlekelele. Kodwa "ezintlanu" nazo azidingeki ukuba zithande. Umntwana uya esikolweni akavuyiswa ngamabakala aphezulu, kodwa ngenxa yolwazi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo unokuva izikhalazo ezingathandwa ngumntwana ukufunda. Kubantwana, ukungazithethi ngokuqhelekileyo kudla ngokubonakala ekupheleni kwesikolo esiprayimari. Isenzo kufuneka sithathwe ngokukhawuleza: ixesha eliselula eliselula liyasondela. Kwaye kulukhuni ngakumbi ukuthanda uthando esikolweni kwintle.
Abazali kuphela abaziqonda oko kubangelwa ukungafuni ukufunda. Mhlawumbi, umntwana ulwalamano olunzulu kunye notitshala. Kwaye mhlawumbi iphoso laliyimpumelelo. Isikolo senza iimvakalelo ezingathandeki kumntwana. Kule meko, abazali mabayeke ukuphawula ukungaphumeleli, ukunyamekela ezo mpu melelo zikolo.
Isikolo somntwana akufanele sihlanganiswe kuphela nezifundo. Okwangoku, kukho amaqela amaninzi kunye namacandelo kwiminqweno. Nangona umntwana wakho engafundanga kakuhle, musa ukumnqabela ukuba enze oko akuthandayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana akayithandi isikolo ngenxa yobunzima bokuthetha noontanga. Ewe, akunakwenzeka xa kwiklasi ungenabo abahlobo okanye uhlala uncatshiswa. Kodwa ungayilungisa imeko. Ngokuqhelekileyo mema abantwana ofunda nabo ukuba ba tyelele. Yenza imidlalo edibeneyo. Kuya kubangela ukuba abantwana basondelane, kuya kubangelelana.